Master Dating Thread

[Mrs. Gooch]

Bread, significant other. She has job related and job hunting stress right now.

Oh just go straight to the full on cuddling then.

[michigancat]

Bread, significant other. She has job related and job hunting stress right now.

ooooohhhhhh. So it IS a dating related problem. (I think the rest of us thought it was a coworker you didn't like).

Just chill out and do what you can to help. And if you can't look forward to what sounds like it should be a fun weekend (even with one person stressed about work), maybe look for someone new?

[michigancat]

I mean this:

Have to spend three straight days with her, so I am really scratching my head here.

when it looks like a fun weekend is a big time red flag for you two as a couple IMO

[Mrs. Gooch]

I mean this:

Have to spend three straight days with her, so I am really scratching my head here.

when it looks like a fun weekend is a big time red flag for you two as a couple IMO

This.

[Tobias]

yikes

[Emo EMAW]

Suggest that she quit and become a Suzy Homemaker.

[420seriouscat69]

Ms. wacky had a big interview today and she texted me how nervous she was and I calmed her down by telling her how awesome she is and to just be herself. Then I threw in a jk and she rocked it. Just say nice things to her to make her feel better. She got a follow up btw. 

[Jabeez]

I mean this:

Have to spend three straight days with her, so I am really scratching my head here.

when it looks like a fun weekend is a big time red flag for you two as a couple IMO

Yeah, I usually spend most every weekend with her, but not travelling.  Her level of stress is way higher than ever, and she's a normally  very even keeled person.

 I am just concerned, I'm not dreading spending time with her.  we can't just go home if she's feeling overwhelmed, and she will only know me.

[420seriouscat69]

I mean this:

Have to spend three straight days with her, so I am really scratching my head here.

when it looks like a fun weekend is a big time red flag for you two as a couple IMO

Yeah, I usually spend most every weekend with her, but not travelling.  Her level of stress is way higher than ever, and she's a normally  very even keeled person.

 I am just concerned, I'm not dreading spending time with her.  we can't just go home if she's feeling overwhelmed, and she will only know me.

Sounds like a Tuesday to me. Tell her to have a few beers and remind her how nice your family/friends are. I know all about the being in front of a bunch of ppl you barely know and now they're some of my good friends.

[Jabeez]

Ms. wacky had a big interview today and she texted me how nervous she was and I calmed her down by telling her how awesome she is and to just be herself. Then I threw in a jk and she rocked it. Just say nice things to her to make her feel better. She got a follow up btw. 

Yeah this is what I do, she's not used to failing, she's only had two interviews, they were for the two jobs she has had. So not getting jobs on the first attempt is killing her.

[pissclams]

I mean this:

Have to spend three straight days with her, so I am really scratching my head here.

when it looks like a fun weekend is a big time red flag for you two as a couple IMO

Yeah, I usually spend most every weekend with her, but not travelling.  Her level of stress is way higher than ever, and she's a normally  very even keeled person.

 I am just concerned, I'm not dreading spending time with her.  we can't just go home if she's feeling overwhelmed, and she will only know me.

honestly your best course of action is to cancel your weekend plans with her and ignore her until she starts acting right
if she doesn't act right then delete her phone number and block her.  you'll be doing her a favor, trust me

i'd send her a halloween card though, just to say hi, you don't want to burn any bridges

[420seriouscat69]

Ms. wacky had a big interview today and she texted me how nervous she was and I calmed her down by telling her how awesome she is and to just be herself. Then I threw in a jk and she rocked it. Just say nice things to her to make her feel better. She got a follow up btw. 

Yeah this is what I do, she's not used to failing, she's only had two interviews, they were for the two jobs she has had. So not getting jobs on the first attempt is killing her.

I get it, but it should build character. I had a streak going for awhile and got knocked back on a few interviews. It's a good time to self reflect. Ms. wacky didn't get the job they interviewed her for 4 months ago, but they remembered her and contacted her for this new position. It can only hurt yourself by dwelling on it imo.

[Jabeez]

I mean this:

Have to spend three straight days with her, so I am really scratching my head here.

when it looks like a fun weekend is a big time red flag for you two as a couple IMO

Yeah, I usually spend most every weekend with her, but not travelling.  Her level of stress is way higher than ever, and she's a normally  very even keeled person.

 I am just concerned, I'm not dreading spending time with her.  we can't just go home if she's feeling overwhelmed, and she will only know me.

honestly your best course of action is to cancel your weekend plans with her and ignore her until she starts acting right
if she doesn't act right then delete her phone number and block her.  you'll be doing her a favor, trust me

i'd send her a halloween card though, just to say hi, you don't want to burn any bridges

Thank you for validating my initial idea.

[420seriouscat69]

 

[Jabeez]

Ms. wacky had a big interview today and she texted me how nervous she was and I calmed her down by telling her how awesome she is and to just be herself. Then I threw in a jk and she rocked it. Just say nice things to her to make her feel better. She got a follow up btw. 

Yeah this is what I do, she's not used to failing, she's only had two interviews, they were for the two jobs she has had. So not getting jobs on the first attempt is killing her.

I get it, but it should build character. I had a streak going for awhile and got knocked back on a few interviews. It's a good time to self reflect. Ms. wacky didn't get the job they interviewed her for 4 months ago, but they remembered her and contacted her for this new position. It can only hurt yourself by dwelling on it imo.

It took me like a year and a half to find a real job out of college.  That was the most depressing time of my life, all my friends moved away or had sweet jobs.  I was selling equipment cold calling... So sad. 

[pissclams]

I mean this:

Have to spend three straight days with her, so I am really scratching my head here.

when it looks like a fun weekend is a big time red flag for you two as a couple IMO

Yeah, I usually spend most every weekend with her, but not travelling.  Her level of stress is way higher than ever, and she's a normally  very even keeled person.

 I am just concerned, I'm not dreading spending time with her.  we can't just go home if she's feeling overwhelmed, and she will only know me.

honestly your best course of action is to cancel your weekend plans with her and ignore her until she starts acting right
if she doesn't act right then delete her phone number and block her.  you'll be doing her a favor, trust me

i'd send her a halloween card though, just to say hi, you don't want to burn any bridges

Thank you for validating my initial idea.

it's your job as a man to train your female.  like when cesar trains the mean dogs to obey him.  do you want to date a savage pit bull or a pleasant corgi?
women are v much like dogs and children under 2

[michigancat]

I mean this:

Have to spend three straight days with her, so I am really scratching my head here.

when it looks like a fun weekend is a big time red flag for you two as a couple IMO

Yeah, I usually spend most every weekend with her, but not travelling.  Her level of stress is way higher than ever, and she's a normally  very even keeled person.

 I am just concerned, I'm not dreading spending time with her.  we can't just go home if she's feeling overwhelmed, and she will only know me.

you sure sounded like you were dreading spending time with her. Is canceling an option? Or at least part of it? Like, instead of Nascar, go to something she might enjoy more.

[8manpick]

I mean this:

Have to spend three straight days with her, so I am really scratching my head here.

when it looks like a fun weekend is a big time red flag for you two as a couple IMO

Yeah, I usually spend most every weekend with her, but not travelling.  Her level of stress is way higher than ever, and she's a normally  very even keeled person.

 I am just concerned, I'm not dreading spending time with her.  we can't just go home if she's feeling overwhelmed, and she will only know me.

Why would she be overwhelmed by going to sporting events and boozing? You seen like the one who is stressed. Have a beer, enjoy the Royal(s) and relax. Both of you.

[Jabeez]

I mean this:

Have to spend three straight days with her, so I am really scratching my head here.

when it looks like a fun weekend is a big time red flag for you two as a couple IMO

Yeah, I usually spend most every weekend with her, but not travelling.  Her level of stress is way higher than ever, and she's a normally  very even keeled person.

 I am just concerned, I'm not dreading spending time with her.  we can't just go home if she's feeling overwhelmed, and she will only know me.

you sure sounded like you were dreading spending time with her. Is canceling an option? Or at least part of it? Like, instead of Nascar, go to something she might enjoy more.

She's from south Carolina, NASCAR was her idea

[michigancat]

I mean this:

Have to spend three straight days with her, so I am really scratching my head here.

when it looks like a fun weekend is a big time red flag for you two as a couple IMO

Yeah, I usually spend most every weekend with her, but not travelling.  Her level of stress is way higher than ever, and she's a normally  very even keeled person.

 I am just concerned, I'm not dreading spending time with her.  we can't just go home if she's feeling overwhelmed, and she will only know me.

you sure sounded like you were dreading spending time with her. Is canceling an option? Or at least part of it? Like, instead of Nascar, go to something she might enjoy more.

She's from south Carolina, NASCAR was her idea

OK, it seems like you get my point.

[Mrs. Gooch]

I mean this:

Have to spend three straight days with her, so I am really scratching my head here.

when it looks like a fun weekend is a big time red flag for you two as a couple IMO

Yeah, I usually spend most every weekend with her, but not travelling.  Her level of stress is way higher than ever, and she's a normally  very even keeled person.

 I am just concerned, I'm not dreading spending time with her.  we can't just go home if she's feeling overwhelmed, and she will only know me.

you sure sounded like you were dreading spending time with her. Is canceling an option? Or at least part of it? Like, instead of Nascar, go to something she might enjoy more.

She's from south Carolina, NASCAR was her idea

So unless she is an out of work race card driver that experience shouldn't remind her of her job worries so just keep the mood on having fun.

[CNS]

Predrink.  The earlier the better. 

[EllRobersonisInnocent]

My god, you guys crap all over this thread today.

[Asteriskhead]

My god, you guys crap all over this thread today.

I was just trying to tell everyone that cuddling sucks. I'm not to be held responsible for what these dolts do.

[WillieWatanabe]

sounds like Jabeez found a keeper to me.