Master Dating Thread

[DQ12]

Yeah I was under the impression that WC told us that he went pee all over her clean laundry too.

[420seriouscat69]

Nah, it was a random Tuesday night. We went out for a few drinks and went back to my place. She folded my clothes for me that night and I slept walked over to my chair where the clothes were and I almost started to pee in that area where the clothes were. She woke me up and laughed. It was definitely an oops moment. Not her clothes and no dumping.

[IPA4Me]

If it didn't happen, then guess she was full of poop in her email to you...

So I had a little Tuesday funday last night. GF asked me how I was doing this morning and I said "fine". I show up to work and received this email from her.

For starters you made up some crazy story that KS is the “epicenter” of the US between something and Vegas and my family has lots of money tied up there right now that is going to help us, like $20K+ but everyone in my family is trying to cut me out of my share. And even better your KState friends told you all of this about my family and I. Then it was that everyone at KState hates you and they are against us and going to get back at you for everything.  Sound familiar or even slightly real? Ummm no.
Then you fell out of bed and hit your head on the wall when you were trying to go to the bathroom, this is when we were still awake. Oh and the game you like to play a lot “I don’t think you love me but I love you so much” went on for quite some time.   And the real kicker, you woke up and peed all over your chair and the clean clothes I just folded. Then got mad at me because I yelled at you stop.
So ya, you were just fine last night. I am not judging but when you tell me you were just fine last night, you were pretty much far from it.
 
Have a good day?

Broke up shortly after that. Got back together. Lost your job. She went on a business trip. You lost her key. You got a new job. You're moving in together in August. Happily ever after. 

[IPA4Me]

Nah, it was a random Tuesday night. We went out for a few drinks and went back to my place. She folded my clothes for me that night and I slept walked over to my chair where the clothes were and I almost started to pee in that area where the clothes were. She woke me up and laughed. It was definitely an oops moment. Not her clothes and no dumping.

Ya, I thought it was her clothes but it was your pile.

[420seriouscat69]

Yeah, she was full of bs on the clothes thing. I got that out of her. She said I had walked over there like I was in the act to, but never did. Also, I was just making sure you knew this had no correlation with the brief split. That was another issue that we hashed out.

[IPA4Me]

Yeah, she was full of bs on the clothes thing. I got that out of her. She said I had walked over there like I was in the act to, but never did. Also, I was just making sure you knew this had no correlation with the brief split. That was another issue that we hashed out.

The drunk night, split up and job loss were all close together in the thread. Easy to infer that they were related. It's all good. Best of luck to you. Bumps in the road definitely help the relationship grow if you want it to grow.

[420seriouscat69]

 

[Willesgirl]

Aren't you almost 30? Why not get married? At your age, I don't really *get* moving in together. If you're really into each other, then you're just killing time. And if you're moving in together as a trial, you're hindering your ability to find someone else. If you were 23, I'd say yeah, just move in together, but at 30, and she's even older, all you're doing is wasting each other's time. Just my opinion.

*Full disclosure: I lived with Willes for a few months before we got married. We were engaged already, with date set and invitations sent.

[j-dub]

hey fan man, sup bro 

anyways, so apparently gronkzonga's was under the impression that you and i were long-time real life buds* who had known each other in real life for a long time and were really close or whatevs..  *(we are totally great buds btw. internet and IRL  )

i know this because she seemed a little non-plussed on the phone while using the word "misrepresent" or something similar at one point a few days ago and then i made her explain herself and apparently she isn't totally impressed by the whole "internet friends who have pak'd a couple times IRL" phenomenon that we have going on here at this nice little blog   

[Cartierfor3]

hey fan man, sup bro 

anyways, so apparently gronkzonga's was under the impression that you and i were long-time real life buds* who had known each other in real life for a long time and were really close or whatevs..  *(we are totally great buds btw. internet and IRL  )

i know this because she seemed a little non-plussed on the phone while using the word "misrepresent" or something similar at one point a few days ago and then i made her explain herself and apparently she isn't totally impressed by the whole "internet friends who have pak'd a couple times IRL" phenomenon that we have going on here at this nice little blog   

What does "a little non-plussed" mean?

[j-dub]

hey fan man, sup bro 

anyways, so apparently gronkzonga's was under the impression that you and i were long-time real life buds* who had known each other in real life for a long time and were really close or whatevs..  *(we are totally great buds btw. internet and IRL  )

i know this because she seemed a little non-plussed on the phone while using the word "misrepresent" or something similar at one point a few days ago and then i made her explain herself and apparently she isn't totally impressed by the whole "internet friends who have pak'd a couple times IRL" phenomenon that we have going on here at this nice little blog   

What does "a little non-plussed" mean?

surprised and confused, so basically this  lol

[420seriouscat69]

  I know bud. I've been  on the sidelines. Grinkzongas and Ms. Wackysquawk are childhood friends. I'm getting the play-by-play daily and getting the "Have you talked to j-dub lately? You got any deets on the sitch?

[420seriouscat69]

Aren't you almost 30? Why not get married? At your age, I don't really *get* moving in together. If you're really into each other, then you're just killing time. And if you're moving in together as a trial, you're hindering your ability to find someone else. If you were 23, I'd say yeah, just move in together, but at 30, and she's even older, all you're doing is wasting each other's time. Just my opinion.

*Full disclosure: I lived with Willes for a few months before we got married. We were engaged already, with date set and invitations sent.

I'll be 30 in September. I'm playing it slow in those terms, cause I want to be financially ready for something like that. My folks got married at 18, had a kid and we went through 2 bankruptcies growing up. I'm living and learning off their example. I'm really tight with my $. Plus, a ring for her and her up bringing might be a little out of my price range right now. However, I might be making a big move here in a year or two (career wise) where it eventually makes sense. Still in the "talking" phase when it comes to this move.

[star seed 7]

Good luck fanmayne, you deserve it, etc.

[meow meow]

Good luck wacky on your big move (career wise)

[ben ji]

I know bud. I've been  on the sidelines. Grinkzongas and Ms. Wackysquawk are childhood friends. I'm getting the play-by-play daily and getting the "Have you talked to j-dub lately? You got any deets on the sitch?

lulz

[Mrs. Gooch]

Aren't you almost 30? Why not get married? At your age, I don't really *get* moving in together. If you're really into each other, then you're just killing time. And if you're moving in together as a trial, you're hindering your ability to find someone else. If you were 23, I'd say yeah, just move in together, but at 30, and she's even older, all you're doing is wasting each other's time. Just my opinion.

*Full disclosure: I lived with Willes for a few months before we got married. We were engaged already, with date set and invitations sent.

I'll be 30 in September. I'm playing it slow in those terms, cause I want to be financially ready for something like that. My folks got married at 18, had a kid and we went through 2 bankruptcies growing up. I'm living and learning off their example. I'm really tight with my $. Plus, a ring for her and her up bringing might be a little out of my price range right now. However, I might be making a big move here in a year or two (career wise) where it eventually makes sense. Still in the "talking" phase when it comes to this move.

There's no reason to get married unless you don't like "living in sin".

[Willesgirl]

I needed the commitment, Mrs. Gooch. I wouldn't want to waste my time on someone who may or may not be just killing time until something better came along.

[puniraptor]

gotta get hitched for that life insurance money for when your partner opens too many envelopes

[420seriouscat69]

gotta get hitched for that life insurance money for when your partner opens too many envelopes

Her trust fund too.  Just jk, but really.

[steve dave]

gotta get hitched for that life insurance money for when your partner opens too many envelopes

Her trust fund too.  Just jk, but really.

 

[Mrs. Gooch]

gotta get hitched for that life insurance money for when your partner opens too many envelopes

Can't you just name them as a beneficiary?

[Emo EMAW]

gotta get hitched for that life insurance money for when your partner opens too many envelopes

Can't you just name them as a beneficiary?

In KS you have to get your spouse to sign a special waiver if they are NOT the beneficiary for pretty much anything (life, 401k, property, investments, etc).  Otherwise it defaults to them.

[Mrs. Gooch]

gotta get hitched for that life insurance money for when your partner opens too many envelopes

Can't you just name them as a beneficiary?

In KS you have to get your spouse to sign a special waiver if they are NOT the beneficiary for pretty much anything (life, 401k, property, investments, etc).  Otherwise it defaults to them.

Yeah, but if you are not married then you don't have to get your spouse to sign anything, right??

[Emo EMAW]

gotta get hitched for that life insurance money for when your partner opens too many envelopes

Can't you just name them as a beneficiary?

In KS you have to get your spouse to sign a special waiver if they are NOT the beneficiary for pretty much anything (life, 401k, property, investments, etc).  Otherwise it defaults to them.

Yeah, but if you are not married then you don't have to get your spouse to sign anything, right??

Ah, I get you now Mrs Gooch.  Little slow on the uptake today.  Probably because of my near death experience this morning (check out the Winter Storm thread for deetz).