i don't remember doing anything for homecoming when i lived in the dorms (508 haymaker), and clubs or organizations aren't really my thing, so my only exposure to homecoming was the plywood painting things and the floats and i was unaware it was a competition with a winner.
and i'm not sure where you are getting that i have some "underlying resentment" of frats. one of my favorite people on this here blog was in a frat. i don't really care what people do. pointing out that they do some weird stuff isn't resentment, and as long as participants are willing i don't really care. i'm very live and let live mir. sounds like maybe you have a little underlying resentment of people who don't want to participate in those kind on things?