Oh man TBT that always seems to make things a little harder. Always focus on the good things, memories, loves in life.
And Wacky, just like with any emotional situation (even if you don't think its that big a deal, but it might be for whomever) just tell them you ware there to support them. I've had some crazy things like that that just drop in your lap and sometimes a person just needs a hug and an open ear for a bit and thats all you can do at that moment.