lol. No. Also, She doesn't want me to be there right now per se, but she wants to hear that I'm motivated enough to someday want to get in that range. She kept brining up that we make over 100K combined right now and we can't afford to do anything fun with our bills. <-------(This is not true. I'm being responsible and saving my money).
You do plenty of fun stuff, you just do it here. Don't be fooled by some high profile life she
thinks other people are living. I went to school with kids from her family and not one of them had been around the world and unless they hit the powerball or the price of baked beans goes up by $10,000 a qt, they never will be. I mean, she had a used Altima that was decent but I sure never got her confused with the kids with real money.
Just get a handle on perception v. reality and you'll be fine