I don't go to church for the singing and standing and setting. I know some do, but it is pretty insane to try to make it sound like that is why some people go to church. I don't even go to church for the scripture.
Please don't get me wrong, I actually enjoy all of those elements and I sing loudly and off key. I listen intently during scripture readings and the homily, but those are not the reasons I go to church.
Hang on a second, because this is gonna blow your mind...I go to church for the holy Eucharist.