Author Topic: Master Dating Thread (Read 940630 times)

puniraptor · « **Reply #6575 on:** January 13, 2015, 12:59:30 PM »

i dont know what her deal is. she gets twice as much veggies and he gets twice as much meat (food). perfect synergy.

The1BigWillie · « **Reply #6576 on:** January 13, 2015, 01:04:27 PM »

I messed around with an Indian girl at a wedding once. She was very.... aggressive

. I can see how Dlew could fall into this trap.

pissclams · « **Reply #6577 on:** January 13, 2015, 01:24:04 PM »

Quote from: Dlew12 on January 13, 2015, 11:41:44 AM

had some pretty important long term conversations last night. me not being hindu is apparently a big hangup. she's "trying to figure out" how she feels, but i think we all know how this ends.

it will end in 1 of 2 ways. either she gets over it and you stay together, or she can't get over it, and you break up and find someone new. both seem like great options.

slobber · « **Reply #6578 on:** January 13, 2015, 01:28:39 PM »

Good luck. If it's not completely resolved, run away. What kind of bothers her now will really piss her off in 5 or 10 years.

Gonna win 'em all!

michigancat · « **Reply #6579 on:** January 13, 2015, 01:30:45 PM »

Quote from: pissclams on January 13, 2015, 01:24:04 PM

Quote from: Dlew12 on January 13, 2015, 11:41:44 AM
had some pretty important long term conversations last night. me not being hindu is apparently a big hangup. she's "trying to figure out" how she feels, but i think we all know how this ends.

it will end in 1 of 2 ways. either she gets over it and you stay together, or she can't get over it, and you break up and find someone new. both seem like great options.

Seems like dlew could also "get over it" and pretend to be a Hindu for the wedding.

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #6580 on:** January 13, 2015, 01:32:58 PM »

But then god might make him burn in hell for doing that.

meow meow · « **Reply #6581 on:** January 13, 2015, 01:33:05 PM »

how does one pretend to be Hindu?

Mrs. Gooch · « **Reply #6582 on:** January 13, 2015, 01:33:33 PM »

Quote from: michigancat on January 13, 2015, 01:30:45 PM

Quote from: pissclams on January 13, 2015, 01:24:04 PM
Quote from: Dlew12 on January 13, 2015, 11:41:44 AM
had some pretty important long term conversations last night. me not being hindu is apparently a big hangup. she's "trying to figure out" how she feels, but i think we all know how this ends.

it will end in 1 of 2 ways. either she gets over it and you stay together, or she can't get over it, and you break up and find someone new. both seem like great options.

Seems like dlew could also "get over it" and pretend to be a Hindu for the wedding.

Or they have an on-again-off-again relationship for a few years because she thinks she can get over it but each time realizes that she can't.

michigancat · « **Reply #6583 on:** January 13, 2015, 01:39:31 PM »

Quote from: meow meow on January 13, 2015, 01:33:05 PM

how does one pretend to be Hindu?

The same way you'd pretend to be a member of any other religion.

Also, it's hard to tell if her hang up is personal or if she is concerned about what her family would think, based on what we've been told. If the hangup is entirely hers, the faking plan doesn't really work.

8manpick · « **Reply #6584 on:** January 13, 2015, 01:45:00 PM »

GF's Mom is Greek Orthodox, and her Dad is Jewish. Her Mom "converted" to Judaism for the wedding to appease her Dad's family. Both families wore black to the wedding in protest. 2 years later, no one cared. Maybe Hindu families would work kind of like that?

The Tonya Harding of Twitter Users Creep · « **Reply #6585 on:** January 13, 2015, 01:49:12 PM »

Quote from: 8manpick on January 13, 2015, 01:45:00 PM

GF's Mom is Greek Orthodox, and her Dad is Jewish. Her Mom "converted" to Judaism for the wedding to appease her Dad's family. Both families wore black to the wedding in protest. 2 years later, no one cared. Maybe Hindu families would work kind of like that?

seems childish. glad they've gotten over it.

michigancat · « **Reply #6586 on:** January 13, 2015, 02:08:44 PM »

Quote from: 8manpick on January 13, 2015, 01:45:00 PM

GF's Mom is Greek Orthodox, and her Dad is Jewish. Her Mom "converted" to Judaism for the wedding to appease her Dad's family. Both families wore black to the wedding in protest. 2 years later, no one cared. Maybe Hindu families would work kind of like that?

yeah, if you aren't willing to

A) Change your religion

or

B) Piss off your family

to be with someone long-term, you probably shouldn't be with that person long term. The person you choose to spend your life with is more meaningful and will give you more happiness than either religion or family will.

Conversely, if your significant other expects you to either change their religion or piss off their family to be with them, it's a good sign you shouldn't be with that person.

Looks like DLew and his lady friend are 4 for 4, pack it up and move on.

pissclams · « **Reply #6587 on:** January 13, 2015, 02:10:16 PM »

Quote from: michigancat on January 13, 2015, 01:30:45 PM

Quote from: pissclams on January 13, 2015, 01:24:04 PM
Quote from: Dlew12 on January 13, 2015, 11:41:44 AM
had some pretty important long term conversations last night. me not being hindu is apparently a big hangup. she's "trying to figure out" how she feels, but i think we all know how this ends.

it will end in 1 of 2 ways. either she gets over it and you stay together, or she can't get over it, and you break up and find someone new. both seem like great options.

Seems like dlew could also "get over it" and pretend to be a Hindu for the wedding.

that wasn't presented as one of the options so i'm guessing that it isn't one

the cold reality for all of you saps who think that you've found the love of your life is that there are literally millions of loves of your lives walking the earth

this religion thing doesn't seem like all of that big of a deal so maybe find someone who you're more compatible with

michigancat · « **Reply #6588 on:** January 13, 2015, 02:12:09 PM »

Quote from: pissclams on January 13, 2015, 02:10:16 PM

Quote from: michigancat on January 13, 2015, 01:30:45 PM

Quote from: pissclams on January 13, 2015, 01:24:04 PM
Quote from: Dlew12 on January 13, 2015, 11:41:44 AM
had some pretty important long term conversations last night. me not being hindu is apparently a big hangup. she's "trying to figure out" how she feels, but i think we all know how this ends.

it will end in 1 of 2 ways. either she gets over it and you stay together, or she can't get over it, and you break up and find someone new. both seem like great options.

Seems like dlew could also "get over it" and pretend to be a Hindu for the wedding.

that wasn't presented as one of the options so i'm guessing that it isn't one

the cold reality for all of you saps who think that you've found the love of your life is that there are literally millions of loves of your lives walking the earth

this religion thing doesn't seem like all of that big of a deal so maybe find someone who you're more compatible with

I agree, see my post right above yours.

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #6589 on:** January 13, 2015, 02:14:33 PM »

Break ups are hard, man! I know some of the season vets can just say "pack it up and move on", which is probably the right thing to do, but sometimes it's just not that easy. All those memories and time spent together and then the big void. Woof! T's & P's with ya good buddy.

I will say, I met Ms. wacky like a month after I had fallen pretty hard for a fellow cat and then she had to leave for awhile to Colorado for personal reasons. Sometimes it just works out in the end.

P.S.- That girl called me when she got back from Colorado and I was very confused at that time. I had to tell her I had met someone else. Talk about choosing a path at that time.

Brock Landers · « **Reply #6590 on:** January 13, 2015, 02:27:09 PM »

Quote from: 8manpick on January 13, 2015, 01:45:00 PM

GF's Mom is Greek Orthodox, and her Dad is Jewish. Her Mom "converted" to Judaism for the wedding to appease her Dad's family. Both families wore black to the wedding in protest. 2 years later, no one cared. Maybe Hindu families would work kind of like that?

Wait, why would the Dad's family protest? They got one converted to their side!!

DQ12 · « **Reply #6591 on:** January 13, 2015, 02:28:22 PM »

i get that sometimes things don't work out and that these things happen and that i'll live and etc... given our different backgrounds it was gonna be a pretty longshot anyways. i mean, despite what rusty says, culture/religion/family aren't always small potatoes in a relationship.

8manpick · « **Reply #6592 on:** January 13, 2015, 02:28:59 PM »

Quote from: Brock Landers on January 13, 2015, 02:27:09 PM

Quote from: 8manpick on January 13, 2015, 01:45:00 PM
GF's Mom is Greek Orthodox, and her Dad is Jewish. Her Mom "converted" to Judaism for the wedding to appease her Dad's family. Both families wore black to the wedding in protest. 2 years later, no one cared. Maybe Hindu families would work kind of like that?

Wait, why would the Dad's family protest? They got one converted to their side!!

Not sure. Guess it was good enough for the wedding to happen, but not for full support? Religious groups, like knees, are weird.

Mrs. Gooch · « **Reply #6593 on:** January 13, 2015, 02:29:16 PM »

Quote from: Brock Landers on January 13, 2015, 02:27:09 PM

Quote from: 8manpick on January 13, 2015, 01:45:00 PM
GF's Mom is Greek Orthodox, and her Dad is Jewish. Her Mom "converted" to Judaism for the wedding to appease her Dad's family. Both families wore black to the wedding in protest. 2 years later, no one cared. Maybe Hindu families would work kind of like that?

Wait, why would the Dad's family protest? They got one converted to their side!!

Probably because she wasn't "really" Jewish.

pissclams · « **Reply #6594 on:** January 13, 2015, 02:31:38 PM »

Quote from: Dlew12 on January 13, 2015, 02:28:22 PM

i get that sometimes things don't work out and that these things happen and that i'll live and etc... given our different backgrounds it was gonna be a pretty longshot anyways. i mean, despite what rusty says, culture/religion/family aren't always small potatoes in a relationship.

the point is that it seems that the religious issues are bigger than your relationship, not smaller

michigancat · « **Reply #6595 on:** January 13, 2015, 02:34:49 PM »

Quote from: Dlew12 on January 13, 2015, 02:28:22 PM

i mean, despite what rusty says, culture/religion/family aren't always small potatoes in a relationship.

they rarely are, but they should be, relative to the person you choose to have a relationship. You don't have to live with your family/culture/religion, but you do have to live with your significant other/spouse.

However, it doesn't sound like either of you are willing to compromise so it's definitely best to move on.

Shooter Jones · « **Reply #6596 on:** January 13, 2015, 04:00:05 PM »

Quote from: pissclams on January 13, 2015, 02:10:16 PM

the cold reality for all of you saps who think that you've found the love of your life is that there are literally millions of loves of your lives walking the earth

this religion thing doesn't seem like all of that big of a deal so maybe find someone who you're more compatible with

this is rough ridin' spot on.

Skipper44 · « **Reply #6597 on:** January 13, 2015, 04:08:29 PM »

Quote from: 8manpick on January 13, 2015, 01:45:00 PM

GF's Mom is Greek Orthodox, and her Dad is Jewish. Her Mom "converted" to Judaism for the wedding to appease her Dad's family. Both families wore black to the wedding in protest. 2 years later, no one cared. Maybe Hindu families would work kind of like that?

I bet there are some lol wedding pics

0.42 · « **Reply #6598 on:** January 13, 2015, 08:26:26 PM »

it was recently suggested to me that i should get on tinder

wetwillie · « **Reply #6599 on:** January 13, 2015, 08:28:07 PM »

I haven't heard much in this thread about match.com from you single cats or eharmony. Seems like it would be a viable route.