Master Dating Thread

[ben ji]

What is everyone's view on getting back with old flames?


Dated a girl for about a year and broke up with her September of 11. She took it rough, defriended me on FB and everything.

Feel like i maybe made a mistake as she's a real nice girl and I just kind of panic'd at the 1 year mark and broke it off quickly. I started texting her again a couple months ago, after getting throught the hate texts she met me for drinks last week and we are planning to hang out again soon.

[Saulbadguy]

What is everyone's view on getting back with old flames?


Dated a girl for about a year and broke up with her September of 11. She took it rough, defriended me on FB and everything.

Feel like i maybe made a mistake as she's a real nice girl and I just kind of panic'd at the 1 year mark and broke it off quickly. I started texting her again a couple months ago, after getting throught the hate texts she met me for drinks last week and we are planning to hang out again soon.

You sound like a mean person.

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What is everyone's view on getting back with old flames?


Dated a girl for about a year and broke up with her September of 11. She took it rough, defriended me on FB and everything.

Feel like i maybe made a mistake as she's a real nice girl and I just kind of panic'd at the 1 year mark and broke it off quickly. I started texting her again a couple months ago, after getting throught the hate texts she met me for drinks last week and we are planning to hang out again soon.

Bring her to a pak and we'll evaluate going forward from there.

[The1BigWillie]

What is everyone's view on getting back with old flames?


Dated a girl for about a year and broke up with her September of 11. She took it rough, defriended me on FB and everything.

Feel like i maybe made a mistake as she's a real nice girl and I just kind of panic'd at the 1 year mark and broke it off quickly. I started texting her again a couple months ago, after getting throught the hate texts she met me for drinks last week and we are planning to hang out again soon.

Sounds like you are just giving up on finding something new and better. There is a good reason it didn't work out.  Your loneliness is just blocking out all the crud you ended for in the first place.  If you want to end up back in this spot in a year and waste all that time, by all means, go for it. It's not going to work out. This is prime time to find sad lonely singles out there.  Take advantage of that and do a few hit and runs until March 1. With the holidays and V-day out of the way you can get serious about looking for someone to maybe date so you have someone to go to Royals games with and stuff.  Then dump them before CFB starts... (repeat)

[The1BigWillie]

What is everyone's view on getting back with old flames?


Dated a girl for about a year and broke up with her September of 11. She took it rough, defriended me on FB and everything.

Feel like i maybe made a mistake as she's a real nice girl and I just kind of panic'd at the 1 year mark and broke it off quickly. I started texting her again a couple months ago, after getting throught the hate texts she met me for drinks last week and we are planning to hang out again soon.

Bring her to a pak and we'll evaluate going forward from there.

HAHA... this one got dumped because of her reaction at his first PAK.   

[puniraptor]

If she is willing to take you back after that, there is probably something wrong with her.

[slobber]

If she banged somebody during this time off, don't go back. That's always my mentality. It's a winners mentality.

If she didn't bang anybody in the last 15 months, then she is ugly, or may have forgotten how.

[ben ji]

What is everyone's view on getting back with old flames?


Dated a girl for about a year and broke up with her September of 11. She took it rough, defriended me on FB and everything.

Feel like i maybe made a mistake as she's a real nice girl and I just kind of panic'd at the 1 year mark and broke it off quickly. I started texting her again a couple months ago, after getting throught the hate texts she met me for drinks last week and we are planning to hang out again soon.

Bring her to a pak and we'll evaluate going forward from there.

Yeah, somehow she heard about that...When we were having drinks she asked..."So I'm curious, what happened in chicago?" Weird part is we only have 2 mutual friends but they live in jacksonville so I have no idea how she heard about that.

If she banged somebody during this time off, don't go back. That's always my mentality. It's a winners mentality.

She has not, glad to know I'm still have the green light in fannings book.

[420seriouscat69]

What is everyone's view on getting back with old flames?


Dated a girl for about a year and broke up with her September of 11. She took it rough, defriended me on FB and everything.

Feel like i maybe made a mistake as she's a real nice girl and I just kind of panic'd at the 1 year mark and broke it off quickly. I started texting her again a couple months ago, after getting throught the hate texts she met me for drinks last week and we are planning to hang out again soon.

Sounds like you are just giving up on finding something new and better. There is a good reason it didn't work out.  Your loneliness is just blocking out all the crud you ended for in the first place.  If you want to end up back in this spot in a year and waste all that time, by all means, go for it. It's not going to work out. This is prime time to find sad lonely singles out there.  Take advantage of that and do a few hit and runs until March 1. With the holidays and V-day out of the way you can get serious about looking for someone to maybe date so you have someone to go to Royals games with and stuff.  Then dump them before CFB starts... (repeat)

Wow. It's like you're in my head.

[ben ji]

What is everyone's view on getting back with old flames?


Dated a girl for about a year and broke up with her September of 11. She took it rough, defriended me on FB and everything.

Feel like i maybe made a mistake as she's a real nice girl and I just kind of panic'd at the 1 year mark and broke it off quickly. I started texting her again a couple months ago, after getting throught the hate texts she met me for drinks last week and we are planning to hang out again soon.

Bring her to a pak and we'll evaluate going forward from there.

HAHA... this one got dumped because of her reaction at his first PAK.   

Nope, that was a different one.

[The1BigWillie]

What is everyone's view on getting back with old flames?


Dated a girl for about a year and broke up with her September of 11. She took it rough, defriended me on FB and everything.

Feel like i maybe made a mistake as she's a real nice girl and I just kind of panic'd at the 1 year mark and broke it off quickly. I started texting her again a couple months ago, after getting throught the hate texts she met me for drinks last week and we are planning to hang out again soon.

Sounds like you are just giving up on finding something new and better. There is a good reason it didn't work out.  Your loneliness is just blocking out all the crud you ended for in the first place.  If you want to end up back in this spot in a year and waste all that time, by all means, go for it. It's not going to work out. This is prime time to find sad lonely singles out there.  Take advantage of that and do a few hit and runs until March 1. With the holidays and V-day out of the way you can get serious about looking for someone to maybe date so you have someone to go to Royals games with and stuff.  Then dump them before CFB starts... (repeat)

Wow. It's like you're in my head.

Great minds Fanning... Great minds...

[slobber]

If she banged somebody during this time off, don't go back. That's always my mentality. It's a winners mentality.

If she didn't bang anybody in the last 15 months, then she is ugly, or may have forgotten how.

I don't make the rules dobbs, it's just how it works. I want to think that you missed me so much, that you didn't allow another D near your V. It's selfish, but it works for me.

I don't even know why, but 

[Emo EMAW]

I was going to post exactly what fanning said, but I got distracted.  So I guess I'm like fanning but with a side of ADHD.  Squirrel!

[Ghost of Stan Parrish]

Just googled it.  They had six weeks in the movie; I only had 2 days at my high school reunion.  Although she and I went to preschool together, we were never a couple until we got together at the HS reunion.  (How people would have swooned at our romantic story!)  We lasted about 4 months together based on our 2 days at the reunion -- not bad.

This makes me think you're pretty old.  Sounds like something an old guy would do.

Yep, pretty old bro.  (Well, pretty old for a college board.)  Honestly though, that doesn't matter a whit in the world of dating.

And no names daris.  Sorry!

[The1BigWillie]

What is everyone's view on getting back with old flames?


Dated a girl for about a year and broke up with her September of 11. She took it rough, defriended me on FB and everything.

Feel like i maybe made a mistake as she's a real nice girl and I just kind of panic'd at the 1 year mark and broke it off quickly. I started texting her again a couple months ago, after getting throught the hate texts she met me for drinks last week and we are planning to hang out again soon.

Bring her to a pak and we'll evaluate going forward from there.

Yeah, somehow she heard about that...When we were having drinks she asked..."So I'm curious, what happened in chicago?" Weird part is we only have 2 mutual friends but they live in jacksonville so I have no idea how she heard about that.

If she banged somebody during this time off, don't go back. That's always my mentality. It's a winners mentality.

She has not, glad to know I'm still have the green light in fannings book.

So you KNOW that a girl you dumped 15 months ago hasn't had any dingleydang at all since you?  She's either the ugliest girl on earth or she's been in a vegetative state in a hospital since you ended it... even then the odds are slim.  Stop lying to your self dude.

[ben ji]

What is everyone's view on getting back with old flames?


Dated a girl for about a year and broke up with her September of 11. She took it rough, defriended me on FB and everything.

Feel like i maybe made a mistake as she's a real nice girl and I just kind of panic'd at the 1 year mark and broke it off quickly. I started texting her again a couple months ago, after getting throught the hate texts she met me for drinks last week and we are planning to hang out again soon.

Bring her to a pak and we'll evaluate going forward from there.

Yeah, somehow she heard about that...When we were having drinks she asked..."So I'm curious, what happened in chicago?" Weird part is we only have 2 mutual friends but they live in jacksonville so I have no idea how she heard about that.

If she banged somebody during this time off, don't go back. That's always my mentality. It's a winners mentality.

She has not, glad to know I'm still have the green light in fannings book.

So you KNOW that a girl you dumped 15 months ago hasn't had any dingleydang at all since you?  She's either the ugliest girl on earth or she's been in a vegetative state in a hospital since you ended it... even then the odds are slim.  Stop lying to your self dude.

Or she is a really good girl who doesnt go slumming at the bars every weekend 

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I'm confused.  The girl Ben Ji (Benja?) dumped in September of 2011 heard stories about August 2012 ChiPAK, which featured Ben Ji (Benja?) breaking up with a different girl, and called him out on it?

[ben ji]

I'm confused.  The girl Ben Ji (Benja?) dumped in September of 2011 heard stories about August 2012 ChiPAK, which featured Ben Ji (Benja?) breaking up with a different girl, and called him out on it?

Pretty much.

[Dr Rick Daris]

Just googled it.  They had six weeks in the movie; I only had 2 days at my high school reunion.  Although she and I went to preschool together, we were never a couple until we got together at the HS reunion.  (How people would have swooned at our romantic story!)  We lasted about 4 months together based on our 2 days at the reunion -- not bad.

This makes me think you're pretty old.  Sounds like something an old guy would do.

Yep, pretty old bro.  (Well, pretty old for a college board.)  Honestly though, that doesn't matter a whit in the world of dating.

And no names daris.  Sorry!

i wouldn't have been doing my job if i didn't at least ask.

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I'm confused.  The girl Ben Ji (Benja?) dumped in September of 2011 heard stories about August 2012 ChiPAK, which featured Ben Ji (Benja?) breaking up with a different girl, and called him out on it?

Pretty much.

If that story was detailed out on a KSU message board, I'd probably read it.

[yoga-like_abana]

 
also what exactly happened in chicago? 

[pissclams]

also what exactly happened in chicago? 

we partied, where were you?   

[ben ji]

also what exactly happened in chicago? 

Back in the spring I melted down hard the day we hired BW, which also happened to be the day I first met the X's family. The name oscar weber and doug gottlieb always pissed her off.

Go to chicago with the X and it just happens we are going to the cubs game the same day as some goEMAW elites. I get super pak'd with an old college buddy before/during the game then meet up with the GE elites at a bar after game. Within 5 minutes of meeting them I bring up how I melted down in front of her family when we hired BW. My thinking was "See, I wasnt the only one who melted down!". She gets pissed and goes back to the hotel, i dont notice for a while and continue putting drinks on the GE Company tab(Thanks!).

We break up afterwards. I had been looking for a way to break things off for a bit and it just so happened goEMAW got the assist. The only downside was she had booked a trip to Vegas for my Bday in October and I never got to go on it :(

[Willesgirl]

If she banged somebody during this time off, don't go back. That's always my mentality. It's a winners mentality.

If she didn't bang anybody in the last 15 months, then she is ugly, or may have forgotten how.

Or she doesn't immediately fall on her back for every guy that buys her a drink or a meal.

[j-dub]

Or she is a really good girl who doesnt go slumming at the bars every weekend 

you should probably be serious about her in this case..