Author Topic: Master Dating Thread (Read 974138 times)

puniraptor · « **Reply #5425 on:** July 17, 2014, 02:50:23 PM »

wait wait wait wait wait

are there any people that are BOTH at sand volleyball AND at Cf3's semiformal evening? if so, she hates that person more than she loves you and if you cut that person out of your life you should be good to go

j-dub · « **Reply #5426 on:** July 17, 2014, 02:51:36 PM »

Quote from: Mrs. Gooch on July 17, 2014, 02:48:51 PM

Quote from: j-dub on July 17, 2014, 02:40:38 PM
Quote from: Mrs. Gooch on July 17, 2014, 02:36:10 PM
I would like to know how long & how often they have been getting together. At some point she can't prioritize seeing him over everything else in her life no matter how much she likes him.

2 months. for the past month, 2 or 3 times a week for the most part. sometimes more, sometimes less.

So she's seeing you 2-3 times per week plus playing on some sporting leagues 3-4 times per week. Assuming she also has a job, it sounds like she is really busy. It would be easy to get double booked.

yes. she's busy. i understand that. i also understand that she used to offer alternatives and go out of her way to get together..

j-dub · « **Reply #5427 on:** July 17, 2014, 02:53:14 PM »

Quote from: puniraptor on July 17, 2014, 02:50:23 PM

wait wait wait wait wait

are there any people that are BOTH at sand volleyball AND at Cf3's semiformal evening? if so, she hates that person more than she loves you and if you cut that person out of your life you should be good to go

well, ya know..

me.

puniraptor · « **Reply #5428 on:** July 17, 2014, 02:53:50 PM »

Quote from: j-dub on July 17, 2014, 02:53:14 PM

Quote from: puniraptor on July 17, 2014, 02:50:23 PM
wait wait wait wait wait

are there any people that are BOTH at sand volleyball AND at Cf3's semiformal evening? if so, she hates that person more than she loves you and if you cut that person out of your life you should be good to go

well, ya know..

me.

uff da

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #5429 on:** July 17, 2014, 02:54:27 PM »

Hey bud

j-dub · « **Reply #5430 on:** July 17, 2014, 02:54:53 PM »

what a hell of an afternoon this turned out to be

Mrs. Gooch · « **Reply #5431 on:** July 17, 2014, 02:59:03 PM »

Could be that she's so booked up for the immediate future that she didn't have a suggestion to make that she was sure she could commit to? If she said "Hey let's get together in 2 weeks" would that be better or worse than not making a suggestion?

mocat · « **Reply #5432 on:** July 17, 2014, 02:59:37 PM »

oh my gosh wacky i forgot about that show

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #5433 on:** July 17, 2014, 03:01:05 PM »

Quote from: mocat on July 17, 2014, 02:59:37 PM

oh my gosh wacky i forgot about that show

My former manager was on that show.

puniraptor · « **Reply #5434 on:** July 17, 2014, 03:02:37 PM »

is it possible that she got a haircut and thinks it's horrible and is really self conscious and embarrassed about it and she is just stalling until it grows out a little more and looks better so she feels hot enough for you?

j-dub · « **Reply #5435 on:** July 17, 2014, 03:03:22 PM »

Quote from: Mrs. Gooch on July 17, 2014, 02:59:03 PM

Could be that she's so booked up for the immediate future that she didn't have a suggestion to make that she was sure she could commit to? If she said "Hey let's get together in 2 weeks" would that be better or worse than not making a suggestion?

i think both of those options would indicate that our relationship is dead where it stands.

j-dub · « **Reply #5436 on:** July 17, 2014, 03:06:00 PM »

Quote from: puniraptor on July 17, 2014, 03:02:37 PM

is it possible that she got a haircut and thinks it's horrible and is really self conscious and embarrassed about it and she is just stalling until it grows out a little more and looks better so she feels hot enough for you?

you've got a great imagination puni

but no.

puniraptor · « **Reply #5437 on:** July 17, 2014, 03:08:05 PM »

Quote from: j-dub on July 17, 2014, 03:06:00 PM

Quote from: puniraptor on July 17, 2014, 03:02:37 PM
is it possible that she got a haircut and thinks it's horrible and is really self conscious and embarrassed about it and she is just stalling until it grows out a little more and looks better so she feels hot enough for you?

you've got a great imagination puni

but no.

what about the same scenario but sub out haircut for spray tan, facial peel, dental work, facial bruising, sunburn, eyebrow wax, etc.?

Mrs. Gooch · « **Reply #5438 on:** July 17, 2014, 03:10:21 PM »

Quote from: j-dub on July 17, 2014, 03:03:22 PM

Quote from: Mrs. Gooch on July 17, 2014, 02:59:03 PM
Could be that she's so booked up for the immediate future that she didn't have a suggestion to make that she was sure she could commit to? If she said "Hey let's get together in 2 weeks" would that be better or worse than not making a suggestion?

i think both of those options would indicate that our relationship is dead where it stands.

I am saying that maybe she is genuinely busy for the next 2 weeks (or whatever). Like she might text you and say "Want to meet up for lunch?" but she can't commit to it right now way ahead of time. There have been times where Gooch & I would not have seen each other for 2 weeks if we didn't live in the same house, so that doesn't necessarily mean she isn't in to you.

pissclams · « **Reply #5439 on:** July 17, 2014, 03:10:59 PM »

most important is that she knows your bus has left the station. you're not mad, not upset, but just not waiting around either.

my guess is you two are at a point of next level crap and she's unsure. so you need to not care what her decision is b/c your future's so bright you gotta wear shades. as others have said, make her initiate any future contact.

Emo EMAW · « **Reply #5440 on:** July 17, 2014, 03:12:27 PM »

Also fire up the Tinder app.

j-dub · « **Reply #5441 on:** July 17, 2014, 03:13:08 PM »

Quote from: pissclams on July 17, 2014, 03:10:59 PM

most important is that she knows your bus has left the station. you're not mad, not upset, but just not waiting around either.

my guess is you two are at a point of next level crap and she's unsure. so you need to not care what her decision is b/c your future's so bright you gotta wear shades. as others have said, make her initiate any future contact.

my goodness. uncle clams with a no doubter

pissclams · « **Reply #5442 on:** July 17, 2014, 03:15:09 PM »

sorry friend j-dub if i insulted you, i thought that this thread was a place for open and honest communication with no repercussions.

Asteriskhead · « **Reply #5443 on:** July 17, 2014, 03:16:03 PM »

'clams is probably the only person that's posted in the last couple of pages with any sort of sense.

j-dub · « **Reply #5444 on:** July 17, 2014, 03:17:01 PM »

Quote from: pissclams on July 17, 2014, 03:15:09 PM

sorry friend j-dub if i insulted you, i thought that this thread was a place for open and honest communication with no repercussions.

the very opposite friend pissclams. what i meant by "no doubter" is a mammoth moonshot home run.

because that's what your post was. it was perfect.

slimz · « **Reply #5445 on:** July 17, 2014, 03:37:21 PM »

Some solid advice from clams there, as usual.

So I had a first date with a nice lady last night. My friend dates her roommate; they set us up. Cool chick, seems pretty athletic. Think we're all going to do a double date at the Sporting game Saturday. She seemed pretty excited when I suggested it at the end of our date, but said she had "some other thing" that she needs to check on. Texted me late last night to say she's good to go.

mocat · « **Reply #5446 on:** July 17, 2014, 03:38:33 PM »

too soon slimz (grats tho)

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #5447 on:** July 17, 2014, 03:53:09 PM »

Quote from: slimz on July 17, 2014, 03:37:21 PM

Some solid advice from clams there, as usual.

So I had a first date with a nice lady last night. My friend dates her roommate; they set us up. Cool chick, seems pretty athletic. Think we're all going to do a double date at the Sporting game Saturday. She seemed pretty excited when I suggested it at the end of our date, but said she had "some other thing" that she needs to check on. Texted me late last night to say she's good to go.

I'm glad she broke that other date off with whatever dork it was.

Cartierfor3 · « **Reply #5448 on:** July 17, 2014, 03:54:01 PM »

mocat I'm giving slimz some of our pizza and a pour from our root beer pitcher

The Tonya Harding of Twitter Users Creep · « **Reply #5449 on:** July 17, 2014, 03:57:45 PM »

Quote from: Metalhead on July 17, 2014, 03:16:03 PM

'clams is probably the only person that's posted in the last couple of pages with any sort of sense.

hmm did you see my dump her on wednesday post?