Hasn't everyone had an event/tradition/trip mumped up by something - illness, travel issues, force majeure, etc.? That's what's happened to your upcoming holiday things, but you've caught a break in that you were given plenty of advance notice of the problem and have time to come up with a 1-time mod to the tradition and will adapt your event in a very unique memorable way this year.
Wasn't it a year or two ago that facebook and amazon were pushing all their apps and tablets that have people video'n the rest of their family for events and they sold them as it was just like being there? And those were largely lol'd at because why would someone do that when they can attend irl? Well now there's a great use for those things. Use them. And in 50 years show your grandkids pictures of what the crazy 2020 holidays were like when there was a once-in-a-century pandemic.