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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #100 on: February 15, 2012, 11:35:31 PM »
In case you were wondering for entertainment value.

This is how I got rejected tonight via text message:

hey EMAWgeddon So I've had a lot of fun hanging out and would really like to hang out with you again, but only as friends.  I really like you but I dont see a long term relationship blossoming and that's what I'm looking for at this point.  Sorry if we moved things too fast in light of all of this, but I honestly didn't come to this conclusion until now after thinking things through.

Wow, that dude is a loser.

You're way better off.  Serious.

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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #101 on: February 15, 2012, 11:37:11 PM »
"blossoming"

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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #102 on: February 16, 2012, 12:37:25 AM »
The fact that he did it over text is the real kicker.

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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #103 on: February 16, 2012, 07:12:06 AM »
In case you were wondering for entertainment value.

This is how I got rejected tonight via text message:

hey EMAWgeddon So I've had a lot of fun hanging out and would really like to hang out with you again, but only as friends.  I really like you but I dont see a long term relationship blossoming and that's what I'm looking for at this point.  Sorry if we moved things too fast in light of all of this, but I honestly didn't come to this conclusion until now after thinking things through.

Wow, that dude is a loser.

You're way better off.  Serious.

"blossoming"

yeah, you're way better off with out that dude. Agree with what others said...Don't over think it..maybe somehow get introduced into a different social circle if possible.(church, sports, hobbies, casual sex, etc)

also, stay the eff away from fanning.
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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #104 on: February 16, 2012, 07:16:06 AM »
I usually agree with everything stunner says but his advice to you should come with the disclaimer: 

FOR ASIAN GIRLS WHO WANT TO DATE ASIAN GUYS ONLY


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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #105 on: February 16, 2012, 08:00:51 AM »
The fact that he did it over text is the real kicker.

I think it's great that she hooked up with Josh Freeman, even if only once.

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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #106 on: February 16, 2012, 08:01:43 AM »
maybe somehow get introduced into a different social circle if possible.(church, sports, hobbies, casual sex, etc)

You could've just said to go to more katpaks.

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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #107 on: February 16, 2012, 08:06:44 AM »
The fact that he did it over text is the real kicker.
I don't get this. A text really avoids all the potential awkwardness of a phone conversation or even worst, in real life meeting.
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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #108 on: February 16, 2012, 08:13:00 AM »
I usually agree with everything stunner says but his advice to you should come with the disclaimer: 

FOR ASIAN GIRLS WHO WANT TO DATE ASIAN GUYS ONLY



Good point, not gonna see much of this behavior in the states:



And it is really unfortunate for you guys.  Main point still stands, she's gotta be less dominant, more feminine.

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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #109 on: February 16, 2012, 08:15:30 AM »
I usually agree with everything stunner says but his advice to you should come with the disclaimer: 

FOR ASIAN GIRLS WHO WANT TO DATE ASIAN GUYS ONLY



Good point, not gonna see much of this behavior in the states:



And it is really unfortunate for you guys.  Main point still stands, she's gotta be less dominant, more feminine.


Nobody has ever accused me of not being feminine beside Pete. 

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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #110 on: February 16, 2012, 08:26:35 AM »
I don't think the dominant/submissive relationship is going to make anyone happy unless both have those issues already.  It could be a cultural or psych. thing with a lot of people though.  I don't understand the submissive/feminine connection you are making either.  

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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #111 on: February 16, 2012, 08:27:12 AM »
maybe somehow get introduced into a different social circle if possible.(church, sports, hobbies, casual sex, etc)

You could've just said to go to more katpaks.

well yeah, but wasn't sure how often she makes it back from philly. Maybe start some paks around there, EMAWgeddon?
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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #112 on: February 16, 2012, 08:29:34 AM »
probably need to keep them wanting more. dont be too clingy to early

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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #113 on: February 16, 2012, 08:34:33 AM »
It's okay, you guys.  I am not melting down as hard today as last night.

Plus, as long as I am alone, Kansas State University is the beneficiary on my IRA and 401k.

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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #114 on: February 16, 2012, 10:38:05 AM »
Do you really want to be in a long term relationship? Why?

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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #115 on: February 16, 2012, 11:12:35 AM »
I don't think the dominant/submissive relationship is going to make anyone happy unless both have those issues already.  It could be a cultural or psych. thing with a lot of people though.  I don't understand the submissive/feminine connection you are making either.  

If you are interested more in this, the blog I linked earlier is great.  The writer is a relationship genius, and offers a lot of spot-on advice.  Even if you don't need the advice it is a fantastic read.

Basically, it is natural as humans for the female to be submissive to the male.  If not, a woman will resent her "man" for being the pussy he is.  And because of the feminist culture, women already have higher power and dominance than any other time in history.  This leads to a lot of resentment, a lot of shitty relationships, and a whole lot of divorce (also initiated by women much more often).  This isn't true for everyone, but there definitely is a trend.  EMAWgeddon, being the careerist woman she is, is a perfect example of this.  It is not too late to change this, and I hope she does since I love everyone on goEMAW.

Disclaimer: Ironic thing is I've never been in a long-term relationship.  However I may know a thing or two about women and relationship dyanmics... I strongly suggest you consider my advice.

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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #116 on: February 16, 2012, 11:26:38 AM »
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also, stay the eff away from fanning.
You're such a male genitals block dub dub.  :shakesfist:
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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #117 on: February 16, 2012, 12:13:10 PM »
EMAWgeddon, you must first love yourself before you can be loved.

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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #118 on: February 16, 2012, 01:43:55 PM »
EMAWgeddon, have I ever told how unbelievably attracted I am to the jural arts and those who practice them?

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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #119 on: February 16, 2012, 03:49:56 PM »
Christ.  I PM a couple nude pics of myself like EMAWgeddon requested and the whole place goes haywire.  The eff?  :frown:
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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #120 on: February 16, 2012, 03:50:40 PM »
Christ.  I PM a couple nude pics of myself like EMAWgeddon requested and the whole place goes haywire.  The eff?  :frown:

Heh I told you guys it was my fault.  Too many x chromosomes.

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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #121 on: February 16, 2012, 03:55:49 PM »
EMAWgeddon, have I ever told how unbelievably attracted I am to the jural arts and those who practice them?


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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #122 on: February 16, 2012, 04:00:46 PM »
EMAWgeddon is a girl?  :sdeek:

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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #123 on: February 16, 2012, 04:04:57 PM »
We should all hire some amazon woman to beat EMAWgeddon up.  :dubious:
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Re: I need some personal development
« Reply #124 on: February 16, 2012, 04:05:26 PM »
We should all hire some amazon woman to beat EMAWgeddon up.  :dubious:

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