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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #300 on: May 01, 2012, 01:27:59 PM »
With her? No.

With anyone else? No.

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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #301 on: May 01, 2012, 01:31:59 PM »
Having girls as close friends (who you don't work with) is fine.  For gay men.  And, guys in wheel chairs, or horribly disfigured in other ways.


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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #302 on: May 01, 2012, 01:39:57 PM »
Komo is engaged. :facepalm:
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« Reply #303 on: May 01, 2012, 02:01:37 PM »
With her? No.

With anyone else? No.

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Does she go fishing or golfing with you?

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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #304 on: May 01, 2012, 02:11:07 PM »
With her? No.

With anyone else? No.

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Does she go fishing or golfing with you?

We played racquetball the other night. She would probably do those things if either of us enjoyed them.

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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #305 on: May 01, 2012, 02:59:19 PM »
Why did she break up with you?  Sounds like you guys get along fine.

If you did the breaking up, she isn't your friend.  If this is the case, she is just hanging out with you and being as friendly as possible until you realize that you like her again. 

Chicks..... :dunno:

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« Reply #306 on: May 01, 2012, 04:00:49 PM »
If you broke up with me I would not be your friend

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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #307 on: May 01, 2012, 04:21:17 PM »
I guess this would be bad timing to say I like the new filly that I've been dating?  :dunno: However, she went to baker, so she is a squawk fan.  :ohno:

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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #308 on: May 01, 2012, 04:39:06 PM »
I didn't feel like this deserved a new thread.

What are everyone's thought's on ex's as friends? I dated this girl for about 5 months or so my freshman year (2 years ago) and now she is one of my best friends. Is that weird?

It's okay as long as you're not not dating others because you're still hung up on her.  (The fact you're not sexing anyone else raises red flags.)  Of course, I'm not speaking from personal experience, not at all.

Otherwise, all good.  I'm pretty good friends with lots of exes I don't have any interest in dating anymore.
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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #309 on: May 01, 2012, 04:53:18 PM »
I didn't feel like this deserved a new thread.

What are everyone's thought's on ex's as friends? I dated this girl for about 5 months or so my freshman year (2 years ago) and now she is one of my best friends. Is that weird?

It's okay as long as you're not not dating others because you're still hung up on her.  (The fact you're not sexing anyone else raises red flags.)  Of course, I'm not speaking from personal experience, not at all.

Otherwise, all good.  I'm pretty good friends with lots of exes I don't have any interest in dating anymore.
Swiftcat, one of my best friends here in KC is a girl I dated for 2 months and she broke things off over facebook my last year at Kstate, yes that's right, FACEBOOK. I took some time away from her and realized we were more friends to begin with. However, I will warn you, when you start dating others, that's usually when they seem to be "interested" again. We'll get pak'd and have convo's about whether we should be more than friends and usually laugh about it akwardly the next day. Just be careful, there's definitely grey areas with it.

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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #310 on: May 01, 2012, 05:03:48 PM »
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It's hard to remember how it felt before
Now I found the love of my life...
Passes things get more comfortable
Everything is going right

And after all the obstacles
It's good to see you now with someone else
And it's such a miracle that you and me are still good friends
After all that we've been through
I know we're cool

We used to think it was impossible
Now you call me by my new last name
Memories seem like so long ago
Time always kills the pain

Remember Harbor Boulevard
The dreaming days where the mess was made
Look how all the kids have grown
We have changed but we're still the same
After all that we've been through
I know we're cool

And I'll be happy for you
If you can be happy for me
Circles and triangles, and now we're hangin' out with your new girlfriend
So far from where we've been
I know we're cool


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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #311 on: May 01, 2012, 05:09:46 PM »
Komo is engaged. :facepalm:

This did not get its due.
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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #312 on: May 01, 2012, 05:15:21 PM »
Komo is engaged. :facepalm:

This did not get its due.
He's trying to keep the poor girl in the states, let his love flourish, winters.

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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #313 on: May 01, 2012, 05:23:19 PM »
Komo is engaged. :facepalm:

This did not get its due.
Yeah.  It won't last. 


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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #314 on: May 01, 2012, 06:10:56 PM »
Having girls as close friends (who you don't work with) is fine.  For gay men.  And, guys in wheel chairs, or horribly disfigured in other ways.



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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #315 on: May 01, 2012, 06:21:48 PM »
Why did she break up with you?  Sounds like you guys get along fine.

If you did the breaking up, she isn't your friend.  If this is the case, she is just hanging out with you and being as friendly as possible until you realize that you like her again. 

Chicks..... :dunno:
It's okay as long as you're not not dating others because you're still hung up on her.  (The fact you're not sexing anyone else raises red flags.)  Of course, I'm not speaking from personal experience, not at all.

Otherwise, all good.  I'm pretty good friends with lots of exes I don't have any interest in dating anymore.


Mmm, It was kinda a mutual thing. We got back together a bunch of times immediately following the break up, but realized that it obviously wasn't going to work. She currently has a boyfriend and I have dated girls since we broke up.


Swiftcat, one of my best friends here in KC is a girl I dated for 2 months and she broke things off over facebook my last year at Kstate, yes that's right, FACEBOOK. I took some time away from her and realized we were more friends to begin with. However, I will warn you, when you start dating others, that's usually when they seem to be "interested" again. We'll get pak'd and have convo's about whether we should be more than friends and usually laugh about it akwardly the next day. Just be careful, there's definitely grey areas with it.

This will probably happen at some time, but it hasn't happened yet.
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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #316 on: May 01, 2012, 06:26:56 PM »
i would like to aquire a girlfriend.

advice?
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Re: Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #317 on: May 01, 2012, 06:43:31 PM »
i would like to aquire a girlfriend.

advice?

Why?

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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #318 on: May 01, 2012, 06:52:30 PM »
Komo is engaged. :facepalm:

This did not get its due.
may have been why he was slamming irish car bombs at noon 30 during the fatty remembrance pak.



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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #319 on: May 01, 2012, 08:02:53 PM »
Komo is engaged. :facepalm:

This did not get its due.
may have been why he was slamming irish car bombs at noon 30 during the fatty remembrance pak.

Nah, that was just Dlew12's corrupting influence.
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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #320 on: May 01, 2012, 09:04:49 PM »
thoughts on friends with benefits with a recent ex?  thought I knew what I was doing but it is quite apparent that they will always want more than a platonic relationship  :blank:

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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #321 on: May 01, 2012, 09:22:40 PM »
thoughts on friends with benefits with a recent ex?  thought I knew what I was doing but it is quite apparent that they will always want more than a platonic relationship  :blank:
If you know you're playing with fire, and that you have the potential to be burned, then yeah, go for it.

But don't be surprised if you get burned.


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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #322 on: May 01, 2012, 09:34:50 PM »
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It's hard to remember how it felt before
Now I found the love of my life...
Passes things get more comfortable
Everything is going right

And after all the obstacles
It's good to see you now with someone else
And it's such a miracle that you and me are still good friends
After all that we've been through
I know we're cool

We used to think it was impossible
Now you call me by my new last name
Memories seem like so long ago
Time always kills the pain

Remember Harbor Boulevard
The dreaming days where the mess was made
Look how all the kids have grown
We have changed but we're still the same
After all that we've been through
I know we're cool

And I'll be happy for you
If you can be happy for me
Circles and triangles, and now we're hangin' out with your new girlfriend
So far from where we've been
I know we're cool
oh man. Fantastic song.

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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #323 on: May 01, 2012, 09:45:18 PM »
thoughts on friends with benefits with a recent ex?  thought I knew what I was doing but it is quite apparent that they will always want more than a platonic relationship  :blank:
If you know you're playing with fire, and that you have the potential to be burned, then yeah, go for it.

But don't be surprised if you get burned.

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Re: Master Dating Thread
« Reply #324 on: May 01, 2012, 09:51:02 PM »
thoughts on friends with benefits with a recent ex?  thought I knew what I was doing but it is quite apparent that they will always want more than a platonic relationship  :blank:


Seems ideal, never works.
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