This isn't really wedding planning, but whatever: I live in AZ and am invited to weddings in back-to-back weekends in May in KC. I'm roughly equally good friends with both, but one is a college roommate of mine. Is it cool if I tell the other guy I can't make it?
I still have a 3rd wedding I'll be in that's in December and I'll be going to the Stanford game and hopefully 2 other Cat games. Ill be running out of points with all those and don't want to drop the coin. I feel bad, but it gets expensive.