#blueanon has taken this topic and turned into entirely one sided discussion where if you don't accept their version of reality you're a bigot and anti-trans.
Misgendering them isn't helping your case either, but keep blaming blueanon.
The irony of dax posting this almost directly after rusty reposted the letter from Utah's governor is almost too rich for even my extreme sweet tooth.
I think the bar to clear for not being a bigot is so low, that you have to make a concerted effort not to clear it. You don't have to wear women's clothing. You don't have to march in a gay pride parade. You don't have to have a trans friend. You don't even have to put a trans flag on your social media. If you can't even stomach not intentionally misgendering someone, that's tough but we can work around it. All you need to do to clear that bar, is to simply mind your own business, let people live their lives. They're not hurting you so maybe keep your opinion, that could dehumanize someone, to yourself. Is that difficult? Is it hard not to care about a trans woman who has tried very hard, for multiple years but haven't gotten close to not getting a tour card? Do we have to point her out and laugh or scoff at her? Did dragging Lia Thomas all over gods existence do anything to improve the lives of the people doing it?
I'm certain of this, my good friend CF3 has never been called a bigot by me. My good buddy Dlew has never been called a bigot by me. The governor of Utah has never been called a bigot by me. I'm not 100% sure, but I'm pretty sure that me and these three people don't view trans rights exactly the same way that I do.
It's really not that hard to not be seen as a bigot. The choice is ultimately yours. I mean people can call you a bigot all they want to, there's at least three posters on this board who have, doesn't bother me in the least though, because I can look myself in the mirror and know I'm good. If you're worried about being called a bigot, by some nebulous group of people, maybe instead of crying to us, some self-reflection might be in order.