I don't think the dominant/submissive relationship is going to make anyone happy unless both have those issues already. It could be a cultural or psych. thing with a lot of people though. I don't understand the submissive/feminine connection you are making either.
If you are interested more in this, the blog I linked earlier is great. The writer is a relationship genius, and offers a lot of spot-on advice. Even if you don't need the advice it is a fantastic read.
Basically, it is natural as humans for the female to be submissive to the male. If not, a woman will resent her "man" for being the pussy he is. And because of the feminist culture, women already have higher power and dominance than any other time in history. This leads to a lot of resentment, a lot of shitty relationships, and a whole lot of divorce (also initiated by women much more often). This isn't true for everyone, but there definitely is a trend. EMAWgeddon, being the careerist woman she is, is a perfect example of this. It is not too late to change this, and I hope she does since I love everyone on goEMAW.
Disclaimer: Ironic thing is I've never been in a long-term relationship. However I may know a thing or two about women and relationship dyanmics... I strongly suggest you consider my advice.