3. Chum, when you were interviewing for your current second job did you tell them you were currently employed and that you would quit but then just didn't quit? Or did they know this would be your second job?
Everything about it every step of the way for me has been don't ask, don't tell.
I saw a story about a dual jobber who got approached by his boss due to mutual acquaintances in the same industry. The boss said he was okay with it because the employee's quality of work was good.