It's really a cultural problem, at least here. There's a lot of "I gots mine, screw you," there's a robust car culture (WHY ISN'T THERE ENOUGH PARKING?), there's a lot of zoning restrictions (which dovetails with NIMBYism), and there's a lot of American Dreamin' going on, which manifests as a license to be unapologetically selfish, especially when you wrap yourself in the willing protection of the law.
Again, this is on a macro scale. I'm not accusing any of you of being guilty of anything in particular. And as I acknowledged, it is very location-dependent. Still, a third of Americans live in metros that wrestle (poorly) with this problem. More density and fewer cars would be better for many, many reasons, but I understand that's not a very white-midwestern-popular stance. But it's mine, and I'll own it.