I was mostly oblivious to fraternities in college. I paid practically zero attention to them at all. However, the one guy in my circle that was in one(don't even know which) used to get super worked up if you called it a Frat rather than a Fraternity. He said that was similar to calling our Country a $!#*. I mean, what?
Also, I don't understand the idea of signing up for one knowing that you would very likely be tied up, hurt, beat, sleep deprived, or some other form of severely mumped with just to get accepted. I mean, I am not judging, I just don't get how houses actually got ppl to sign up with the unofficial reputation of this occurring. Baffling. Especially when you walk around campus and the guys that are in frats are just like anyone else.