Author Topic: Master Dating Thread (Read 938581 times)

star seed 7 · « **Reply #6625 on:** January 17, 2015, 04:29:03 PM »

Quote from: yoga-like_abana on January 17, 2015, 03:59:05 PM

I need advice on where to purchase a ring....
Under 2k because Im a tight ass

oh wow, i thought it ended

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #6626 on:** January 21, 2015, 08:04:06 PM »

Quote from: yoga-like_abana on January 17, 2015, 03:59:05 PM

I need advice on where to purchase a ring....
Under 2k because Im a tight ass

'grats, dude!

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #6627 on:** January 21, 2015, 08:05:12 PM »

I've seen a lot of match commercials recently. I think Tinder is scaring the crap out of them.

Rage Against the McKee · « **Reply #6628 on:** January 22, 2015, 02:57:42 PM »

Quote from: cfbandyman on January 14, 2015, 04:14:52 PM

Quote from: Spracne on January 14, 2015, 03:51:23 PM
Quote from: cfbandyman on January 14, 2015, 03:48:46 PM
Quote from: wetwillie on January 13, 2015, 08:28:07 PM
I haven't heard much in this thread about match.com from you single cats or eharmony. Seems like it would be a viable route.

Match is the only other online thing I've used other than tinder. It's definitely more the route you want to go if you want to find someone with more substance than tinder usually (the girl I'm seeing right now I met on match and I can see this going somewhere, though we've only been dating for a few weeks so will report more later). There are some good girls, and a few good looking girls on match, but it takes some digging and little more work than you think. They give you daily emails about members that you "match" with and whatnot, but it doesn't take long for then to keep recycling through same girls. Is it worth it to spend the money on it? I would say yes, but be wary that if you pay for 3 months of membership, once those 3 months are up you have to cancel, or they will just sign you up for another 3 months without asking, so be careful. Also, learn how to write good emails, the more effort you put in them the more likely they will respond.

Can you post some sample e-mails?

I would say it's more like sounding like a good conversationalist in an email without being formulaic. Like introducing yourself to her in person but you know, in writing. Something short, simple, personable about you and personable about her, and memorable.

Hey, babe. U have gr8 jugs and I would like to get a temp check. U can hit me up if u like wut u c. But u better hurry b4 it's too l8. All this sexy won't stay single 4 long.

works every single time

ben ji · « **Reply #6629 on:** January 25, 2015, 12:21:37 PM »

Quote from: Dlew12 on January 13, 2015, 11:41:44 AM

had some pretty important long term conversations last night. me not being hindu is apparently a big hangup. she's "trying to figure out" how she feels, but i think we all know how this ends.

IMO the "Your not hindu/catholic" isn't as simple as it sounds. If you want to make it work with your GF ask her what she expects from you to get over her apprehensions(learn about her religion, convert to hindu, have potential children exposed to hindu, etc etc) then go from there.

Had a similar conversation with my GF about a year ago. She is super catholic (New pope kind, uses BC/doesnt want 12 kids) and has an aunt who is a nun. I'm not religious at all but don't have a problem with other people being religious.

Our biggest argument came when she told me she didn't know if she could spend the rest of her life with me because I'm not catholic and we don't share the same beliefs. I told her it was 2014 not 1950 and asked if she would feel the same if I was Jewish/Muslim etc. We talked about it some more and her main hangup was that being catholic is important to her identity and that if we had children she wanted them to be raised catholic. I let her know that I have nothing against that and would support that decision.

I've gone to church with her a couple times since then to show that I support her but its something we are still working on.

star seed 7 · « **Reply #6630 on:** January 25, 2015, 12:25:34 PM »

Good grief

EllRobersonisInnocent · « **Reply #6631 on:** January 25, 2015, 06:54:20 PM »

Rabid Cow · « **Reply #6632 on:** January 31, 2015, 09:50:12 AM »

One of those Russian scams sent me a message on zoosk. I need to eff with them for a while before I tell them to get lost. Any thoughts?

star seed 7 · « **Reply #6633 on:** January 31, 2015, 09:59:04 AM »

I don't understand the question

The Big Train · « **Reply #6634 on:** January 31, 2015, 10:10:08 AM »

you could just order a bride then cancel once you get the tracking number

Rabid Cow · « **Reply #6635 on:** January 31, 2015, 11:45:23 AM »

Quote from: The Big Train on January 31, 2015, 10:10:08 AM

you could just order a bride then cancel once you get the tracking number

Except I'm sure there isn't a real girl involved in this scam and instead it is probably some dude living in his parents basement. Although that means it is probably someone who posts here...

Winters · « **Reply #6636 on:** February 03, 2015, 03:09:40 PM »

Where should I take my GF for Valentines Day? She likes pasta, doesn't like seafood. Help me out

'taterblast · « **Reply #6637 on:** February 03, 2015, 03:13:49 PM »

olive garden, duh

Winters · « **Reply #6638 on:** February 03, 2015, 03:15:18 PM »

Stop.

Spracne · « **Reply #6639 on:** February 03, 2015, 03:16:44 PM »

Does she like thai? I know a v, v authentic place.

puniraptor · « **Reply #6640 on:** February 03, 2015, 03:17:40 PM »

hu hot!

Asteriskhead · « **Reply #6641 on:** February 03, 2015, 03:23:08 PM »

You should prepare her a meal yourself.

Winters · « **Reply #6642 on:** February 03, 2015, 03:38:31 PM »

Quote from: roidhead on February 03, 2015, 03:23:08 PM

You should prepare her a meal yourself.

I could do that but it won't be romantic with my 7 roommates butting in.

Jabeez · « **Reply #6643 on:** February 03, 2015, 03:39:44 PM »

So my girlfriends folks are in town for a big event she is hosting next week. I am picking them up from the airport, driving them to the VIP party, taking them to the event, then taking them and my parents out the next night. GF tells me not to make plans for v-day a few weeks ago bc she wants to see what her parents want to do.

I ask last night, "Hey, I really need to put in reservations if we're doing anything, because everywhere will be packed." and she says, "I never get to see my parents, so I booked us 3 reservations on Valentines day, sorry."

How pissed off should I be, or not pissed off?

I already have made plans to get real pak'd at the 'Cats game with single bros and I am not out $$ for an expensive dinner, so maybe not mad?

Spracne · « **Reply #6644 on:** February 03, 2015, 03:42:10 PM »

You're off the hook for Valentine's Day. Congrats, have a cigar.

puniraptor · « **Reply #6645 on:** February 03, 2015, 03:42:47 PM »

Quote from: Jabeez on February 03, 2015, 03:39:44 PM

So my girlfriends folks are in town for a big event she is hosting next week. I am picking them up from the airport, driving them to the VIP party, taking them to the event, then taking them and my parents out the next night. GF tells me not to make plans for v-day a few weeks ago bc she wants to see what her parents want to do.

I ask last night, "Hey, I really need to put in reservations if we're doing anything, because everywhere will be packed." and she says, "I never get to see my parents, so I booked us 3 reservations on Valentines day, sorry."

How pissed off should I be, or not pissed off?

I already have made plans to get real pak'd at the 'Cats game with single bros and I am not out $$ for an expensive dinner, so maybe not mad?

umm this is like best case scenario. merge this to the jabeeze a ring on it thread

Spracne · « **Reply #6646 on:** February 03, 2015, 03:43:44 PM »

Am I surprised puni and eye see I to I on this? I am not.

puniraptor · « **Reply #6647 on:** February 03, 2015, 03:45:18 PM »

Quote from: Spracne on February 03, 2015, 03:43:44 PM

Am I surprised puni and eye see I to I on this? I am not.

but with

<- cigar

TownieCat · « **Reply #6648 on:** February 03, 2015, 03:45:28 PM »

Quote from: Jabeez on February 03, 2015, 03:39:44 PM

So my girlfriends folks are in town for a big event she is hosting next week. I am picking them up from the airport, driving them to the VIP party, taking them to the event, then taking them and my parents out the next night. GF tells me not to make plans for v-day a few weeks ago bc she wants to see what her parents want to do.

I ask last night, "Hey, I really need to put in reservations if we're doing anything, because everywhere will be packed." and she says, "I never get to see my parents, so I booked us 3 reservations on Valentines day, sorry."

How pissed off should I be, or not pissed off?

I already have made plans to get real pak'd at the 'Cats game with single bros and I am not out $$ for an expensive dinner, so maybe not mad?

Do you mean "the three of us" as in her, her mom, and her dad, or do you mean "3 reservations" as in there are reservations at 3 different places and she will choose which one to keep later?

Either way, you have no reason to be pissed off.

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #6649 on:** February 03, 2015, 03:46:57 PM »

Yeah, plus the folks have the tab. Go buy yourself some 12 year Jameson and call it a day.