I've been the president of the local youth sports association for the past 3 years.
Here's a few things I've learned.
Most coaches of youth sports have good intentions.
At least half of youth sports coaches have no idea what they're doing.
Parents who volunteer the least, complain the most.
Most parents think their kid should play quarterback or pitch.
Cheer moms are the worst.
No good deed ever goes unpunished.
These sound like me coaching my daughter's 3rd/4th grade soccer team. I admit I don't exactly know what I'm doing when it comes to drills, etc. But I've got the good intentions. Trying to give everyone a shot at playing the positions.
At least the parents think i'm doing a good job even when I think practice looks like a clusterfuck.
I actually started coaching because I hated the coach one of my daughters had. He had a U6 team running suicides I crap you not. But yeah, most clubs (ahem) do a shitty job preparing volunteer coaches, and I'm sure at least half the volunteers would ignore it even if it was presented. (I generally ignore it, but that's because I've been unimpressed and think I have a better way.)
It should be a clusterfuck at that age, so I'm sure you're doing fine. How many kids are on the field?
Also, get this book: http://www.amazon.com/Great-Soccer-Drills-Baffled-Parents/dp/007138488X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1410541075&sr=8-1&keywords=soccer+drills
Great resource for "games" that teach skills rather than "drills" and a good look into age-appropriate games that make practice a lot of fun.
Also this site has some great ideas and explanations of philosophy: http://andagain.websitetoolbox.com/?forum=6094
I've found that when you see someone defend their thought process opposed to another, it's much more effective.
Exact reason I started coaching her team as well. Hated the coach she had for the few seasons prior, and was told by my wife "either you coach, or she doesn't play". I'd helped with my son's team (now in 6th grade) for the last 4 or 5 seasons, so I wasn't completely thrown into it.
There are 16 girls on the team this season. It's hard to keep everyone involved at the same time. What I really need to do is find an assistant (similar to what I was on my son's teams) who can split the load. I just feel bad when half the team is standing around while other half is working on something. I haven't had anyone tell me they'll avoid me in the next seasons, and a few that will actually request me, so yeah, I must be doing at least ok.
and we're 0-0-2 so far this season. so at least we're competitive.
and thanks for the advice.
Well this was a trip down memory lane (even if it was only a year ago). The season this was posted, we finished 2-0-5, tied every game except the 2 on the last weekend, which we won both. The next season, I had 100% of my players back as every single parent requested me. It's nice to know that even when I don't think I know what I'm doing, some one thinks I do. That team went 7-0 winning every game by at least 2 goals.
This current season just ended this past weekend. The team I had last year was split into two (half going into the 5/6/7th grade teams) and the other half staying in the 3rd/4th grade teams. At the parents request, I ended up coaching both teams. Had almost 100% return rate (had one forget I was going to coach both teams). Didn't turn out as well as the season before, but everyone seemed happy. We'll see who all comes back next season, and then next year is what I'm really looking forward to when the original team comes back together.
Worse part of coaching youth, is the parents trying to get their kids to do the exact opposite of what you're trying to teach them. Had a few new parents that were very unhappy with how things were going until they realized I was actually trying to teach their kids to stick to their positions. They couldn't figure out why their kid was hanging back and not chasing the ball all around the field like most of the other teams did.