Master Dating Thread

[Emo EMAW]

j-dub you'll know if she's "the one" pretty damn quick (assuming that's what you're looking for). 

[420seriouscat69]

"Nobody is my bitch, bitch!"- Bear

did you guys wear matching outfits that night?

i bet you did, didn't you 

I look better in blue. With that said, Yes I did!

[j-dub]

j-dub you'll know if she's "the one" pretty damn quick (assuming that's what you're looking for).

that's always what i'm looking for. i thought CO (girl) was "the one" after like 2 dates. and then she thought i was her "one" after a little while, too. so...

i think that's why i feel like billy butler at the plate right now.

i gotta hit a bases clearing double and get back on track 

[j-dub]

i don't really believe in "the one" anyway. i did when i was younger. now i think it really boils down to natural chemistry and friendship and then a decided effort to commit to each other and sacrifice for one another.

it's hard to do. and hard to find.

[Institutional Control]

i don't really believe in "the one" anyway. i did when i was younger. now i think it really boils down to natural chemistry and friendship and then a decided effort to commit to each other and sacrifice for one another.

it's hard to do. and hard to find.

In my life I've dated/married at least 5 "the one"s.

[Skipper44]

i don't really believe in "the one" anyway. i did when i was younger. now i think it really boils down to natural chemistry and friendship and then a decided effort to commit to each other and sacrifice for one another.

it's hard to do. and hard to find.

all the more reason to be yourself from the beginning

[j-dub]

i don't really believe in "the one" anyway. i did when i was younger. now i think it really boils down to natural chemistry and friendship and then a decided effort to commit to each other and sacrifice for one another.

it's hard to do. and hard to find.

In my life I've dated/married at least 5 "the one"s.

i'm pretty sure mckee just confirmed my any number of girls could be "the one" so long as you have some chemistry and decide to commit to one another but i could be wrong.

[Emo EMAW]

Well ya guys it's gotta be lastingly mutual.  And also there are literally thousands of people you could make a happy life with.  But you only come across a few of them in your eligible lifetime.

[420seriouscat69]

j-dub is Ted Mosby.

[j-dub]

i don't really believe in "the one" anyway. i did when i was younger. now i think it really boils down to natural chemistry and friendship and then a decided effort to commit to each other and sacrifice for one another.

it's hard to do. and hard to find.

all the more reason to be yourself from the beginning

i'm always "myself". i'm naturally an open book for the most part. can't completely shut that off. but i think it's sometimes wise to tone down some aspects of our personality in the beginning. i'm passionate and romantic and "want it all or nothing at all" to quote oscar. it scares the hell out of girls sometimes.

not to mention girls often want what they can't have. even though i knew i loved CO girl before she knew she loved me. i waited to say it until she said it first. had i gone all "omg i love you so much blah blah blah.." we never would have made it beyond two months.

[j-dub]

j-dub is Ted Mosby.

no. ted is a pussy.

i'm more like tom in 500 days of summer. who, though also kind of a pussy, is not as much of one as mosby. plus jgl 

[j-dub]

Well ya guys it's gotta be lastingly mutual.  And also there are literally thousands of people you could make a happy life with.  But you only come across a few of them in your eligible lifetime.

yep. 

[TownieCat]

j-dub is Ted Mosby.

I really hope there is a back story where j-dub and Shakes have crossed paths about half a dozen times over the past 10 years, but it took until the right moment for them to finally meet. 

[michigancat]

J-dub, there's nothing wrong with wanting to tone down parts of your personality that may scare girls off.   You'll have plenty of chances to be a romantic goof if things go well.     

[Stevesie60]

Hey j-dub, "I want it all or nothing at all" is actually an O-Town quote, but I can see how you'd confuse them with oscar.

[j-dub]

Hey j-dub, "I want it all or nothing at all" is actually an O-Town quote, but I can see how you'd confuse them with oscar.

your face looks so punchable to me right now you dork. also, here's my obligatory j-dub goes overboard about oscar post:

All or Nothin' At All (Human Touch, 1992)

Said you'd give me just a little kiss
And you'd rock me for a little while
Well you'd slip me just a piece of it
Listen up little child
I want it all or nothin' at all
I want it all or nothin' at all
Said you'd take me for a little dance
If you had a little time on your hands
Well all I do is push and shove
Just to get a little piece of your love
I want it all or nothin' at all
I want it all or nothin' at all
Well now I don't want to be greedy
But when it comes to love there ain't no doubt
You just ain't gonna get what you want
With one foot in and one foot out
You got to give it all or nothin' at all
All or nothin' at all
Now I only got a little time
So if you're gonna change your mind
Then shout out what you're thinking of
If what you're thinkin' of is love
I want it all or nothin' at all
I want it all or nothin' at all

[Cartierfor3]

I'd maybe wait a few more dates before I let in her in on your oscar love. Just some good bud advice.

[star seed 7]

j-dub is Ted Mosby.

no. ted is a pussy.

i'm more like tom in 500 days of summer. who, though also kind of a pussy, is not as much of one as mosby. plus jgl 

That expectations vs reality scene is probably the most I've ever related to a movie ever. Ever.

[j-dub]

I'd maybe wait a few more dates before I let in her in on your oscar love. Just some good bud advice.

way too late for that 

[Mr Bread]

Hey j-dub, "I want it all or nothing at all" is actually an O-Town quote, but I can see how you'd confuse them with oscar.

It could also be interpreted as being rapey. 

[Cartierfor3]

I'd maybe wait a few more dates before I let in her in on your oscar love. Just some good bud advice.

way too late for that 

Are you just like "Hi I'm J-dub, nice to meet you, oscar is my favorite" when you meet a woman?

[j-dub]

I'd maybe wait a few more dates before I let in her in on your oscar love. Just some good bud advice.

way too late for that 

Are you just like "Hi I'm J-dub, nice to meet you, oscar is my favorite" when you meet a woman?

every time, obviously. 

but seriously, yes. pretty much. i mean, 2nd date at the latest. but that's probably never happened that i can recall.

Hey j-dub, "I want it all or nothing at all" is actually an O-Town quote, but I can see how you'd confuse them with oscar.

It could also be interpreted as being rapey. 

go say that to oscar's face 

[j-dub]

j-dub is Ted Mosby.

no. ted is a pussy.

i'm more like tom in 500 days of summer. who, though also kind of a pussy, is not as much of one as mosby. plus jgl 

That expectations vs reality scene is probably the most I've ever related to a movie ever. Ever.

oh yeah. like ridiculously true to soooo many experiences.

[Stevesie60]

If you karaoke'd oscar for her you'd be able to show your hopeless romantic side to her all you wanted.

[j-dub]

If you karaoke'd oscar for her you'd be able to show your hopeless romantic side to her all you wanted.

i already sang a snippet of thunder road out loud to her in real life when we were walking on the trolley trail after walking to the nelson 

(it's not quite as j-dub-y as it sounds)