Author Topic: Sun glasses thread (Read 36799 times)

pissclams · « **Reply #300 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:35:36 PM »

now it's time to back up your words

michigancat · « **Reply #301 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:36:30 PM »

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #302 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:37:39 PM »

Quote from: Mrs. Gooch on March 19, 2015, 12:31:39 PM

Did you do the thing I said?

Yup. Laid it all out there. She admitted to being worried when I lost my job about the future and I told her that's fair. I also told her that I was able to find work within a week in both situations and that should tell her something about my motivation and networking capabilities. We dished all of our concerns and agreed to work on the petty stuff or else it will be time to move on soon.

Cartierfor3 · « **Reply #303 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:39:11 PM »

Did you discuss the 85k ultimatum?

SdK · « **Reply #304 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:39:16 PM »

I'm sure that felt good, Wacky.

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #305 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:39:26 PM »

Quote from: wetwillie on March 19, 2015, 12:32:05 PM

Operation trap baby is probably in full affect now be careful bud.

Nah. She doesn't want kids for a long time.

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #306 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:40:55 PM »

Quote from: Cartierfor3 on March 19, 2015, 12:39:11 PM

Did you discuss the 85k ultimatum?

Yes and she back peddled. "I never said it like that!" "I just think a lot of you and I know you can do more than what you're doing. I want you to be happy and strive for more. You just don't seem happy at this type of work and schedule". <------ Totally fair.

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #307 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:41:15 PM »

Quote from: Sundance»¤«Kid on March 19, 2015, 12:39:16 PM

I'm sure that felt good, Wacky.

IT DID!

ednksu · « **Reply #308 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:41:42 PM »

Quote from: WackyCat08 on March 19, 2015, 12:39:26 PM

Quote from: wetwillie on March 19, 2015, 12:32:05 PM
Operation trap baby is probably in full affect now be careful bud.
Nah. She doesn't want kids for a long time.

Baby plan step 2

Cartierfor3 · « **Reply #309 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:43:53 PM »

Quote from: WackyCat08 on March 19, 2015, 12:40:55 PM

Quote from: Cartierfor3 on March 19, 2015, 12:39:11 PM
Did you discuss the 85k ultimatum?
Yes and she back paddled. "I never said it like that!" "I just think a lot of you and I know you can do more than what you're doing. I want you to be happy and strive for more. You just don't seem happy at this type of work and schedule". <------ Totally fair.

Mikeyis4dcats · « **Reply #310 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:45:47 PM »

wacky ^^

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #311 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:46:19 PM »

Quote from: Cartierfor3 on March 19, 2015, 12:43:53 PM

Quote from: WackyCat08 on March 19, 2015, 12:40:55 PM
Quote from: Cartierfor3 on March 19, 2015, 12:39:11 PM
Did you discuss the 85k ultimatum?
Yes and she back paddled. "I never said it like that!" "I just think a lot of you and I know you can do more than what you're doing. I want you to be happy and strive for more. You just don't seem happy at this type of work and schedule". <------ Totally fair.

michigancat · « **Reply #312 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:48:44 PM »

So she didn't mention vacations and horses and crap? Not sure how that has anything to do with your capabilities.

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #313 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:49:06 PM »

Quote from: Mikeyis4dcats on March 19, 2015, 12:45:47 PM

wacky ^^

Oh plz. I've ended so many "relationships" on petty crap when I was younger and it was mainly cause I wanted to be single. When you care about someone, you try to work out the issues, and if they don't, then you move on. This has built up and it needed to be addressed. If it doesn't work after this, peace out.

Cartierfor3 · « **Reply #314 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:51:04 PM »

In all seriousness WC, does Ms. WC love you and the thought of being together for the long term, or does she love the idea of a lifestyle that she perceives will make her happy? It seems to me that she has a version of her life she desires and the person she ends up with is less important than the status and the stuff.

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #315 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:51:30 PM »

Quote from: michigancat on March 19, 2015, 12:48:44 PM

So she didn't mention vacations and horses and crap? Not sure how that has anything to do with your capabilities.

Nah. Just that we could make it work and she admitted to being petty about that stuff.

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #316 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:53:28 PM »

Quote from: Cartierfor3 on March 19, 2015, 12:51:04 PM

In all seriousness WC, does Ms. WC love you and the thought of being together for the long term, or does she love the idea of a lifestyle that she perceives will make her happy? It seems to me that she has a version of her life she desires and the person she ends up with is less important than the status and the stuff.

She absolutely loves me. She goes crazy anytime the thought of me leaving comes into her head. I think she had this notion of what her child life was like before her family lost a lot of it and she wants it back, but she understands you have to earn it. I think that messed her up a bit.

mocat · « **Reply #317 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:57:41 PM »

Quote from: WackyCat08 on March 19, 2015, 12:40:55 PM

Quote from: Cartierfor3 on March 19, 2015, 12:39:11 PM
Did you discuss the 85k ultimatum?
Yes and she back peddled. "I never said it like that!" "I just think a lot of you and I know you can do more than what you're doing. I want you to be happy and strive for more. You just don't seem happy at this type of work and schedule". <------ Totally fair.

omg a 2-fer!

mocat · « **Reply #318 on:** March 19, 2015, 12:58:34 PM »

Quote from: mocat on March 19, 2015, 12:57:41 PM

Quote from: WackyCat08 on March 19, 2015, 12:40:55 PM
Quote from: Cartierfor3 on March 19, 2015, 12:39:11 PM
Did you discuss the 85k ultimatum?
Yes and she back peddled. "I never said it like that!" "I just think a lot of you and I know you can do more than what you're doing. I want you to be happy and strive for more. You just don't seem happy at this type of work and schedule". <------ Totally fair.

omg a 2-fer!

wait, is back-peddling another way of saying you can PIITB now?

mocat · « **Reply #319 on:** March 19, 2015, 01:00:06 PM »

@Spracne alert ^

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #320 on:** March 19, 2015, 01:02:16 PM »

Stay focused. I'm growing up, you guys!

Cartierfor3 · « **Reply #321 on:** March 19, 2015, 01:03:18 PM »

mokat really is obsessed with 5th base lately

puniraptor · « **Reply #322 on:** March 19, 2015, 01:24:59 PM »

Spracne · « **Reply #323 on:** March 19, 2015, 01:29:30 PM »

Quote from: mocat on March 19, 2015, 01:00:06 PM

@Spracne alert ^

spot mocat, now! won taco, mtops

Mikeyis4dcats · « **Reply #324 on:** March 19, 2015, 01:53:15 PM »

Quote from: WackyCat08 on March 19, 2015, 12:53:28 PM

Quote from: Cartierfor3 on March 19, 2015, 12:51:04 PM
In all seriousness WC, does Ms. WC love you and the thought of being together for the long term, or does she love the idea of a lifestyle that she perceives will make her happy? It seems to me that she has a version of her life she desires and the person she ends up with is less important than the status and the stuff.
She absolutely loves me. She goes crazy anytime the thought of me leaving comes into her head. I think she had this notion of what her child life was like before her family lost a lot of it and she wants it back, but she understands you have to earn it. I think that messed her up a bit.

that doesn't necessarily mean she loves you. I dated a girl for a long time that felt that way about me, but turned out she was co-dependent and crazy.