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General Discussion => Essentially Flyertalk => Topic started by: EMAWgeddon on February 15, 2012, 07:41:29 PM
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Okay bros, why don't you guys tell me why men don't see me as long-term relationship material.
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A competing dating thread. I know nothing about you, but my guess is you are just choosing men who have no interest in a long term relationship. It's probably nothing personal.
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A guy who wore a blue tooth told me I wasn't worth moving to Philly for.
Some old guy told me tonight he didn't see a long-term relationship with me and that's what he was looking for.
Tonight felt like a good time to have a public meltdown. Didn't feel like doing it over Cat Hoops.
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I think you're great, EMAWgeddon.
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You're good in my book, EMAWgeddon.
You can beat this!
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Find someone that you are attracted to, and someone you don't find revolting/boring/annoying. The rest will work itself out.
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Find someone that you are attracted to, and someone you don't find revolting/boring/annoying. The rest will work itself out.
Absolutely no blutoofin.
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Find someone that you are attracted to, and someone you don't find revolting/boring/annoying. The rest will work itself out.
Absolutely no blutoofin.
Wearing a bluetooth is acceptable, I think. Maybe not in public/outdoors, though. Just in a car, or maybe around the house if you are busy doing something.
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Get a dog. They will fall in love with it and in turn you.
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Are you long-term relationship material?
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Are you long-term relationship material?
Apparently not :frown:
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Find someone that you are attracted to, and someone you don't find revolting/boring/annoying. The rest will work itself out.
Absolutely no blutoofin.
Wearing a bluetooth is acceptable, I think. Maybe not in public/outdoors, though. Just in a car, or maybe around the house if you are busy doing something.
I agree that sounds like acceptable bluetoothing. My favorite blutoothers are the ones that wear it on their ear all day and never get a phone call.
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I'm printing the crap out of this thread.
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I'm printing the crap out of this thread.
hahaha :lol: :lol:
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I thought I was going to get some real answers here.
I'm breaking out the Adele.
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chin up
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Leave Philly.
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Do things that make you more long-term relationshipy. I don't know what that means becuase I don't know you. Would you be proud to have daughters who grow up to be exactly like you?
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I thought I was going to get some real answers here.
I'm breaking out the Adele.
Move back to Kansas. Find a true EMAW. He won't be able to help but love you in return.
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Look on the bright side, at least you are short-term relationship worthy!
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I thought I was going to get some real answers here.
I'm breaking out the Adele.
Move back to Kansas. Find a true EMAW. He won't be able to help but love you in return.
I can't move back to Kansas. No jobs for my kind. I would have to take a big pay cut :bawl:
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I thought I was going to get some real answers here.
I'm breaking out the Adele.
Move back to Kansas. Find a true EMAW. He won't be able to help but love you in return.
I can't move back to Kansas. No jobs for my kind. I would have to take a big pay cut :bawl:
Love > Money
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let me do my best Dr.Clamsphil:
my guess (based upon the little that i know of you), is that you intimidate the majority of the men you're meeting. most guys don't like that, some guys are attracted to it. finding the right combo of guy who isn't intimidated, is single, and interested, is going to be slightly more difficult than what other women have to deal with. the reality is you're probably fine on your own more often than not and would be in a worse place attempting to be with someone who you try to "make it work with", because you're just not that type of girl.
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Real answer, and I know the clowns on the board don't want to hear it.
Stop looking for the future spouse. Look to have a good time. Not necessarily putting out, just hanging loose, playing the field. Nothing drives a man crazier than knowing the woman he is dating MIGHT be with another man as well.
Years ago in college, I dated a girl who had other guys she was seeing. It got hot at times, but never went all the way. She was no virgin but didn't believe in casual sex, so she said. So we hung out, dated, got to know each other, and I was freaking crazy about her. At last, of all the guys she picked, I was the one who won. I was the victor.
Or so I thought.
We are no longer an item but are Facebook friends. She admitted to me awhile back that there were no other guys, that when we met there was immediate chemistry, but she could tell I was noncommital. So she played this whole "I'm dating around" game to pique my interest. It worked ... for awhile.
Hey, it's worth a shot. And it probably works even better if you DO have other guys on the side. That way, when they all get super into you because they want to be the "winner," you can pick the guy who best suits your needs.
Oh, and another thing. Relationships are overrated and only desired by those who are not in one.
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clams gives good advice there. you are choosing the wrong guys. just from our extremely limited personal interactions I think you'd be a hell of a catch. plus, you were WAY too good for the bluetooth guy anyway.
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I thought I was going to get some real answers here.
I'm breaking out the Adele.
Move back to Kansas. Find a true EMAW. He won't be able to help but love you in return.
Whatever you do, do not rough ridin' move back to Kansas. Anywhere else you could be after Kansas is a rough ridin' pleasure cruise. Take it from the idiot who moved back there on a whim.
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Real answer, and I know the clowns on the board don't want to hear it.
Stop looking for the future spouse. Look to have a good time. Not necessarily putting out, just hanging loose, playing the field. Nothing drives a man crazier than knowing the woman he is dating MIGHT be with another man as well.
Years ago in college, I dated a girl who had other guys she was seeing. It got hot at times, but never went all the way. She was no virgin but didn't believe in casual sex, so she said. So we hung out, dated, got to know each other, and I was freaking crazy about her. At last, of all the guys she picked, I was the one who won. I was the victor.
Or so I thought.
We are no longer an item but are Facebook friends. She admitted to me awhile back that there were no other guys, that when we met there was immediate chemistry, but she could tell I was noncommital. So she played this whole "I'm dating around" game to pique my interest. It worked ... for awhile.
Hey, it's worth a shot. And it probably works even better if you DO have other guys on the side. That way, when they all get super into you because they want to be the "winner," you can pick the guy who best suits your needs.
Oh, and another thing. Relationships are overrated and only desired by those who are not in one.
:jerk:
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Obviously I am in no position to give advice on these sorts of matters...
But, my guess is that you are dating douche bags. Guys who have something about them that leads you to believe you like them, but it's more the idea of them that you like. It's not working and they pick up on that.
Go date a dude who is nothing like your last string of dudes. Also, maybe don't jam a riding crop up their ass until like the 5th or 6th date.
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Wow, Dingo's posts have been so entertaining ever since he outted himself as CatMatt.
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Stop looking for the future spouse. Look to have a good time. Not necessarily putting out, just hanging loose, playing the field. Nothing drives a man crazier than knowing the woman he is dating MIGHT be with another man as well.
This is horrible advice. Don't play games, that is the complete opposite of long-term.
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My advice is don't take advice.
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Stop looking for the future spouse. Look to have a good time. Not necessarily putting out, just hanging loose, playing the field. Nothing drives a man crazier than knowing the woman he is dating MIGHT be with another man as well.
I disagree. Also, if you really want to make it happen, check out a goofy movie on Netflix called Play the Game, starring Andy Griffith. It's newer. It's a bit twisted, and there's a disturbing scene where the ugly old broad who played Jerry Seinfeld's mother gives Andy Griffith head, but at the very end Ray Romano's mom and the cute chick who was the receptionist in The Practice spell out exactly their plan to get a noncommital guy to commit.
Love as a feeling is a myth. It's a freaking action. The rest is chemical response in the brain brought on by manipulation. Learn to manipulate, and you'll have your pick of the litter.
This is horrible advice. Don't play games, that is the complete opposite of long-term.
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Your proof is a movie?
Is twilight your proof of vampires?
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Stop looking for the future spouse. Look to have a good time. Not necessarily putting out, just hanging loose, playing the field. Nothing drives a man crazier than knowing the woman he is dating MIGHT be with another man as well.
This is horrible advice. Don't play games, that is the complete opposite of long-term.
I don't play games that is stupid.
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plus, you were WAY too good for the bluetooth guy anyway.
This seems to be the consensus.
I don't know why it is so hard. I don't have a terrible face, I am well educated, I like sports, I am really easy going. It should be so easy.
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Chin up. I was in the middle of the worst streak of my life, decided I was just going to have a casual relationship for the fun of it, and I ended up marrying the girl.
It's nothing you're doing wrong. Sometimes, you just get a run of bad luck. It happens to the best of us.
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plus, you were WAY too good for the bluetooth guy anyway.
This seems to be the consensus.
I don't know why it is so hard. I don't have a terrible face, I am well educated, I like sports, I am really easy going. It should be so easy.
i don't know you, but you sound great. stay confident and easy going and good things will eventually happen.
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I would suggest more ass-play. :dunno:
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Real answer, and I know the clowns on the board don't want to hear it.
Stop looking for the future spouse. Look to have a good time. Not necessarily putting out, just hanging loose, playing the field. Nothing drives a man crazier than knowing the woman he is dating MIGHT be with another man as well.
Years ago in college, I dated a girl who had other guys she was seeing. It got hot at times, but never went all the way. She was no virgin but didn't believe in casual sex, so she said. So we hung out, dated, got to know each other, and I was freaking crazy about her. At last, of all the guys she picked, I was the one who won. I was the victor.
Or so I thought.
We are no longer an item but are Facebook friends. She admitted to me awhile back that there were no other guys, that when we met there was immediate chemistry, but she could tell I was noncommital. So she played this whole "I'm dating around" game to pique my interest. It worked ... for awhile.
Hey, it's worth a shot. And it probably works even better if you DO have other guys on the side. That way, when they all get super into you because they want to be the "winner," you can pick the guy who best suits your needs.
Oh, and another thing. Relationships are overrated and only desired by those who are not in one.
Oh, so the method you are prescribing completely failed the one time you had any experience with it? Probably could have made that post a little shorter. Thanks for the overshare though.
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plus, you were WAY too good for the bluetooth guy anyway.
This seems to be the consensus.
I don't know why it is so hard. I don't have a terrible face, I am well educated, I like sports, I am really easy going. It should be so easy.
You seem like a catch to me? Just do things you like and meet genuine people. You'll find somebody.
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Okay bros, why don't you guys tell me why men don't see me as long-term relationship material.
A couple theories. Just brainstorming here.
I was in Canada for the holidays last December and went to a watch party in Edmonton for the Hawaii 'ship game. Actually ran into a guy that had met you. He said bluetooth boyfriend or otherwise, you put out a strong lesbian vibe (he was actually doing this :fatty: when he said it, lol). Something about you liking things most girls don't. I don't thing he's right, but maybe whatever vibe you're putting out is scaring dudes - at least those looking for a long-term relationship - off.
Also, FANNING HAS A 9+ PAGE MASTER DATING THREAD, yet you apparently felt you were too good for it. Are you stuck up? Do you maybe give off that impression without even knowing it? Maybe come around goEMAW more often for a slice of humble pie to keep that in check.
If any other possibilities come to mind, I'll post.
I'm printing the crap out of this thread.
This really was fantastic, hemmy.
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Utilize winks. Winks are amazing.
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Mods, please change Dingo's name to "Catmatt a.k.a. DNR". tia
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To be far, fanning's thread is about problems dating girls, and funny stories that come along with those problems. EMAWgeddon's is much more personal, and asking a group of guys what they're looking for in girls (more or less).
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To be far, fanning's thread is about problems dating girls, and funny stories that come along with those problems. EMAWgeddon's is much more personal, and asking a group of guys what they're looking for in girls (more or less).
It's a master thread, stevesie.
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Okay bros, why don't you guys tell me why men don't see me as long-term relationship material.
A couple theories. Just brainstorming here.
I was in Canada for the holidays last December and went to a watch party in Edmonton for the Hawaii 'ship game. Actually ran into a guy that had met you. He said bluetooth boyfriend or otherwise, you put out a strong lesbian vibe (he was actually doing this :fatty: when he said it, lol). Something about you liking things most girls don't. I don't thing he's right, but maybe whatever vibe you're putting out is scaring dudes - at least those looking for a long-term relationship - off.
Also, FANNING HAS A 9+ PAGE MASTER DATING THREAD, yet you apparently felt you were too good for it. Are you stuck up? Do you maybe give off that impression without even knowing it? Maybe come around goEMAW more often for a slice of humble pie to keep that in check.
If any other possibilities come to mind, I'll post.
I'm printing the crap out of this thread.
This really was fantastic, hemmy.
Your Canadian friend was probably just hammered and joking and things were way over blown. It's the metric system.
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Have you tried those high roller executive dating services they advertise in skymall? I think it might fast track you to where clams advised you to be.
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To be far, fanning's thread is about problems dating girls, and funny stories that come along with those problems. EMAWgeddon's is much more personal, and asking a group of guys what they're looking for in girls (more or less).
It's a master thread, stevesie.
I'm a huge advocate of master threads, but the topics are barely related
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To be far, fanning's thread is about problems dating girls, and funny stories that come along with those problems. EMAWgeddon's is much more personal, and asking a group of guys what they're looking for in girls (more or less).
It's a master thread, stevesie.
It just didn't feel right.
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christianmingle.com
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Have you tried those high roller executive dating services they advertise in skymall? I think it might fast track you to where clams advised you to be.
Scared of internet dating and dating services. I meet enough weirdos on the internet already.
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EMAWgeddon, move to florida and let's make some EMAWgic (EMAW magic). ;)
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Have you tried those high roller executive dating services they advertise in skymall? I think it might fast track you to where clams advised you to be.
Scared of internet dating and dating services. I meet enough weirdos on the internet already.
In their defense, they can align you based on 63 degrees of weirdness.
However, a pretty cool dude I know at work joined one of those sites on a whim and ended up getting married, so, yeah, I've seen it work.
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:bait:
my God.
Beauxemaw.com available? Mods? Ravi?
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Do you have any bad habits that dudes find weird/gross?
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EMAWgeddon, move to florida and let's make some EMAWgic (EMAW magic). ;)
Don't play with my heart, treysolid
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Do you have any bad habits that dudes find weird/gross?
NO.
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Your Canadian friend was probably just hammered and joking and things were way over blown. It's the metric system.
Yeah, probably. He was all about getting mumped up. Kept asking me if I knew where the oxygen bars were. Hey bro, I'm the rough ridin' tourist here.
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1) Take out a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down how much you made this last year.
3) Put it in the mirror you use to get ready in the morning/before you go out.
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1) Take out a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down how much you made this last year.
3) Put it in the mirror you use to get ready in the morning/before you go out.
Wait, which direction? Like taped to the mirror, or hold it up and then look at it through the mirror? If she makes $100 grand a year, and she looks at it in the mirror, it will really look like 001 a year. This is probably the opposite of what she should be thinking.
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1) Take out a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down how much you made this last year.
3) Put it in the mirror you use to get ready in the morning/before you go out.
What does this accomplish?
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1) Take out a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down how much you made this last year.
3) Put it in the mirror you use to get ready in the morning/before you go out.
What does this accomplish?
Nothing, if you do it backwards.
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1) Take out a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down how much you made this last year.
3) Put it in the mirror you use to get ready in the morning/before you go out.
What does this accomplish?
It's just a reminder. For the love of god we can't do everything for you.
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1) Take out a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down how much you made this last year.
3) Put it in the mirror you use to get ready in the morning/before you go out.
What does this accomplish?
You have worth.
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1) Take out a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down how much you made this last year.
3) Put it in the mirror you use to get ready in the morning/before you go out.
What does this accomplish?
You have worth.
:popcorn:
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It's so when you "accidentally" leave it behind the next morning your one night stand transforms into a stay at home dad.
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1) Take out a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down how much you made this last year.
3) Put it in the mirror you use to get ready in the morning/before you go out.
What does this accomplish?
It's just a reminder. For the love of god we can't do everything for you.
I AM MORE THAN MY PAYCHECK.
Also this reminds me another guy recently told me he didn't want to date me because I made 3x as much as him :shakesfist:
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1) Take out a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down how much you made this last year.
3) Put it in the mirror you use to get ready in the morning/before you go out.
What does this accomplish?
It's just a reminder. For the love of god we can't do everything for you.
I AM MORE THAN MY PAYCHECK.
Also this reminds me another guy recently told me he didn't want to date me because I made 3x as much as him :shakesfist:
That guy was a moron. :willtake:
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1) Take out a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down how much you made this last year.
3) Put it in the mirror you use to get ready in the morning/before you go out.
What does this accomplish?
It's just a reminder. For the love of god we can't do everything for you.
I AM MORE THAN MY PAYCHECK.
Also this reminds me another guy recently told me he didn't want to date me because I made 3x as much as him :shakesfist:
PM me
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1) Take out a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down how much you made this last year.
3) Put it in the mirror you use to get ready in the morning/before you go out.
What does this accomplish?
It's just a reminder. For the love of god we can't do everything for you.
I AM MORE THAN MY PAYCHECK.
Also this reminds me another guy recently told me he didn't want to date me because I made 3x as much as him :shakesfist:
Right, but its a good starting point for self-worth. Which brings us back to whatthefuckareyoudoingwiththeselosersohmygod.
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1) Take out a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down how much you made this last year.
3) Put it in the mirror you use to get ready in the morning/before you go out.
What does this accomplish?
It's just a reminder. For the love of god we can't do everything for you.
I AM MORE THAN MY PAYCHECK.
Also this reminds me another guy recently told me he didn't want to date me because I made 3x as much as him :shakesfist:
Woah, sister. Unless you make about $200k, you shouldn't be shooting that low.
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1) Take out a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down how much you made this last year.
3) Put it in the mirror you use to get ready in the morning/before you go out.
What does this accomplish?
It's just a reminder. For the love of god we can't do everything for you.
I AM MORE THAN MY PAYCHECK.
Also this reminds me another guy recently told me he didn't want to date me because I made 3x as much as him :shakesfist:
Woah, sister. Unless you make about $200k, you shouldn't be shooting that low.
Close to that. Also that guy was an ADA and his last name was McCool. Can you imagine getting prosecuted by ADA McCool :lol:
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What if we had a goEMAW bachelorette, did video podcasts this summer and auctioned off competition spots for our 2012-2013 goEMAW Philanthropy?
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Pretty much any woman im interested in better make more than me, what a loser.
#teamstayathomedad here
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What if we had a goEMAW bachelorette, did video podcasts this summer and auctioned off competition spots for our 2012-2013 goEMAW Philanthropy?
:excited: :popcorn:
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What if we had a goEMAW bachelorette, did video podcasts this summer and auctioned off competition spots for our 2012-2013 goEMAW Philanthropy?
Oh my.
Can we use the offices of Powercat Illustrated so the contestants can get ready in privacy?
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What if we had a goEMAW bachelorette, did video podcasts this summer and auctioned off competition spots for our 2012-2013 goEMAW Philanthropy?
Oh my.
Can we use the offices of Powercat Illustrated so the contestants can get ready in privacy?
Still live in Philly
I dont think any contestants would even be close enough.
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clams, sd and torts all come with good stuff here. also, my guess is that bluetooth is gay (not that there's anything wrong w/ that), but that's for a different thread.
in addition to some of the stuff that clams said, my guess is that you are somewhat introverted and for some reason not as confident as you should be. go out on dates. a lot of them. you can go out with a guy once or twice and tell him you aren't interested. that's an ok and normal thing to do. the more you do it, the better you'll get at it. dating is basically like job interviewing and jobs. sometimes you want the job and they don't want you and sometimes it might be the opposite. maybe you get the job but decide you don't like it six months later. idk... but the more that you interview and the more jobs you have then the better you are at both getting them and keeping them if you want them and at declining them and resigning or whatever if you don't.
you def need to find a way to get involved and meet a lot of people outside of work, but it's prob hard because i'm guessing you're very busy work wise. honestly, internet seems like a good option for you. good luck with whatever you decide.
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clams, sd and torts all come with good stuff here. also, my guess is that bluetooth is gay (not that there's anything wrong w/ that), but that's for a different thread.
in addition to some of the stuff that clams said, my guess is that you are somewhat introverted and for some reason not as confident as you should be. go out on dates. a lot of them. you can go out with a guy once or twice and tell him you aren't interested. that's an ok and normal thing to do. the more you do it, the better you'll get at it. dating is basically like job interviewing and jobs. sometimes you want the job and they don't want you and sometimes it might be the opposite. maybe you get the job but decide you don't like it six months later. idk... but the more that you interview and the more jobs you have then the better you are at both getting them and keeping them if you want them and at declining them and resigning or whatever if you don't.
you def need to find a way to get involved and meet a lot of people outside of work, but it's prob hard because i'm guessing you're very busy work wise. honestly, internet seems like a good option for you. good luck with whatever you decide.
/thread
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Are you independent?
What is your career? Does it define you?
How many cats do you own?
How do you dress when you go out?
Describe the men you have been with.
What kind of guys are you going for?
Do you identify with feminists?
Asking this first, then I'm going to read the rest of this thread and see how much bad advice is being given. Answer these questions truthfully, and I will send you on the right path.
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Are you independent?
What is your career? Does it define you?
How many cats do you own?
How do you dress when you go out?
Describe the men you have been with.
What kind of guys are you going for?
Do you identify with feminists?
Asking this first, then I'm going to read the rest of this thread and see how much bad advice is being given. Answer these questions truthfully, and I will send you on the right path.
i've met emawgeddon twice and feel super qualified to answer...
yes.
law. yes and no.
none.
casual.
non dominant.
slightly more dominant.
sure. i guess.
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Are you independent? Yes.
What is your career? Does it define you? Attorney. No.
How many cats do you own? Zero.
How do you dress when you go out? Depends. (NOT FAT)
Describe the men you have been with. Lately, other attorneys.
What kind of guys are you going for? I just want someone who is nice and makes me laugh and isnt a total idiot.
Do you identify with feminists? No.
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Are you independent? Yes.
What is your career? Does it define you? Attorney. No.
How many cats do you own? Zero.
How do you dress when you go out? Depends. (NOT FAT)
Describe the men you have been with. Lately, other attorneys.
What kind of guys are you going for? I just want someone who is nice and makes me laugh and isnt a total idiot.
Do you identify with feminists? No.
that fact that you said your career doesn't define you but then said that lately you've been dating other attorneys seems somewhat disingenous. not sure if i used that word correctly.
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let me do my best Dr.Clamsphil:
my guess (based upon the little that i know of you), is that you intimidate the majority of the men you're meeting. most guys don't like that, some guys are attracted to it. finding the right combo of guy who isn't intimidated, is single, and interested, is going to be slightly more difficult than what other women have to deal with. the reality is you're probably fine on your own more often than not and would be in a worse place attempting to be with someone who you try to "make it work with", because you're just not that type of girl.
I AM MORE THAN MY PAYCHECK.
Also this reminds me another guy recently told me he didn't want to date me because I made 3x as much as him :shakesfist:
Nice call 'clams. EMAWgeddon, your first mistake was getting a legitimate job. Most ideal would be schoolteacher, nurse, secretary, something feminine. It doesn't work well if a woman dates down, so the fact that you have a good job means you've cut the amount of potential mates in half. This isn't a good thing.
in addition to some of the stuff that clams said, my guess is that you are somewhat introverted and for some reason not as confident as you should be. go out on dates. a lot of them. you can go out with a guy once or twice and tell him you aren't interested.
Women aren't supposed to be the confident ones. They're supposed to be shy, giggly, submissive, keep in good shape, etc (see Asian girls). EMAWgeddon, if you want an alpha male, this is the way you're going to have to act. Otherwise you'll be viewed as a pump and dump.
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Are you independent? Yes.
What is your career? Does it define you? Attorney. No.
How many cats do you own? Zero.
How do you dress when you go out? Depends. (NOT FAT)
Describe the men you have been with. Lately, other attorneys.
What kind of guys are you going for? I just want someone who is nice and makes me laugh and isnt a total idiot.
Do you identify with feminists? No.
that fact that you said your career doesn't define you but then said that lately you've been dating other attorneys seems somewhat disingenous. not sure if i used that word correctly.
It's hard to meet people who are not attorneys.
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My goodness. She doesn't have to act giggly, dismissive, and shy to meet a guy. What a joke.
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Are you independent? Yes.
What is your career? Does it define you? Attorney. No.
How many cats do you own? Zero.
How do you dress when you go out? Depends. (NOT FAT)
Describe the men you have been with. Lately, other attorneys.
What kind of guys are you going for? I just want someone who is nice and makes me laugh and isnt a total idiot.
Do you identify with feminists? No.
that fact that you said your career doesn't define you but then said that lately you've been dating other attorneys seems somewhat disingenous. not sure if i used that word correctly.
It's hard to meet people who are not attorneys.
if your career somewhat defines you than i'm sure it is. :dunno:
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Are you independent? Yes.
What is your career? Does it define you? Attorney. No.
How many cats do you own? Zero.
How do you dress when you go out? Depends. (NOT FAT)
Describe the men you have been with. Lately, other attorneys.
What kind of guys are you going for? I just want someone who is nice and makes me laugh and isnt a total idiot.
Do you identify with feminists? No.
that fact that you said your career doesn't define you but then said that lately you've been dating other attorneys seems somewhat disingenous. not sure if i used that word correctly.
It's hard to meet people who are not attorneys.
if your career somewhat defines you than i'm sure it is. :dunno:
I work like 80 hours a week. And I have to go to networking things with only other attorneys. The only people I am friends with here are people I went to law school with who are also attorneys.
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Sounds like everything EMAWgeddon is looking for in a man is equivalent to our fanning. :blush:
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Are you independent? Yes.
What is your career? Does it define you? Attorney. No.
How many cats do you own? Zero.
How do you dress when you go out? Depends. (NOT FAT)
Describe the men you have been with. Lately, other attorneys.
What kind of guys are you going for? I just want someone who is nice and makes me laugh and isnt a total idiot.
Do you identify with feminists? No.
A female attorney is about as masculine as it gets for women (besides professional sports). I asked you 7 questions but the answer is simple really. Be more submissive, girly, dress more feminine. When you find a confident guy, let him lead you. Course you'll have to "test" him for his confidence but don't be cuntish about it. If you continue to be on the dominant side, it'll drive away the better guys, and eventually you would have to settle for some pussy chump since that is the only option either of you have.
If you want further reading, there is a blog you can read. While it is mainly directed at men, it has a lot of posts about relationship dynamics, how dominance factors in relationships, etc. You'll have to search around though. Posts like this is an example:
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/03/10/she-wants-you-to-help-her-be-less-independent/
For what its worth, searching for the word "lawyer" will not bring pretty results.
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1) Take out a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down how much you made this last year.
3) Put it in the mirror you use to get ready in the morning/before you go out.
What does this accomplish?
You have worth.
Jesus christ this is just top shelf
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I work like 80 hours a week. And I have to go to networking things with only other attorneys. The only people I am friends with here are people I went to law school with who are also attorneys.
What things do you like besides attorney type things? Do you have hobbies?
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My goodness. She doesn't have to act giggly, dismissive, and shy to meet a guy. What a joke.
Any more poop you would like to post?
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I work like 80 hours a week. And I have to go to networking things with only other attorneys. The only people I am friends with here are people I went to law school with who are also attorneys.
What things do you like besides attorney type things? Do you have hobbies?
ksucats.
I run for fun.
I go out a lot. And I make jokes. Also goEMAW.
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In case you were wondering for entertainment value.
This is how I got rejected tonight via text message:
hey EMAWgeddon So I've had a lot of fun hanging out and would really like to hang out with you again, but only as friends. I really like you but I dont see a long term relationship blossoming and that's what I'm looking for at this point. Sorry if we moved things too fast in light of all of this, but I honestly didn't come to this conclusion until now after thinking things through.
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you should break fanning's heart to get your swag back.
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In case you were wondering for entertainment value.
This is how I got rejected tonight via text message:
hey EMAWgeddon So I've had a lot of fun hanging out and would really like to hang out with you again, but only as friends. I really like you but I dont see a long term relationship blossoming and that's what I'm looking for at this point. Sorry if we moved things too fast in light of all of this, but I honestly didn't come to this conclusion until now after thinking things through.
aka I sexed you up, I'm done now. :rolleyes:
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In case you were wondering for entertainment value.
This is how I got rejected tonight via text message:
hey EMAWgeddon So I've had a lot of fun hanging out and would really like to hang out with you again, but only as friends. I really like you but I dont see a long term relationship blossoming and that's what I'm looking for at this point. Sorry if we moved things too fast in light of all of this, but I honestly didn't come to this conclusion until now after thinking things through.
Ouch.
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In case you were wondering for entertainment value.
This is how I got rejected tonight via text message:
hey EMAWgeddon So I've had a lot of fun hanging out and would really like to hang out with you again, but only as friends. I really like you but I dont see a long term relationship blossoming and that's what I'm looking for at this point. Sorry if we moved things too fast in light of all of this, but I honestly didn't come to this conclusion until now after thinking things through.
aka I sexed you up, I'm done now. :rolleyes:
Yup. He'll meet you for coffee or lunch if you decide to talk to him again and then you won't hear from him after that.
Go find a dude who enjoys the challenge of dating an independent woman and try and make things work with him. That or do what stunted said, but you'd have to sacrifice more of your personality to do that.
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In case you were wondering for entertainment value.
This is how I got rejected tonight via text message:
hey EMAWgeddon So I've had a lot of fun hanging out and would really like to hang out with you again, but only as friends. I really like you but I dont see a long term relationship blossoming and that's what I'm looking for at this point. Sorry if we moved things too fast in light of all of this, but I honestly didn't come to this conclusion until now after thinking things through.
Wow, that dude is a loser.
You're way better off. Serious.
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"blossoming"
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The fact that he did it over text is the real kicker.
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In case you were wondering for entertainment value.
This is how I got rejected tonight via text message:
hey EMAWgeddon So I've had a lot of fun hanging out and would really like to hang out with you again, but only as friends. I really like you but I dont see a long term relationship blossoming and that's what I'm looking for at this point. Sorry if we moved things too fast in light of all of this, but I honestly didn't come to this conclusion until now after thinking things through.
Wow, that dude is a loser.
You're way better off. Serious.
"blossoming"
yeah, you're way better off with out that dude. Agree with what others said...Don't over think it..maybe somehow get introduced into a different social circle if possible.(church, sports, hobbies, casual sex, etc)
also, stay the eff away from fanning.
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I usually agree with everything stunner says but his advice to you should come with the disclaimer:
FOR ASIAN GIRLS WHO WANT TO DATE ASIAN GUYS ONLY
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The fact that he did it over text is the real kicker.
I think it's great that she hooked up with Josh Freeman, even if only once.
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maybe somehow get introduced into a different social circle if possible.(church, sports, hobbies, casual sex, etc)
You could've just said to go to more katpaks.
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The fact that he did it over text is the real kicker.
I don't get this. A text really avoids all the potential awkwardness of a phone conversation or even worst, in real life meeting.
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I usually agree with everything stunner says but his advice to you should come with the disclaimer:
FOR ASIAN GIRLS WHO WANT TO DATE ASIAN GUYS ONLY
Good point, not gonna see much of this behavior in the states:
(https://goemaw.com/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fasianposes.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2009%2F10%2Fchoi-byul-i-winter-posing-02-160x224.jpg&hash=965c1e26e3cbdd2707a4e0b4709768f7a6f8995b)(https://goemaw.com/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fasianposes.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2009%2F10%2Fchoi-byul-i-winter-posing-06-160x224.jpg&hash=9d9369cff6092da81da7aa3447a94d65e9d06858)(https://goemaw.com/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fasianposes.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2009%2F10%2Fchoi-byul-i-winter-posing-04-160x224.jpg&hash=78ed02bd545ccfe0ed58b43c78da72b1dcf7f0b1)
And it is really unfortunate for you guys. Main point still stands, she's gotta be less dominant, more feminine.
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I usually agree with everything stunner says but his advice to you should come with the disclaimer:
FOR ASIAN GIRLS WHO WANT TO DATE ASIAN GUYS ONLY
Good point, not gonna see much of this behavior in the states:
(https://goemaw.com/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fasianposes.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2009%2F10%2Fchoi-byul-i-winter-posing-02-160x224.jpg&hash=965c1e26e3cbdd2707a4e0b4709768f7a6f8995b)(https://goemaw.com/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fasianposes.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2009%2F10%2Fchoi-byul-i-winter-posing-06-160x224.jpg&hash=9d9369cff6092da81da7aa3447a94d65e9d06858)(https://goemaw.com/forum/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fasianposes.com%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F2009%2F10%2Fchoi-byul-i-winter-posing-04-160x224.jpg&hash=78ed02bd545ccfe0ed58b43c78da72b1dcf7f0b1)
And it is really unfortunate for you guys. Main point still stands, she's gotta be less dominant, more feminine.
Nobody has ever accused me of not being feminine beside Pete.
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I don't think the dominant/submissive relationship is going to make anyone happy unless both have those issues already. It could be a cultural or psych. thing with a lot of people though. I don't understand the submissive/feminine connection you are making either.
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maybe somehow get introduced into a different social circle if possible.(church, sports, hobbies, casual sex, etc)
You could've just said to go to more katpaks.
well yeah, but wasn't sure how often she makes it back from philly. Maybe start some paks around there, EMAWgeddon?
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probably need to keep them wanting more. dont be too clingy to early
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It's okay, you guys. I am not melting down as hard today as last night.
Plus, as long as I am alone, Kansas State University is the beneficiary on my IRA and 401k.
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Do you really want to be in a long term relationship? Why?
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I don't think the dominant/submissive relationship is going to make anyone happy unless both have those issues already. It could be a cultural or psych. thing with a lot of people though. I don't understand the submissive/feminine connection you are making either.
If you are interested more in this, the blog I linked earlier is great. The writer is a relationship genius, and offers a lot of spot-on advice. Even if you don't need the advice it is a fantastic read.
Basically, it is natural as humans for the female to be submissive to the male. If not, a woman will resent her "man" for being the pussy he is. And because of the feminist culture, women already have higher power and dominance than any other time in history. This leads to a lot of resentment, a lot of shitty relationships, and a whole lot of divorce (also initiated by women much more often). This isn't true for everyone, but there definitely is a trend. EMAWgeddon, being the careerist woman she is, is a perfect example of this. It is not too late to change this, and I hope she does since I love everyone on goEMAW.
Disclaimer: Ironic thing is I've never been in a long-term relationship. However I may know a thing or two about women and relationship dyanmics... I strongly suggest you consider my advice.
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also, stay the eff away from fanning.
You're such a male genitals block dub dub. :shakesfist:
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EMAWgeddon, you must first love yourself before you can be loved.
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EMAWgeddon, have I ever told how unbelievably attracted I am to the jural arts and those who practice them?
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Christ. I PM a couple nude pics of myself like EMAWgeddon requested and the whole place goes haywire. The eff? :frown:
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Christ. I PM a couple nude pics of myself like EMAWgeddon requested and the whole place goes haywire. The eff? :frown:
Heh I told you guys it was my fault. Too many x chromosomes.
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EMAWgeddon, have I ever told how unbelievably attracted I am to the jural arts and those who practice them?
:love: a/s/l
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EMAWgeddon is a girl? :sdeek:
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We should all hire some amazon woman to beat EMAWgeddon up. :dubious:
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We should all hire some amazon woman to beat EMAWgeddon up. :dubious:
I will maim you and leave you for dead.
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We should all hire some amazon woman to beat EMAWgeddon up. :dubious:
I will maim you and leave you for dead.
Well, ok.
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EMAWgeddon is a girl? :sdeek:
what would give you that idea.
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A filly from philly. :fatty: :love:
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A filly from philly. :fatty: :love:
YOU DOG, YOU!
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Strongly consider that it might actually be all about him and not about you. (Although he put it on you in his text.) I've broken up with girls because of where my life was at, and it really didn't have much of anything to do with who they were. Also, long distance stuff rarely works out...
P.S. Don't play games. You might lose out on some prospectives by not playing games, but it's stupid in the end.
P.P.S. Breaking up by text? :flush:
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emawgeddon, tastykakes, phillies/flyers/big 5, who could resist ?!
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It's obvs that old balls did what he did because he was in hurry-up-fam-mode due to his old balls and all. Pair that with your 80-hr weeks and the fact that you just grad'ed and started this career so the 80-hr weeks won't be going away anytime soon, and that prob made the decision for him.
Hard truth: 80 hr weeks don't mix well with long term relationships. at that pace, your job is your long term relationship.
I used to do it and it was unsustainable for my family.
Also, chicks that are strong in personality, independent, and confident make the kind of girlfriend that is also a good friend-friend for a guy. Makes for a better base for the long term relationship.
I wouldn't agree with any of the advice that includes changing anything about personality or tendencies, however, you need a guy who understands ambition and that is usually one with ambition, therefore the ones working similar careers with similar demands upon them.
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Look on the bright side, at least you are short-term relationship worthy!
Totally this.
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Look on the bright side, at least you are short-term relationship worthy!
Totally this.
:dubious: what woman isn't :dubious:
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Look on the bright side, at least you are short-term relationship worthy!
Totally this.
:dubious: what woman isn't :dubious:
:emawkid:
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Look on the bright side, at least you are short-term relationship worthy!
Totally this.
:dubious: what woman isn't :dubious:
I've met a few.
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Look on the bright side, at least you are short-term relationship worthy!
Totally this.
:dubious: what woman isn't :dubious:
tell them your pregnant and your keeping it. boom I just long termed your ass.
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EMAWgeddon, have I ever told how unbelievably attracted I am to the jural arts and those who practice them?
:love: a/s/l
oh man, oh man. :excited: ...don't blow this, trey...
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Look on the bright side, at least you are short-term relationship worthy!
Totally this.
:dubious: what woman isn't :dubious:
More than you might think...
LSOC, thanks for noticing 4 pages later.
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as long as I am alone, Kansas State University is the beneficiary on my IRA and 401k.
add sys, i'm tired of working and want to do funner stuff.
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http://www.cnn.com/2012/02/16/us/interracial-marriage/index.html
15% of new marriages were interracial, maybe try that route? :ck:
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What if we had a goEMAW bachelorette, did video podcasts this summer and auctioned off competition spots for our 2012-2013 goEMAW Philanthropy?
"treysolid, will you accept this pakhead?"
Would be fantastic.
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Totally agree with most of the people in this thread that this is not a "you" problem. Also agree on the "winking" advice.
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"treysolid, will you accept this pakhead?"
Would be fantastic.
omg :love:
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What if we had a goEMAW bachelorette, did video podcasts this summer and auctioned off competition spots for our 2012-2013 goEMAW Philanthropy?
"treysolid, will you accept this pakhead?"
Would be fantastic.
Spearhead this. Make this happen.
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BTW, do you let the tiny horse sleep in your bed and/or do you have a bunch of pics of it on your phone? I could see this being a deal breaker.
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BTW, do you let the tiny horse sleep in your bed and/or do you have a bunch of pics of it on your phone? I could see this being a deal breaker.
No the miniature horse actually never even came up.
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Totally agree with most of the people in this thread that this is not a "you" problem. Also agree on the "winking" advice.
What I am supposed to go around winking at people. No thank you.
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Totally agree with most of the people in this thread that this is not a "you" problem. Also agree on the "winking" advice.
What I am supposed to go around winking at people. No thank you.
I do this. I also lick my lips :lick: and rub my belly button at the same time. :gocho:
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Totally agree with most of the people in this thread that this is not a "you" problem. Also agree on the "winking" advice.
What I am supposed to go around winking at people. No thank you.
Oh god no. Not at everyone. Just throw in a playful wink the next time you catch a dude checking you out at the grocery store or gym or something (assuming he's your type).
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Okay, what if I told you I know a guy who is absolutely obsessed with K-State? He has a huge trust fund waiting to be tapped into. He loves picking up girls (literally) and never dates any fatties (and you can't prove he ever did).
Still interested?
What if I told you he used to play some pretty big time AAU basketball? You'd be pretty damn excited right?
What if I then told you this interstate traveler liked to pound some suds then drive all over the over the place. To top it all off, he is kind of a bad boy.
Sounds perfect, right?
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Okay, what if I told you I know a guy who is absolutely obsessed with K-State? He has a huge trust fund waiting to be tapped into. He loves picking up girls (literally) and never dates any fatties (and you can't prove he ever did).
Still interested?
What if I told you he used to play some pretty big time AAU basketball? You'd be pretty damn excited right?
What if I then told you this interstate traveler liked to pound some suds then drive all over the over the place. To top it all off, he is kind of a bad boy.
Sounds perfect, right?
:lol: come on, I'm not desperate
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Okay, what if I told you I know a guy who is absolutely obsessed with K-State? He has a huge trust fund waiting to be tapped into. He loves picking up girls (literally) and never dates any fatties (and you can't prove he ever did).
Still interested?
What if I told you he used to play some pretty big time AAU basketball? You'd be pretty damn excited right?
What if I then told you this interstate traveler liked to pound some suds then drive all over the over the place. To top it all off, he is kind of a bad boy.
Sounds perfect, right?
:lol: come on, I'm not desperate
What if I told you he lived in one of the sunniest cities in America?
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Okay, what if I told you I know a guy who is absolutely obsessed with K-State? He has a huge trust fund waiting to be tapped into. He loves picking up girls (literally) and never dates any fatties (and you can't prove he ever did).
Still interested?
What if I told you he used to play some pretty big time AAU basketball? You'd be pretty damn excited right?
What if I then told you this interstate traveler liked to pound some suds then drive all over the over the place. To top it all off, he is kind of a bad boy.
Sounds perfect, right?
:lol: come on, I'm not desperate
What if I told you he lived in one of the sunniest cities in America?
:lol: I live in Philly (always sunny!) plus I have seen Portlandia. And if I wanted to settle for some creepster with a ku diploma I know plenty out here (unfortunately) who would have no problem with that.
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Okay, what if I told you I know a guy who is absolutely obsessed with K-State? He has a huge trust fund waiting to be tapped into. He loves picking up girls (literally) and never dates any fatties (and you can't prove he ever did).
Still interested?
What if I told you he used to play some pretty big time AAU basketball? You'd be pretty damn excited right?
What if I then told you this interstate traveler liked to pound some suds then drive all over the over the place. To top it all off, he is kind of a bad boy.
Sounds perfect, right?
:lol: come on, I'm not desperate
What if I told you he lived in one of the sunniest cities in America?
:lol: I live in Philly (always sunny!) plus I have seen Portlandia. And if I wanted to settle for some creepster with a ku diploma I know plenty out here (unfortunately) who would have no problem with that.
But what if i told you he likes to dress people in suits made for clowns?
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Okay, what if I told you I know a guy who is absolutely obsessed with K-State? He has a huge trust fund waiting to be tapped into. He loves picking up girls (literally) and never dates any fatties (and you can't prove he ever did).
Still interested?
What if I told you he used to play some pretty big time AAU basketball? You'd be pretty damn excited right?
What if I then told you this interstate traveler liked to pound some suds then drive all over the over the place. To top it all off, he is kind of a bad boy.
Sounds perfect, right?
:lol: come on, I'm not desperate
What if I told you he lived in one of the sunniest cities in America?
:lol: I live in Philly (always sunny!) plus I have seen Portlandia. And if I wanted to settle for some creepster with a ku diploma I know plenty out here (unfortunately) who would have no problem with that.
But what if i told you he likes to dress people in suits made for clowns?
And what if we told you he would defend your honor from anonymous internet strangers by posting headless pictures of you with him to prove that you're not fat.
:love:
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Okay, what if I told you I know a guy who is absolutely obsessed with K-State? He has a huge trust fund waiting to be tapped into. He loves picking up girls (literally) and never dates any fatties (and you can't prove he ever did).
Still interested?
What if I told you he used to play some pretty big time AAU basketball? You'd be pretty damn excited right?
What if I then told you this interstate traveler liked to pound some suds then drive all over the over the place. To top it all off, he is kind of a bad boy.
Sounds perfect, right?
:lol: come on, I'm not desperate
What if I told you he lived in one of the sunniest cities in America?
:lol: I live in Philly (always sunny!) plus I have seen Portlandia. And if I wanted to settle for some creepster with a ku diploma I know plenty out here (unfortunately) who would have no problem with that.
But what if i told you he likes to dress people in suits made for clowns?
And what if we told you he would defend your honor from anonymous internet strangers by posting headless pictures of you with him to prove that you're not fat.
:love:
He would do that whether you actually dated or if he just got a picture with you.
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Have you tried sleeping around a bunch? Seems like eventually you would get with the "right" dude. Most people i know that are in relationships went this route. Some work, many dont.
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as long as I am alone, Kansas State University is the beneficiary on my IRA and 401k.
add sys, i'm tired of working and want to do funner stuff.
oh man. sys and emawgeddon. why did i not think of this 5 pages ago? sys, this is emawgeddon. emawgeddon, this is sys. let me know if you two want me to have saul or chings make a private board for you two or something.
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EMAWgeddon, you must first love yourself before you can be loved.
I was going to post in here the other day and reading back over the rest of the thread and seeing this above, I'm a little disappointed this didn't get anyone's attention. It's a valid point, and I'll admit I know nothing about you- but there is a pretty healthy chance that the guys you've been dating just don't see a future with you because you just don't seem like you're ready for a relationship. If you're dating mostly educated men - chances are they're not looking for one night flings and looking for someone they're attracted to intellectually just as much as physically. If you aren't comfortable with your own identity then how the hell are they supposed to even know who their getting into a relationship with? Of course I could be way off base - based off of my initial preface - but I'm curious to know; how often are you NOT dating someone? Have you spent much time becoming comfortable being alone?
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Yeah, you seem cool to me. Probably should try dating more goEMAW types.
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Yeah, you seem cool to me. Probably should try dating more goEMAW types.
We've already got a 5 year plan. It was CNS's idea. In 5 years if we're both still single and lonely, we're getting married. Should end well i would think.
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Yeah, you seem cool to me. Probably should try dating more goEMAW types.
We've already got a 5 year plan. It was CNS's idea. In 5 years if we're both still single and lonely, we're getting married. Should end well i would think.
"There is no universe"
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So, I read the whole thread.
1. While what Stunz said is actually pretty true don't change who you are to attract more guys. That is dumb and you will be miserable.
2. Prob should date more dudes who are not attorneys (not that attorneys are bad dudes or anything).
3. Do you want to have kids in the future?
I say and ask these things because you are actually pretty awesome long-term material if, and only if you are willing to not make your job your 95% of your life. Though I know it may be hard to do that now, but you will have to slow down in the future. I say your are awesome long-term material for a few reasons,
a. you're smart and independent and can take care of yourself (though this won't win you any macho ultra-provider types it will do you wonders with rational dudes)
b. you're good enough looking (I think I've met you), but you don't look to sexy, or slutty. It is a look that will prob age well
c. you do know sports and are actually cool and not bimboish. this is super important for longterm stuff.
The reason I ask about kids and mention working so much is that if you were to eventually marry a guy I doubt you would want to give up your career forever but making the money you do, regardless of whether or not your dude makes a ton (don't date complete losers) is a real positive. You can take time off when a kid is young and ave money saved over, while your dude still works. etc. Then when the kid/ kids start school you can go back to work or whatever, or you can go back earlier. I'm just saying it makes for a lot of flexibility.
I mentioned dating outside attorneys because there are a lot of good jobs that good dudes have that might not make a TON of money but would work well with you. Teachers, firefighters, these types of jobs attract guys who make okay money, but also attract quality people. Another positive about this is these guys ave the time to be good husbands/ dads, etc. because they have a lot of time off.
P.S. I think I met you at the WVU pak but I could be mistaken. If I didn't disregard the being cool and looks stuff.
Edit: Another reason I mentioned firefighter, teacher types is because these kinds of dudes know that their careers aren't huge moneymakers but get into them anyway. So while they probably won't resent you for making good money, they probably won't be the pussy clinger-on types that Stunz was talking about. It is a good balance.
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P.S. I think I met you at the WVU pak but I could be mistaken.
I think you did and that you were both there for after-hours VoiceMailPIfanningPAK. I believe you left some cigs (:lol:) on the kitchen counter.
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P.S. I think I met you at the WVU pak but I could be mistaken.
I think you did and that you were both there for after-hours VoiceMailPIfanningPAK. I believe you left some cigs (:lol:) on the kitchen counter.
I did leave the cigs. I had quit smoking, but knew I would want to smoke that night while pak'd so I bought some to prevent bumming. Left them on purpose so I wouldn't smoke the next day.
:smartguyemoticon
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P.S. I think I met you at the WVU pak but I could be mistaken.
I think you did and that you were both there for after-hours VoiceMailPIfanningPAK. I believe you left some cigs (:lol:) on the kitchen counter.
I did leave the cigs. I had quit smoking, but knew I would want to smoke that night while pak'd so I bought some to prevent bumming. Left them on purpose so I wouldn't smoke the next day.
:smartguyemoticon
They're still there. I'll bring them if we hoop this weekend.
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Teachers, firefighters, these types of jobs attract guys who make okay money, but also attract quality people.
do you know what firefighters make in california? it's pretty crazy. i don't know about them being quality people though. that seems pretty effusive for people that are little more than glorified cops.
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P.S. I think I met you at the WVU pak but I could be mistaken.
I think you did and that you were both there for after-hours VoiceMailPIfanningPAK. I believe you left some cigs (:lol:) on the kitchen counter.
I did leave the cigs. I had quit smoking, but knew I would want to smoke that night while pak'd so I bought some to prevent bumming. Left them on purpose so I wouldn't smoke the next day.
:smartguyemoticon
They're still there. I'll bring them if we hoop this weekend.
Nothing like a Parliament Light after some nice full court action.
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Teachers, firefighters, these types of jobs attract guys who make okay money, but also attract quality people.
do you know what firefighters make in california? it's pretty crazy. i don't know about them being quality people though. that seems pretty effusive for people that are little more than glorified cops.
Teachers get paid pretty well in California too.
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Firefighters usually end up with some pretty severe emotional issues. Depression, numbness to emotion, and usually withdrawn. A long firefighting career usually exposes them tons of grotesque wrecks/burn victims/etc. Usually not good marriage material. Jmo.
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Firefighters usually end up with some pretty severe emotional issues. Depression, numbness to emotion, and usually withdrawn. A long firefighting career usually exposes them tons of grotesque wrecks/burn victims/etc. Usually not good marriage material. Jmo.
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I watched Rescue Me. Can confirm.
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Teachers, firefighters, these types of jobs attract guys who make okay money, but also attract quality people.
do you know what firefighters make in california? it's pretty crazy. i don't know about them being quality people though. that seems pretty effusive for people that are little more than glorified cops.
Makes sense considering half of California is on fire 10 months out of the year
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Firefighters usually end up with some pretty severe emotional issues. Depression, numbness to emotion, and usually withdrawn. A long firefighting career usually exposes them tons of grotesque wrecks/burn victims/etc. Usually not good marriage material. Jmo.
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I watched Rescue Me. Can confirm.
Well, my mom saw fireproof and sent me several VERY enthusiastic texts about it for the next month. And I think that whatever fireproof is involves firemen, mike Seaver, and stable marriages.
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don't change who you are to attract more guys. That is dumb and you will be miserable.
Its not about changing who you are, its about being your best self. Changing the way you communicate, the way you act, etc; isn't really changing yourself. What is one's "self" anyways? Most of it is going to be a product of your surroundings, its the other 20% you don't want to change. While the advice I have given isn't necessary for long term relationships, it really is the best way to have a long term relationship + happiness.
Side note, letting a guy be dominant doesn't mean supplicating to his every wish, showering him with compliments, being a slave.
a. you're smart and independent and can take care of yourself (though this won't win you any macho ultra-provider types it will do you wonders with rational dudes)
Rational = Boring. Does she want a friend or a lover?
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EMAWgeddon, are you clingy? What aren't you telling us? I'm just trying to understand why all these guys don't see you as long-term relationship material because it sounds to me like you're a pretty cool chica. :dunno:
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EMAWgeddon, are you clingy? What aren't you telling us? I'm just trying to understand why all these guys don't see you as long-term relationship material because it sounds to me like you're a pretty cool chica. :dunno:
I don't even have enough free time to be clingy.
I was hoping you guys would PI me into long term material but everyone is being so nice :blush:
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So, I read the whole thread.
1. While what Stunz said is actually pretty true don't change who you are to attract more guys. That is dumb and you will be miserable.
2. Prob should date more dudes who are not attorneys (not that attorneys are bad dudes or anything).
3. Do you want to have kids in the future?
I say and ask these things because you are actually pretty awesome long-term material if, and only if you are willing to not make your job your 95% of your life. Though I know it may be hard to do that now, but you will have to slow down in the future. I say your are awesome long-term material for a few reasons,
a. you're smart and independent and can take care of yourself (though this won't win you any macho ultra-provider types it will do you wonders with rational dudes)
b. you're good enough looking (I think I've met you), but you don't look to sexy, or slutty. It is a look that will prob age well
c. you do know sports and are actually cool and not bimboish. this is super important for longterm stuff.
The reason I ask about kids and mention working so much is that if you were to eventually marry a guy I doubt you would want to give up your career forever but making the money you do, regardless of whether or not your dude makes a ton (don't date complete losers) is a real positive. You can take time off when a kid is young and ave money saved over, while your dude still works. etc. Then when the kid/ kids start school you can go back to work or whatever, or you can go back earlier. I'm just saying it makes for a lot of flexibility.
I mentioned dating outside attorneys because there are a lot of good jobs that good dudes have that might not make a TON of money but would work well with you. Teachers, firefighters, these types of jobs attract guys who make okay money, but also attract quality people. Another positive about this is these guys ave the time to be good husbands/ dads, etc. because they have a lot of time off.
P.S. I think I met you at the WVU pak but I could be mistaken. If I didn't disregard the being cool and looks stuff.
Edit: Another reason I mentioned firefighter, teacher types is because these kinds of dudes know that their careers aren't huge moneymakers but get into them anyway. So while they probably won't resent you for making good money, they probably won't be the pussy clinger-on types that Stunz was talking about. It is a good balance.
This is very nice and I will keep it in mind. I am checking out a Michigan game watch tonight with my wing woman but I'm already skeptical because Tom Brady was a Michigan man.
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I was hoping you guys would PI me into long term material but everyone is being so nice :blush:
Wow, shocking that a bunch of dudes on a message board who normally PI the other dudes are gonna be all ass-kissy when a chick starts posting. :rolleyes:
This is the Personal Development FOR SMART PEOPLE Forum. To us elites, your compliment-fishing expedition was very transparent.
I'm submitting this entire thread to humblebrag.
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I was hoping you guys would PI me into long term material but everyone is being so nice :blush:
Wow, shocking that a bunch of dudes on a message board who normally PI the other dudes are gonna be all ass-kissy when a chick starts posting. :rolleyes:
This is the Personal Development FOR SMART PEOPLE Forum. To us elites, your compliment-fishing expedition was very transparent.
I'm submitting this entire thread to humblebrag.
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1) Take out a piece of paper and a pen.
2) Write down how much you made this last year.
3) Put it in the mirror you use to get ready in the morning/before you go out.
What does this accomplish?
It's just a reminder. For the love of god we can't do everything for you.
I AM MORE THAN MY PAYCHECK.
Also this reminds me another guy recently told me he didn't want to date me because I made 3x as much as him :shakesfist:
I quit reading this thread at this post and I have no good advice for you, as I am old by this boards norm and have been married for nearly 2 decades. But I just want to know . . . did you punch that guy? Like really hard?
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You completely avoiding my post makes me think you hate yourself. Put finding a man on hold and deal with whatever it is you have going on over there. Good luck.
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Well, this is awkward.
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I was hoping you guys would PI me into long term material but everyone is being so nice :blush:
Wow, shocking that a bunch of dudes on a message board who normally PI the other dudes are gonna be all ass-kissy when a chick starts posting. :rolleyes:
This is the Personal Development FOR SMART PEOPLE Forum. To us elites, your compliment-fishing expedition was very transparent.
I'm submitting this entire thread to humblebrag.
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What my wife said. In my posts I thought I was PI-y but nice. Buck up! You are the 1%. Get a cabana boy or some such crap. Save your money and then in 20 years you can buy an antique chez lounge and have imported Portuguese and Italian attendant stud muffins feeding you grapes and giving you afternoon massages.
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I was hoping you guys would PI me into long term material but everyone is being so nice :blush:
Wow, shocking that a bunch of dudes on a message board who normally PI the other dudes are gonna be all ass-kissy when a chick starts posting. :rolleyes:
This is the Personal Development FOR SMART PEOPLE Forum. To us elites, your compliment-fishing expedition was very transparent.
I'm submitting this entire thread to humblebrag.
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If you are going to listen to kiss-asses more than someone who has dedicated a good portion of his life to this very subject, then I bid you good luck. Why ask for advice when you are going to ignore real truthful answers?
On another note, there must be some correlation between the ass-kissers and those who complain about Frank/Snyder benching Angel/JO/Bryce.
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I dont know if anyone has mentioned this yet.... but the solution for a long term relationship is very simple... once you find a guy that you can tolerate, make friends with his friends. If his friends suck, you wont want to be in a long term relationship with him anyways because he probably sucks. if his friends are cool and they like you, it makes it very difficult for him to break up with you. Also, he will want to be around you a lot more because he will be able to hang out with his friends while also fulfilling his obligation to spend time with you.
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Has anyone in this thread "gone there" yet? I mean, there is an elephant in the room, is there not?
Is it possible that "long-term relationship" is merely a euphemism for fellatio? Maybe she's really, really bad at it or won't do it at all. :horrorsurprise:
Would be easier to say something like "not long-term relationship worthy," if you were him, right? :dunno: go cats
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I dont know if anyone has mentioned this yet.... but the solution for a long term relationship is very simple... once you find a guy that you can tolerate, make friends with his friends. If his friends suck, you wont want to be in a long term relationship with him anyways because he probably sucks. if his friends are cool and they like you, it makes it very difficult for him to break up with you. Also, he will want to be around you a lot more because he will be able to hang out with his friends while also fulfilling his obligation to spend time with you.
Relationship Inertia. This is actually something I have seen work numerous times.
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welp, this thread will hopefully take a fun turn.
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welp, this thread will hopefully take a fun turn.
Fun? Who the eff is joking around?
Ask yourself this, would you enter a long-term relationship with a woman who will not do "certain things." If you answer yes, you are a dude who never got/gets any and you are desperate for any female contact you can get....but if that were the case you are probably such a wet blanket that she wouldn't want you anyway.
This is a serious issue.
Now, the question is how did the latest guy sniff this out after the fourth date? :sdeek:
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Before this gets out of hand, let's play devil's (emawgeddon's) advocate here....
What if she really is a lady wildcat in the boudoir, but is very shy about it? This could all be a HUGE misunderstanding. These dudes could be running around besmirching Emawgeddon's romantic disposition, when in truth it's the exact opposite.
What if all the "coaching" she really needs on relationships is how to sack up and unleash her lady wildcatness?
I mean, we have to at least attempt to give her the benefit of the doubt, don't we :dunno: Seems like the least we could do for a fellow emaw, right?
Do they make one of these with a different set of hand positions? :combofan:
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Mods, i wouldnt let HR see this thread...
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Oh pete.
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if I found out a girl I was dating was posting on a message board, I would think that was weird. :dunno:
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BLAH, BLAH, BLAH, be yourself, BLAH, BLAH, BLAH, open your heart, BLAH, BLAH, BLAH, date lots of asian girls, BLAH, BLAH, BLAH...
LOADS of crap advice in this thread. Tackle the big issues first, Emawgeddon, because if THAT isn't corrected you won't get far enough for the rest to matter.
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if I found out a girl I was dating was posting on a message board, I would think that was weird. :dunno:
Depends on the board, bro...
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Jesus christ, it's like most of you don't even give a crap about Emawgeddon.
Basically, if she was chewing on the end of her ink pen and had blue ink all over her face, you guys would say "no, you are good."
Good grief.
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Beginning to wonder if a lot of you guys like yourselves. Seems to be a lot of thinly veiled self hate. Being shallow is sometimes funny if you're just joking around; genuine shallowness however is really sad.
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Beginning to wonder if a lot of you guys like yourselves. Seems to be a lot of thinly veiled self hate. Being shallow is sometimes funny if you're just joking around; genuine shallowness however is really sad.
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I'll bet you are a real lady killer.
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I'm against some of the advice in here and kinda on board with Pete. Judging by you putting up with someone as douchey as bluetooth guy seemed, I think you need more confidence. You're busting your ass 80 hrs a week and making good money. You have a quality education. Don't worry about getting some guy to like you. Be a strong woman and find some guy that can get a long with that. If you're working 80 hrs a week, anyone without the ability to handle a strong woman probably doesn't have the confidence to handle you working around/with other guys constantly.
BTW, people getting real serious and married in college is a very midwestern/small town thing. You're away from that now, you're not behind schedule or anything. Don't be worried
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I'm against some of the advice in here and kinda on board with Pete. Judging by you putting up with someone as douchey as bluetooth guy seemed, I think you need more confidence. You're busting your ass 80 hrs a week and making good money. You have a quality education. Don't worry about getting some guy to like you. Be a strong woman and find some guy that can get a long with that. If you're working 80 hrs a week, anyone without the ability to handle a strong woman probably doesn't have the confidence to handle you working around/with other guys constantly.
BTW, people getting real serious and married in college is a very midwestern/small town thing. You're away from that now, you're not behind schedule or anything. Don't be worried
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No, you're not on board with Pete.
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I took Pete's as a confidence thing. Yea, kind of a stretch, but not totally
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You guys want to argue amongst yourselves, or do you want to help Emawgeddon start crushing man ass?
Quit being selfish.
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#TeamManAss
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You guys want to argue amongst yourselves, or do you want to help Emawgeddon start crushing man ass?
Quit being selfish.
Ok you guys I had this casual thing going in Nov/Dec do you think I should start it back up with a late night DTF? Text tonight?
Advice needed. Can give more details if needed
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If its fun, go for it. <your motto from here on out
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I'm also seeing google ads here (when the site's somewhat working) for Chinese singles, which is kind of :runaway: considering this thread and stunz' advice coupled with the attacks on the site these past few days.
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Beginning to wonder if a lot of you guys like yourselves. Seems to be a lot of thinly veiled self hate. Being shallow is sometimes funny if you're just joking around; genuine shallowness however is really sad.
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I'll bet you are a real lady killer.
I'm sorry - is this a thread helping some chick get laid or find a mate? Finding someone to eff is pretty easy - especially for woman. Finding someone to have a relationship with takes a lot more than changing your personality to be some submissive skank - which is most of the advice I've read here. My advice EMAWgeddon, if you just want to eff - go to a bar and get drunk. Your a chick, someone will eff you. If you want a relationship, don't go asking a bunch of dudes for advice; apparently all we're capable of is rough ridin'.
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You guys want to argue amongst yourselves, or do you want to help Emawgeddon start crushing man ass?
Quit being selfish.
Ok you guys I had this casual thing going in Nov/Dec do you think I should start it back up with a late night DTF? Text tonight?
Advice needed. Can give more details if needed
The more details, the better. :popcorn:
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If its fun, go for it. <your motto from here on out
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I thought I was going to get some real answers here.
You came to the wrong place.
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Beginning to wonder if a lot of you guys like yourselves. Seems to be a lot of thinly veiled self hate. Being shallow is sometimes funny if you're just joking around; genuine shallowness however is really sad.
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I'll bet you are a real lady killer.
I'm sorry - is this a thread helping some chick get laid or find a mate? Finding someone to eff is pretty easy - especially for woman. Finding someone to have a relationship with takes a lot more than changing your personality to be some submissive skank - which is most of the advice I've read here. My advice EMAWgeddon, if you just want to eff - go to a bar and get drunk. Your a chick, someone will eff you. If you want a relationship, don't go asking a bunch of dudes for advice; apparently all we're capable of is rough ridin'.
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I don't think she ever said she was a submissive, did she? Maybe you know more about her than I do.
The advice here is that unless you are looking to find a "mate" like Heinz, you better take care of the basics.
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People are telling her to be submissive - I didn't say she was. I dont know a thing about her; but most everyone here is giving her advice that wouldn't allow any self respecting man to respect her. I doubt an attractive rich woman has trouble getting laid.
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People are telling her to be submissive - I didn't say she was. I dont know a thing about her; but most everyone here is giving her advice that wouldn't allow any self respecting man to respect her. I doubt an attractive rich woman has trouble getting laid.
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I don't think you and I have the same definition of a "self respecting man."
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BTW, people getting real serious and married in college is a very midwestern/small town thing. You're away from that now, you're not behind schedule or anything. Don't be worried
yeah, I think she's worried because her fat friends are cranking out babies in their beige prairie village houses and she thinks she's behind. She actually sounds pretty stupid to be wanting a serious long term thing right now given her career and overall life situation.
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pete is on the right track. i don't know if no one can put up with her because she can't give a blowjob or because she owns a rough ridin' miniature pony, but i'm pretty sure it isn't because she's rich, attractive and likes kstate bball.
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BTW, people getting real serious and married in college is a very midwestern/small town thing. You're away from that now, you're not behind schedule or anything. Don't be worried
yeah, I think she's worried because her fat friends are cranking out babies in their beige prairie village houses and she thinks she's behind. She actually sounds pretty stupid to be wanting a serious long term thing right now given her career and overall life situation.
Yes, had a minor "going to die alone" meltdown, but now I am over it.
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pete is on the right track. i don't know if no one can put up with her because she can't give a blowjob or because she owns a rough ridin' miniature pony, but i'm pretty sure it isn't because she's rich, attractive and likes kstate bball.
Actually, a mutual colleague just told me this guy told him his deal breaker on me was my "weird obsession with K-state"
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Actually, a mutual colleague just told me this guy told him his deal breaker on me was my "weird obsession with K-state"
he may have just been dumped by bmwhawk. for men without that sort of trauma, bet on it being something else.
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pete is on the right track. i don't know if no one can put up with her because she can't give a blowjob or because she owns a rough ridin' miniature pony, but i'm pretty sure it isn't because she's rich, attractive and likes kstate bball.
Actually, a mutual colleague just told me this guy told him his deal breaker on me was my "weird obsession with K-state"
You dodged a bullet
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pete is on the right track. i don't know if no one can put up with her because she can't give a blowjob or because she owns a rough ridin' miniature pony, but i'm pretty sure it isn't because she's rich, attractive and likes kstate bball.
This.
That's what I am saying. On paper, she's rough ridin' perfect...you HAVE to start asking some tough questions if you want the truth.
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Emawgeddon I'm still pissed you took the attention away from The Master Dating Thread with your own 2.0 version. With that said, if you wanna do some phone sex later on or Google chat let me know. My Google chat name is FillyPigFuker.
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You guys want to argue amongst yourselves, or do you want to help Emawgeddon start crushing man ass?
Quit being selfish.
Ok you guys I had this casual thing going in Nov/Dec do you think I should start it back up with a late night DTF? Text tonight?
Advice needed. Can give more details if needed
Kiss and tell.
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Emawgeddon I'm still pissed you took the attention away from The Master Dating Thread with your own 2.0 version. With that said, if you wanna do some phone sex later on or Google chat let me know. My Google chat name is FillyPigFuker.
From what I gather, this is actually quite popular.
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Emawgeddon I'm still pissed you took the attention away from The Master Dating Thread with your own 2.0 version. With that said, if you wanna do some phone sex later on or Google chat let me know. My Google chat name is FillyPigFuker.
From what I gather, this is actually quite popular.
Oh my. :lol:
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People are telling her to be submissive - I didn't say she was. I dont know a thing about her; but most everyone here is giving her advice that wouldn't allow any self respecting man to respect her. I doubt an attractive rich woman has trouble getting laid.
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I don't think you and I have the same definition of a "self respecting man."
are you saying you respected every one night stand you had? You may have appreciated her but that isnt exactly the same as respected now is it. Any guy that enjoys all of his bro's laughing at him behind his back for wanting to marry a ho certainly doesn't respect himself now does he?
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People are telling her to be submissive - I didn't say she was. I dont know a thing about her; but most everyone here is giving her advice that wouldn't allow any self respecting man to respect her. I doubt an attractive rich woman has trouble getting laid.
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I don't think you and I have the same definition of a "self respecting man."
are you saying you respected every one night stand you had? You may have appreciated her but that isnt exactly the same as respected now is it. Any guy that enjoys all of his bro's laughing at him behind his back for wanting to marry a ho certainly doesn't respect himself now does he?
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One night stands? Well, this is obviously not what my posts were about, nor anyone else that I observed.
However, what kind of guy cares about "what his bros" are saying?
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People are telling her to be submissive - I didn't say she was. I dont know a thing about her; but most everyone here is giving her advice that wouldn't allow any self respecting man to respect her. I doubt an attractive rich woman has trouble getting laid.
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I don't think you and I have the same definition of a "self respecting man."
are you saying you respected every one night stand you had? You may have appreciated her but that isnt exactly the same as respected now is it. Any guy that enjoys all of his bro's laughing at him behind his back for wanting to marry a ho certainly doesn't respect himself now does he?
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One night stands? Well, this is obviously not what my posts were about, nor anyone else that I observed.
However, what kind of guy cares about "what his bros" are saying?
I cared about what my bros said, and I turned down one of the best looking, "sure things" I ever dated.
Still kick myself for that over a decade later.
Never listen to your bros. Never.
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SOCIAL EXPERIMENT SUCCESS. Thanks to those involved, @Pete_goEMAW_com
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SOCIAL EXPERIMENT SUCCESS. Thanks to those involved, @Pete_goEMAW_com
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SOCIAL EXPERIMENT SUCCESS. Thanks to those involved, @Pete_goEMAW_com
:horrorsurprise:
Me: do you know a guy named [other big law co-associate] 12:53am
Guy: yeah how do you know [co-associate] 12:55am
Me: I'll tell you later want to meet up? 1:23am
Guy: I would but I am in VA 1:35am
Me: Some other time? 1:47am
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Guy: sorry phone died dinner tonight? 8:22am
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Went from a 130a booty call to dinner tonight. Things are looking up!
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SOCIAL EXPERIMENT SUCCESS. Thanks to those involved, @Pete_goEMAW_com
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Me: do you know a guy named [other big law co-associate] 12:53am
Guy: yeah how do you know [co-associate] 12:55am
Me: I'll tell you later want to meet up? 1:23am
Guy: I would but I am in VA 1:35am
Me: Some other time? 1:47am
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Guy: sorry phone died dinner tonight? 8:22am
:cheers:
:dubious:
How do Pete's tips relate to this story?
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is there any way you can practice fellatio between now and tonight?
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SOCIAL EXPERIMENT SUCCESS. Thanks to those involved, @Pete_goEMAW_com
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Me: do you know a guy named [other big law co-associate] 12:53am
Guy: yeah how do you know [co-associate] 12:55am
Me: I'll tell you later want to meet up? 1:23am
Guy: I would but I am in VA 1:35am
Me: Some other time? 1:47am
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Guy: sorry phone died dinner tonight? 8:22am
:cheers:
:dubious:
How do Pete's tips relate to this story?
ONLY ONE WAY TO FIND OUT :dunno: :fatty:
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Not very coy are we?
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Oh man.
YOU HAVE A GREAT NIGHT, "GUY"!!!
YOU HAVE A GREAT NIGHT!
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How is this a success? Have you learned anything from this thread?
HEY DO YOU KNOW OTHER GUY?? WHATEVER LETS MEET UP!! CAN'T?? ANOTHER TIME?? PLEASE!?
Men are supposed to be the ones courting (hopefully not as pathetic as an attempt like this one). But leave it to a strong, career-minded female to take over the male role. Whatever happened to being flirty? Any smart guy will see right through this. Only a nauseating beta male will fall for this desperate nonsense.
There is one girl I met who is taking this route in an attempt to meet. While she may be sweet, it makes me wonder what is wrong with her. My thoughts are what is the cheapest, easiest and least awkward way to pump and dump this chick? Is it worth the trouble for a possible stage-5 clinger?
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How is this a success? Have you learned anything from this thread?
HEY DO YOU KNOW OTHER GUY?? WHATEVER LETS MEET UP!! CAN'T?? ANOTHER TIME?? PLEASE!?
Men are supposed to be the ones courting (hopefully not as pathetic as an attempt like this one). But leave it to a strong, career-minded female to take over the male role. Whatever happened to being flirty? Any smart guy will see right through this. Only a nauseating beta male will fall for this desperate nonsense.
There is one girl I met who is taking this route in an attempt to meet. While she may be sweet, it makes me wonder what is wrong with her. My thoughts are what is the cheapest, easiest and least awkward way to pump and dump this chick? Is it worth the trouble for a possible stage-5 clinger?
Is this an ego up or ego down move? plz advise.
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How is this a success? Have you learned anything from this thread?
HEY DO YOU KNOW OTHER GUY?? WHATEVER LETS MEET UP!! CAN'T?? ANOTHER TIME?? PLEASE!?
Men are supposed to be the ones courting (hopefully not as pathetic as an attempt like this one). But leave it to a strong, career-minded female to take over the male role. Whatever happened to being flirty? Any smart guy will see right through this. Only a nauseating beta male will fall for this desperate nonsense.
There is one girl I met who is taking this route in an attempt to meet. While she may be sweet, it makes me wonder what is wrong with her. My thoughts are what is the cheapest, easiest and least awkward way to pump and dump this chick? Is it worth the trouble for a possible stage-5 clinger?
Jeez man, I was just interested in seeing if I could jump back into my old casual thing.
I looked at that blog, it looks like bro advice I have seen in maxim magazine.
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mods, pls rename thread to "i need some attention"
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How is this a success? Have you learned anything from this thread?
HEY DO YOU KNOW OTHER GUY?? WHATEVER LETS MEET UP!! CAN'T?? ANOTHER TIME?? PLEASE!?
Men are supposed to be the ones courting (hopefully not as pathetic as an attempt like this one). But leave it to a strong, career-minded female to take over the male role. Whatever happened to being flirty? Any smart guy will see right through this. Only a nauseating beta male will fall for this desperate nonsense.
There is one girl I met who is taking this route in an attempt to meet. While she may be sweet, it makes me wonder what is wrong with her. My thoughts are what is the cheapest, easiest and least awkward way to pump and dump this chick? Is it worth the trouble for a possible stage-5 clinger?
Jeez man, I was just interested in seeing if I could jump back into my old casual thing.
I looked at that blog, it looks like bro advice I have seen in maxim magazine.
You never go back to the well. You dig a NEW well.....then eff it.