So many contradictions revealed in here. We met together once as he was returning from a trip to Cancun, I had no idea he was at the swingers resort, that almost made me throw up. He told me he wasn't even attracted to blondes...I guess he likes anything with lady parts. It seemed like we connected on many levels, has been extremely hurtful and disappointing that it was all hype, the whole time, guess like it was for you guys football team. I got all the same stories abt how awful the ex was, the same pictures, the same BS. You guys just don't know, or maybe you do, just in a different way, from what I've read on here sounds like you got empty promises too. My son also liked him, well one of them did. The other very big one is pretty upset, he doesn't know all the details from here, thank God, but he knows his mom was hurt and he's angry abt it