I need some personal development

[HeinBallz]

Beginning to wonder if a lot of you guys like yourselves.  Seems to be a lot of thinly veiled self hate.  Being shallow is sometimes funny if you're just joking around; genuine shallowness however is really sad.


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[Pete]

Beginning to wonder if a lot of you guys like yourselves.  Seems to be a lot of thinly veiled self hate.  Being shallow is sometimes funny if you're just joking around; genuine shallowness however is really sad.


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I'll bet you are a real lady killer.

[ChiComCat]

I'm against some of the advice in here and kinda on board with Pete.  Judging by you putting up with someone as douchey as bluetooth guy seemed, I think you need more confidence.  You're busting your ass 80 hrs a week and making good money.  You have a quality education.  Don't worry about getting some guy to like you.  Be a strong woman and find some guy that can get a long with that.  If you're working 80 hrs a week, anyone without the ability to handle a strong woman probably doesn't have the confidence to handle you working around/with other guys constantly.

BTW, people getting real serious and married in college is a very midwestern/small town thing.  You're away from that now, you're not behind schedule or anything.  Don't be worried

[stunted]

I'm against some of the advice in here and kinda on board with Pete.  Judging by you putting up with someone as douchey as bluetooth guy seemed, I think you need more confidence.  You're busting your ass 80 hrs a week and making good money.  You have a quality education.  Don't worry about getting some guy to like you.  Be a strong woman and find some guy that can get a long with that.  If you're working 80 hrs a week, anyone without the ability to handle a strong woman probably doesn't have the confidence to handle you working around/with other guys constantly.

BTW, people getting real serious and married in college is a very midwestern/small town thing.  You're away from that now, you're not behind schedule or anything.  Don't be worried

 

No, you're not on board with Pete.

[ChiComCat]

I took Pete's as a confidence thing.  Yea, kind of a stretch, but not totally

[Pete]

You guys want to argue amongst yourselves, or do you want to help Emawgeddon start crushing man ass? 


Quit being selfish. 

[ChiComCat]

#TeamManAss

[EMAWgeddon]

You guys want to argue amongst yourselves, or do you want to help Emawgeddon start crushing man ass? 


Quit being selfish. 

Ok you guys I had this casual thing going in Nov/Dec do you think I should start it back up with a late night DTF? Text tonight?

Advice needed. Can give more details if needed

[ChiComCat]

If its fun, go for it.  <your motto from here on out

[Trim]

[Trim]

I'm also seeing google ads here (when the site's somewhat working) for Chinese singles, which is kind of considering this thread and stunz' advice coupled with the attacks on the site these past few days.

[HeinBallz]

Beginning to wonder if a lot of you guys like yourselves.  Seems to be a lot of thinly veiled self hate.  Being shallow is sometimes funny if you're just joking around; genuine shallowness however is really sad.


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I'll bet you are a real lady killer.

I'm sorry - is this a thread helping some chick get laid or find a mate?  Finding someone to eff is pretty easy - especially for woman.  Finding someone to have a relationship with takes a lot more than changing your personality to be some submissive skank - which is most of the advice I've read here.  My advice EMAWgeddon, if you just want to eff - go to a bar and get drunk.  Your a chick, someone will eff you. If you want a relationship, don't go asking a bunch of dudes for advice; apparently all we're capable of is rough ridin'.


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[Rams]

You guys want to argue amongst yourselves, or do you want to help Emawgeddon start crushing man ass? 


Quit being selfish. 

Ok you guys I had this casual thing going in Nov/Dec do you think I should start it back up with a late night DTF? Text tonight?

Advice needed. Can give more details if needed

The more details, the better.   

[HeinBallz]

If its fun, go for it.  <your motto from here on out

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[SkinnyBenny]

I thought I was going to get some real answers here.

You came to the wrong place.

[Pete]

Beginning to wonder if a lot of you guys like yourselves.  Seems to be a lot of thinly veiled self hate.  Being shallow is sometimes funny if you're just joking around; genuine shallowness however is really sad.


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I'll bet you are a real lady killer.

I'm sorry - is this a thread helping some chick get laid or find a mate?  Finding someone to eff is pretty easy - especially for woman.  Finding someone to have a relationship with takes a lot more than changing your personality to be some submissive skank - which is most of the advice I've read here.  My advice EMAWgeddon, if you just want to eff - go to a bar and get drunk.  Your a chick, someone will eff you. If you want a relationship, don't go asking a bunch of dudes for advice; apparently all we're capable of is rough ridin'.


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I don't think she ever said she was a submissive, did she?  Maybe you know more about her than I do.

The advice here is that unless you are looking to find a "mate" like Heinz, you better take care of the basics. 

[HeinBallz]

People are telling her to be submissive - I didn't say she was.  I dont know a thing about her; but most everyone here is giving her advice that wouldn't allow any self respecting man to respect her.  I doubt an attractive rich woman has trouble getting laid.


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[Pete]

People are telling her to be submissive - I didn't say she was.  I dont know a thing about her; but most everyone here is giving her advice that wouldn't allow any self respecting man to respect her.  I doubt an attractive rich woman has trouble getting laid.


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I don't think you and I have the same definition of a "self respecting man."

[michigancat]

BTW, people getting real serious and married in college is a very midwestern/small town thing.  You're away from that now, you're not behind schedule or anything.  Don't be worried

yeah, I think she's worried because her fat friends are cranking out babies in their beige prairie village houses and she thinks she's behind. She actually sounds pretty stupid to be wanting a serious long term thing right now given her career and overall life situation.

[sys]

pete is on the right track.  i don't know if no one can put up with her because she can't give a blowjob or because she owns a rough ridin' miniature pony, but i'm pretty sure it isn't because she's rich, attractive and likes kstate bball.

[EMAWgeddon]

BTW, people getting real serious and married in college is a very midwestern/small town thing.  You're away from that now, you're not behind schedule or anything.  Don't be worried

yeah, I think she's worried because her fat friends are cranking out babies in their beige prairie village houses and she thinks she's behind. She actually sounds pretty stupid to be wanting a serious long term thing right now given her career and overall life situation.

Yes, had a minor "going to die alone" meltdown, but now I am over it.

[EMAWgeddon]

pete is on the right track.  i don't know if no one can put up with her because she can't give a blowjob or because she owns a rough ridin' miniature pony, but i'm pretty sure it isn't because she's rich, attractive and likes kstate bball.

Actually, a mutual colleague just told me this guy told him his deal breaker on me was my "weird obsession with K-state"

[sys]

Actually, a mutual colleague just told me this guy told him his deal breaker on me was my "weird obsession with K-state"

he may have just been dumped by bmwhawk.  for men without that sort of trauma, bet on it being something else.

[ChiComCat]

pete is on the right track.  i don't know if no one can put up with her because she can't give a blowjob or because she owns a rough ridin' miniature pony, but i'm pretty sure it isn't because she's rich, attractive and likes kstate bball.

Actually, a mutual colleague just told me this guy told him his deal breaker on me was my "weird obsession with K-state"

You dodged a bullet

[Pete]

pete is on the right track.  i don't know if no one can put up with her because she can't give a blowjob or because she owns a rough ridin' miniature pony, but i'm pretty sure it isn't because she's rich, attractive and likes kstate bball.

This.

That's what I am saying.  On paper, she's rough ridin' perfect...you HAVE to start asking some tough questions if you want the truth.