Texas has some of the strictest abortion laws, with 6000 kids up for adoption, and almost 30,000 in the foster care system. I wonder how many of the people who pushed for such strict abortion laws are licensed to foster? Or tried to adopt? Or at the very least, donated time/money to helping kids get adopted?
I recognize that it’s a bad thing that those 36,000 kids don’t have good situations with stable, loving families. The community and government ought to do a better job taking care of them.
But I cannot reconcile that it would be a better result if those 36,000 kids were dead.- I think it’s good they’re alive, even if their circumstances may be unimaginably rough right now.
Doing stuff like supporting education, sex ed, childcare, paid paternity/maternity leave, universal healthcare etc etc etc is a great rough ridin' place to start then essentially condemning them to a life of being told they're not worth it. Which is what pubs do every. rough ridin'. Time.
I want all those things. But more than all those things, I want those kids not to be killed. If it’s a choice between the two (and it apparently is, for now) I opt for not killing them.
But that's my point, I never hear any of those options ever spouted. Cause to me, and I tend to agree with you on this, my ideal world is 0 abortions. But how do you get there? Simply telling people to either not have sex or have the child cruelly also completely ignores the woman.
Will the pregnancy kill her? Is the fetus even viable? Was she raped? Why isn't she allowed to get BC? Why don't we teach proper sex ed? Why do we not hold men accountable for their actions in this too? I think what pro-life people want is admirable, but completely unrealistic in how they want it done. I think they overarchingly see it as people wanting unwanted pregnancies and just will nilly doing it cause "oops, I am a young woman who simply don't want to be a mom and I got knocked up by some dude on a random one night stand, YOLO".
I think of my cousin who
very much wanted to be mom, and grew up Catholic. She still calls herself that. But when her and her husband found out their child was basically going to die hours after being born, or else live a painful and short life, they made the very hard decision of terminating it. Should they have done that? Are you going to be the one to tell her to do that? Do you think that maybe her and her husband should make that decision without you and others telling her what she should or should not do? I also only say this on here cause she went very public with it during the Kansas vote a few years back cause it mattered that much to her.
These are the realities. Think about how forcing yourself, or anyone into that decision making process sounds. You willing to tell people what they can or cannot do in that situation.