Master Dating Thread

[Mrs. Gooch]

Maybe these Sunday breaker-uppers want a last fling with the person before the break up. Or maybe they don't want to ruin the person's weekend? Or maybe after the weekend is mostly over they realize that it really isn't working out.

[420seriouscat69]

Maybe these Sunday breaker-uppers want a last fling with the person before the break up. Or maybe they don't want to ruin the person's weekend? Or maybe after the weekend is mostly over they realize that it really isn't working out.

If they have the slightest doubt, they should do it before. Girls, as you know, have a sense for this. I've been bitched out on many occasions for breaking up, but the one time I did do it on a Sunday, IT WAS THEE WORST! Her girlfriends were calling me, clothes thrown out her window, etc. 

[slimz]

It sickens me that J-Dub might be single when I see some of the idiots I know who are not. It makes me want to punch a brick wall. Its J-Dub. He's the best.

Yeah, but he also deserves to find someone that's really gonna appreciate all the effort he goes to. (Not just because he's made the effort, but because she's really into all that stuff, too.)

Re Sunday breakups, I can't speak as to the reasoning behind all of them.  On my part, it's what Mrs. Gooch said about realizing then that things ain't working out. No reason to sit and stew on that during the week. 

[420seriouscat69]

That's fair.

[0.42]

monday breakups are the absolute worst though

[michigancat]

don't even get me started on tuesday breakups

ugh

[0.42]

crap.

[Cartierfor3]

Thursday is a pretty good breakup day. Its no Friday, but its decent

[mocat]

yeah i would def go with thursday as your premier breakup day.

hey j-dub what is today? i don't have a calendar handy.

[Cartierfor3]

Weird thing is that Sunday is my favorite day to start a relationship. Gives you a nice bounce in your step for Monday

[j-dub]

yeah i would def go with thursday as your premier breakup day.

hey j-dub what is today? i don't have a calendar handy.

oh you know i'm initiating THE convo tonight. i need to go into my weekend with a clear sense of direction.

[420seriouscat69]

Weird thing is that Sunday is my favorite day to start a relationship. Gives you a nice bounce in your step for Monday

I met ms. wacky on a sunday. 

[slimz]

yeah i would def go with thursday as your premier breakup day.

hey j-dub what is today? i don't have a calendar handy.

oh you know i'm initiating THE convo tonight. i need to go into my weekend with a clear sense of direction.

"tonight" = 5 minutes from now.

[j-dub]

yeah i would def go with thursday as your premier breakup day.

hey j-dub what is today? i don't have a calendar handy.

oh you know i'm initiating THE convo tonight. i need to go into my weekend with a clear sense of direction.

 

"tonight" = 5 minutes from now.

[TownieCat]

yeah i would def go with thursday as your premier breakup day.

hey j-dub what is today? i don't have a calendar handy.

oh you know i'm initiating THE convo tonight. i need to go into my weekend with a clear sense of direction.

So is this a DTR convo or a "what the hell is wrong with you?" convo?

[slimz]

I don't want to start another poll right now (wish we could do in-thread polls), but would you rather have a prior bad feeling that you're going to get broken up with, or be completely blindsided when it occurs?

[420seriouscat69]

Have you guys ever dated a psychiatrist or a studying psychiatrist to be? OMG! If you want some fun stories, you should do so. I dated like 3. It's amazing how they try to break down every move or word said. Also, I dumped them on a thursday and two fridays.

[j-dub]

yeah i would def go with thursday as your premier breakup day.

hey j-dub what is today? i don't have a calendar handy.

oh you know i'm initiating THE convo tonight. i need to go into my weekend with a clear sense of direction.

So is this a DTR convo or a "what the hell is wrong with you?" convo?

more of a DTR and omg how i hate that phrase. we've been dating without putting a label on it up to this point. and this week she's been excusecity.com about getting together. last friday was good but it also ended kinda awkwardly. we got together sunday and then monday night the excuses started rolling in.

[Mrs. Gooch]

I don't want to start another poll right now (wish we could do in-thread polls), but would you rather have a prior bad feeling that you're going to get broken up with, or be completely blindsided when it occurs?

I would rather get the feeling ahead of time because if blindsided then I would want to know why and probably am not going to get that explanation.

[j-dub]

i'm probably going to say something to the effect of, "hey, so, are all of your excuses this week legit or are you just afraid to tell me something you don't think i want to hear? because, if you'd rather not continue this thing, i'd rather you told me so, etc.."

[Cartierfor3]

I've got champagne on ice and a warm bottle of Wild Turkey ready depending on the outcome of this conversation

[j-dub]

I don't want to start another poll right now (wish we could do in-thread polls), but would you rather have a prior bad feeling that you're going to get broken up with, or be completely blindsided when it occurs?

I would rather get the feeling ahead of time because if blindsided then I would want to know why and probably am not going to get that explanation.

you know i don't think i've ever been blindsided. not that i can recall anyway. there is always an inkling at the very least. like i said, i have an acute sense for this sort of thing. for me, it's more about thinking back and identifying those little moments that lead up to it. in the moment some of those clues just slip by..

[Spracne]

I don't want to start another poll right now (wish we could do in-thread polls), but would you rather have a prior bad feeling that you're going to get broken up with, or be completely blindsided when it occurs?

I would rather get the feeling ahead of time because if blindsided then I would want to know why and probably am not going to get that explanation.

you know i don't think i've ever been blindsided. not that i can recall anyway. there is always an inkling at the very least. like i said, i have an acute sense for this sort of thing. for me, it's more about thinking back and identifying those little moments that lead up to it. in the moment some of those clues just slip by..

So, you're good at nothing?

[j-dub]

I don't want to start another poll right now (wish we could do in-thread polls), but would you rather have a prior bad feeling that you're going to get broken up with, or be completely blindsided when it occurs?

I would rather get the feeling ahead of time because if blindsided then I would want to know why and probably am not going to get that explanation.

you know i don't think i've ever been blindsided. not that i can recall anyway. there is always an inkling at the very least. like i said, i have an acute sense for this sort of thing. for me, it's more about thinking back and identifying those little moments that lead up to it. in the moment some of those clues just slip by..

So, you're good at nothing?

well, that was really mean. 

[Spracne]

I don't want to start another poll right now (wish we could do in-thread polls), but would you rather have a prior bad feeling that you're going to get broken up with, or be completely blindsided when it occurs?

I would rather get the feeling ahead of time because if blindsided then I would want to know why and probably am not going to get that explanation.

you know i don't think i've ever been blindsided. not that i can recall anyway. there is always an inkling at the very least. like i said, i have an acute sense for this sort of thing. for me, it's more about thinking back and identifying those little moments that lead up to it. in the moment some of those clues just slip by..

So, you're good at nothing?

well, that was really mean. 

You might say, you're much ado about it?