wife and I planned a no-kids wedding. everyone we invited that has kids still came to wedding without a fuss. it was an intimate moment for us and didn't want the screaming, spinning around on the dance floor distractions that come with the little ones. no offense to kids or people who have them, as i'm sure we'll have some of our own someday as well. it was our day, mostly paid for by us, and we planned it the way we wanted to. and everyone had a great time.