you can't just go right into a blind date. there have to be a couple pre-dates that are arranged by the mutual friend(s) who are trying to set you up. something with a larger group of people where you can hang out and interact but you aren't the sole object of her/his attention. if the pre-dates go smoothly, ask her out for a real date.
Saul - girl i'm dating currently brought over a selection of DVDs to watch while hanging out at my place. among the titles was MST3K. keeper?