well guys and mrs. gooch, had a little chat yesterday. and it turns out, that her roommate was legitimately scared that someone broke in (i mean really

) and that shakes herself, wasn't all that amused before she realized that i hadn't taken it out of the house. she thought i might have put it in my car and taken it home or something.. i apologized and all is well.
she said she was legitimately busy last week

so i was wrong about that. but this episode has really shone a light on the relationship and our personality differences as a whole. i'll give it a little more time, but the long term outlook has dimmed imo.