Author Topic: Master Dating Thread (Read 759528 times)

yoga-like_abana · « **Reply #2375 on:** May 10, 2013, 02:02:04 PM »

Texting has its benefits but the cons can outweigh it.. It is nice to be able to easily keep in touch throughout the day even while busy.. plus dick pics

Mrs. Gooch · « **Reply #2376 on:** May 10, 2013, 02:09:29 PM »

Yeah seems like texting could be beneficial but Facebook may be a problem. I mean you have to figure out when/if to change your relationship status and then hope that the person doesn't reject it.

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #2377 on:** May 10, 2013, 02:20:04 PM »

Quote from: Mrs. Gooch on May 10, 2013, 02:09:29 PM

Yeah seems like texting could be beneficial but Facebook may be a problem. I mean you have to figure out when/if to change your relationship status and then hope that the person doesn't reject it.

Yup. Especially if you're dating a K-Stater with mutual friends. Then, you're like, "oh, crap. She's friends with her? I hope they don't talk much anymore. Oh? What's that? You're best friends and you're going out this weekend together? Don't bring my name up!

"

ben ji · « **Reply #2378 on:** May 10, 2013, 02:21:57 PM »

Quote from: ben ji on December 10, 2012, 10:33:07 AM

What is everyone's view on getting back with old flames?

Dated a girl for about a year and broke up with her September of 11. She took it rough, defriended me on FB and everything.

Feel like i maybe made a mistake as she's a real nice girl and I just kind of panic'd at the 1 year mark and broke it off quickly. I started texting her again a couple months ago, after getting throught the hate texts she met me for drinks last week and we are planning to hang out again soon.

Update-

Things have been going great! In fact she just re-accepted my FB friend request after 5 months of it sitting in her inbox! (She says she never gets on FB)

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #2379 on:** May 10, 2013, 02:23:19 PM »

Quote from: ben ji on May 10, 2013, 02:21:57 PM

Quote from: ben ji on December 10, 2012, 10:33:07 AM
What is everyone's view on getting back with old flames?

Dated a girl for about a year and broke up with her September of 11. She took it rough, defriended me on FB and everything.

Feel like i maybe made a mistake as she's a real nice girl and I just kind of panic'd at the 1 year mark and broke it off quickly. I started texting her again a couple months ago, after getting throught the hate texts she met me for drinks last week and we are planning to hang out again soon.

Update-

Things have been going great! In fact she just re-accepted my FB friend request after 5 months of it sitting in her inbox! (She says she never gets on FB)

She's a gem, ben ji.

j-dub · « **Reply #2380 on:** May 10, 2013, 02:24:55 PM »

i'm really happy my pals wacky and ben ji have found a couple gems

it's not easy

EllRobersonisInnocent · « **Reply #2381 on:** May 10, 2013, 02:28:06 PM »

Trying to work on things w/ my ex-fiance who lives in Lawrence and with whom I own a home there, it sucks

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #2382 on:** May 10, 2013, 02:28:57 PM »

Quote from: j-dub on May 10, 2013, 02:24:55 PM

i'm really happy my pals wacky and ben ji have found a couple gems

it's not easy

Emo EMAW · « **Reply #2383 on:** May 10, 2013, 02:29:49 PM »

Quote from: EllRobersonisInnocent on May 10, 2013, 02:28:06 PM

Trying to work on things w/ my ex-fiance who lives in Lawrence and with whom I own a home there, it sucks

Like get back together or split amicably?

CNS · « **Reply #2384 on:** May 10, 2013, 02:30:45 PM »

Quote from: Emo EMAW on May 10, 2013, 02:29:49 PM

Quote from: EllRobersonisInnocent on May 10, 2013, 02:28:06 PM
Trying to work on things w/ my ex-fiance who lives in Lawrence and with whom I own a home there, it sucks

Like get back together or split amicably?

Pro tip: either way, sell the house.

EllRobersonisInnocent · « **Reply #2385 on:** May 10, 2013, 02:32:27 PM »

Quote from: Emo EMAW on May 10, 2013, 02:29:49 PM

Quote from: EllRobersonisInnocent on May 10, 2013, 02:28:06 PM
Trying to work on things w/ my ex-fiance who lives in Lawrence and with whom I own a home there, it sucks

Like get back together or split amicably?

EllRobersonisInnocent · « **Reply #2386 on:** May 10, 2013, 02:33:58 PM »

Quote from: CNS Casey on May 10, 2013, 02:30:45 PM

Quote from: Emo EMAW on May 10, 2013, 02:29:49 PM
Quote from: EllRobersonisInnocent on May 10, 2013, 02:28:06 PM
Trying to work on things w/ my ex-fiance who lives in Lawrence and with whom I own a home there, it sucks

Like get back together or split amicably?

Pro tip: either way, sell the house.

I definitely want to

ben ji · « **Reply #2387 on:** May 10, 2013, 02:34:40 PM »

Quote from: EllRobersonisInnocent on May 10, 2013, 02:32:27 PM

Quote from: Emo EMAW on May 10, 2013, 02:29:49 PM
Quote from: EllRobersonisInnocent on May 10, 2013, 02:28:06 PM
Trying to work on things w/ my ex-fiance who lives in Lawrence and with whom I own a home there, it sucks

Like get back together or split amicably?

No idea what your situation was but when I wanted to get back with an old fling I straight up told her I was young and immature and made a mistake. Seems like its a pretty boilerplate approach to take.

EllRobersonisInnocent · « **Reply #2388 on:** May 10, 2013, 02:44:17 PM »

Oh hey, quick update. She just got a job in Wichita

time to melt the eff down

Emo EMAW · « **Reply #2389 on:** May 10, 2013, 02:50:18 PM »

Who broke it off?

CNS · « **Reply #2390 on:** May 10, 2013, 02:53:50 PM »

Quote from: EllRobersonisInnocent on May 10, 2013, 02:44:17 PM

Oh hey, quick update. She just got a job in Wichita

time to melt the eff down

Well, at least you now have more insight into what she is prioritizing. More info is always good.

EllRobersonisInnocent · « **Reply #2391 on:** May 10, 2013, 03:00:54 PM »

The whole situation is beyond complicated. My first post on the subject was literally the most I've talked about it with anyone in a long time, I tend to hold things in. Then 10 minutes later she texts me with the news.

Looks like it's time for ERII to start saving $$ to move out to Colorado

CNS · « **Reply #2392 on:** May 10, 2013, 03:01:51 PM »

Sorry, man.

wiley · « **Reply #2393 on:** May 10, 2013, 03:05:31 PM »

Quote from: EllRobersonisInnocent on May 10, 2013, 03:00:54 PM

The whole situation is beyond complicated. My first post on the subject was literally the most I've talked about it with anyone in a long time, I tend to hold things in. Then 10 minutes later she texts me with the news.

Looks like it's time for ERII to start saving $$ to move out to Colorado

Didn't work the first time, don't beat yourself up over it and just walkaway. It's the best advice i can give you (i've been there before).

Emo EMAW · « **Reply #2394 on:** May 10, 2013, 03:10:27 PM »

So who sent her the link to this thread?

CNS · « **Reply #2395 on:** May 10, 2013, 03:14:52 PM »

Tell her you are going to publish the pics if you don't get the house. Even if you don't have pics.

DOOM_Catz · « **Reply #2396 on:** May 10, 2013, 03:18:40 PM »

So still trying to get over this philly... And sorry to detract from your meltdown, Ell.

She asks me on the date what my favorite sport is to which I reply, "Cats football"

I politely return the question and she mentioned that she loves following basketball. I of course ask a follow up (and I thought I was asking something I knew the answer to already) of "what's your favorite team?" (please note that she is a 'Cat grad)

She then says, "oh I love the Jayhawks"

WOW. The rest of the night I was completely distracted while thinking about if that was a deal breaker or not. The worst part... I still don't know. Thought she was pretty cool otherwise.

The Tonya Harding of Twitter Users Creep · « **Reply #2397 on:** May 10, 2013, 03:21:11 PM »

DOOM-Catz, ive never met you IRL but you seem like a real player

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #2398 on:** May 10, 2013, 03:23:16 PM »

Yeah, DOOM, do what you want. However, I will tell you, I've dated a crap ton of squawks. Don't let that be the barrier. Sometimes it can be fun, if she isn't a total Fake Sugar Dick (WARNING, NOT THE REAL SUGAR DICK!) about it when it comes to the sports season.

The Tonya Harding of Twitter Users Creep · « **Reply #2399 on:** May 10, 2013, 03:28:39 PM »

ben ji, you dont need any game or apologies (no one ever needs apologies) when you have an adorable puppy like lady.

just ask to do something outdoors and boom, lady does the rest. why else do you have a dog...?