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making friends. . .
« on: June 30, 2016, 10:26:21 PM »
and finding people to hang out with/date as an adult.  how do you do it?  need help plz


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Re: making friends. . .
« Reply #1 on: June 30, 2016, 10:29:04 PM »
Join a drinking kickball team. Bond around making fun of the umps.
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« Reply #2 on: June 30, 2016, 10:35:33 PM »
When I lived in KC I played on a kickball team that Wacky eventually refed for, but before his new$money joined it.  I played with friends to begin with, but I def made new ones from that.  So 8MP is on point.

There is a pretty active KC young professionals group in KC that is good.  I know the person who started it, I can give you her info if you want.

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« Reply #3 on: June 30, 2016, 10:35:45 PM »
i heard that thing went to crap when the guy running it quit
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« Reply #4 on: June 30, 2016, 10:36:35 PM »
I'll watch a roys game anytime bruh

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Re: making friends. . .
« Reply #5 on: June 30, 2016, 10:36:52 PM »
1. accept that the friends you make post-college will be compartmentalized
2. identify people with traits you admire
3. be really forward about wanting to do the thing that you see yourself doing with the new friend

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« Reply #6 on: June 30, 2016, 10:36:55 PM »
For instance your dog is someone i have to meet

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« Reply #7 on: June 30, 2016, 10:37:34 PM »
When I lived in KC I played on a kickball team that Wacky eventually refed for, but before his new$money joined it.  I played with friends to begin with, but I def made new ones from that.  So 8MP is on point.

There is a pretty active KC young professionals group in KC that is good.  I know the person who started it, I can give you her info if you want.

We are buds lib, no matter what interactions good/bad we have on this blog.

tbt bud, don't ever doubt that i think you're a good dude.

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« Reply #8 on: June 30, 2016, 10:38:30 PM »
1. accept that the friends you make post-college will be compartmentalized
2. identify people with traits you admire
3. be really forward about wanting to do the thing that you see yourself doing with the new friend

1) ez
2) kind of overwhelming
3)  :runaway:
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« Reply #9 on: June 30, 2016, 10:38:54 PM »
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Re: making friends. . .
« Reply #10 on: June 30, 2016, 10:46:37 PM »
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Re: making friends. . .
« Reply #11 on: June 30, 2016, 10:47:35 PM »
"hey fuckface, are you watching the [event] on [day of the week]? let's drink for it"

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« Reply #12 on: June 30, 2016, 10:48:23 PM »
if you're not committed to drinking you may as well give up on making friends

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« Reply #13 on: June 30, 2016, 10:49:03 PM »
Gun store

gun show this month i believe....  :goodbyecruelworld: (but at a bad guy)
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« Reply #14 on: June 30, 2016, 10:49:31 PM »
Man, bubs has been a godsend to the board

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« Reply #15 on: June 30, 2016, 10:49:42 PM »
if you're not committed to drinking you may as well give up on making friends

this is unfortunate news
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« Reply #16 on: June 30, 2016, 10:49:46 PM »
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« Reply #17 on: June 30, 2016, 10:50:14 PM »
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« Reply #18 on: June 30, 2016, 10:51:25 PM »
"hey fuckface, are you watching the [event] on [day of the week]? let's drink for it"

Sign me up!   :excited:

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« Reply #19 on: June 30, 2016, 10:51:45 PM »
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« Reply #20 on: June 30, 2016, 10:54:01 PM »
Come to quaff. Walk up to the finest MFr you see.  99% chance it's me or wacky. Done.

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« Reply #21 on: June 30, 2016, 10:54:12 PM »
find a special lady friend that has friends

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« Reply #22 on: June 30, 2016, 10:54:22 PM »
or a normal lady friend

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« Reply #23 on: June 30, 2016, 10:55:28 PM »
if you're not committed to drinking you may as well give up on making friends

Well, this is just not accurate.

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« Reply #24 on: June 30, 2016, 10:55:38 PM »
Come to quaff. Walk up to the finest MFr you see.  99% chance it's me or wacky. Done.

left pnl around 9:30 and almost decided to go over there for a few minutes to check it out.  but i didn't.
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