I think kRusty's follow up was fine. Asking for input on how to improve life at the university is great. Offering services or even just someone to listen is all great.
The condescension to me (and admit I may have taken kRusty's post the wrong way initially) is assuming that black students want or need to be checked on like the university is their mother.
This is a unique situation, and in this case the university is more important than their mother as their mothers wouldn't let jaden hang out in the house.
I can't speak for others but if I were a current student, I'd have questions about how the university planned to keep me safe, a phone call would let me know that there's at least considerations being made, the school has IMO done nothing to protect students of color from hate speech unless it fits a very narrow definition. To me that isn't acceptable and I'd want answers/assurances made, and it isn't like I can just march into Anderson Hall to get them.
And that goes back to our initial disagreement that the university has any responsibility to shield students (adults) from speech they don't like, particularly when it doesn't even happen on campus.
Also, I truly do not understand the not feeling safe because of this guy being enrolled. I don't mean that to be dismissive at all. I try to look though other people's eyes to understand their perspective and it's just not clicking here. To me, the jaden dude is in far more danger from the student body as a whole than any student is in danger from him.
This is the same argument people, including me, said when trump was elected. His embrace of white supremacy wouldn't lead to a spread of the viewpoint. Well I was wrong, it clearly did, his, I won't even call it a support, let's call it antipathy towards the spread of white supremacy has lead to people like jaden feeling much more comfortable spreading it publicly. With the prevalence of this spreading nationally. To me it seems perfectly rational to think that open white supremacy on the campus will be more prevalent given the school blinked when it stared them squarely in the face. At the very least the veil of fear of punishment any of them may have felt is gone. There's nothing stopping neo-nazis from standing outside of a Hillel meeting in the union, intimidating people who want to go in. There's nothing stopping jaden and his crew holding a no coons on campus protest on the quad in front of Eisenhower Hall. There's nothing stopping the Proud Boys from picketing Women's Studies classes. Sure, there was nothing stopping these things from happening before, but now there is absolutely no fear of sanctions from the school. All these things have been green lighted when there may have been some doubt previously.
It's also why people just throwing up their hands and saying speech has to be protected is so frustrating. What is protected speech is and always has been up for interpretation. What is defined as hate speech has changed. This was the time for K-State to stand up against clear hate speech and they didn't do it. The thought that "well it's legal and we can't do anything about" it is why Jim Crow laws were in place for as long as they were. You all are condoning cowardice and inaction when the opposite was needed. It is 100% a privilege to think there absolutely won't be negative consequences to students of color when the school showed that it won't do whatever it takes to protect them.