Author Topic: Planning weddings (Read 88521 times)

8manpick · « **Reply #525 on:** March 08, 2016, 05:59:07 PM »

Quote from: pissclams on March 08, 2016, 05:56:55 PM

Quote from: 8manpick on March 08, 2016, 05:41:16 PM
Define "destination"

i think wc is getting married in summit county, colorado. for some that may not qualify as a destination wedding but for others, it certainly does.

Ah, cool. I think it does, albeit maybe not one that would discourage the "mehs" from coming.

star seed 7 · « **Reply #526 on:** March 08, 2016, 06:16:55 PM »

Don't invite the mehs, dumbos

pissclams · « **Reply #527 on:** March 08, 2016, 06:29:47 PM »

Quote from: 8manpick on March 08, 2016, 05:59:07 PM

Quote from: pissclams on March 08, 2016, 05:56:55 PM
Quote from: 8manpick on March 08, 2016, 05:41:16 PM
Define "destination"

i think wc is getting married in summit county, colorado. for some that may not qualify as a destination wedding but for others, it certainly does.
Ah, cool. I think it does, albeit maybe not one that would discourage the "mehs" from coming.

with the strange exception of the wedding lovers in this thread, there are a lot of people who will look for any excuse not to attend a wedding

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #528 on:** March 08, 2016, 07:08:29 PM »

Quote from: libliblibliblibliblib on March 08, 2016, 06:16:55 PM

Don't invite the mehs, dumbos

Ms. Wackys step family who live in Chicago and Texas. They tie sweaters around their neck like they just walked off Augusta. No kids, so they probably won't come. We have less than 30 ppl attending. Best men and women. Brothers and sisters, parents and grandparents. I have a small family.

We'll be in Breckenridge, CO 8man.

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #529 on:** March 08, 2016, 07:11:57 PM »

I just now realized what summit county was. Wow! Clams knows his geography.

pissclams · « **Reply #530 on:** March 08, 2016, 08:26:36 PM »

it didn't come naturally, i've studied colorado counties for years

star seed 7 · « **Reply #531 on:** March 08, 2016, 08:27:21 PM »

what's ur 5th favorite colorado county 'clams?

pissclams · « **Reply #532 on:** March 08, 2016, 08:32:57 PM »

i wouldn't say i rank them, per say, just study the living crap out of 'em

some of my buds call me Colorado Counties Clams (or tri-C for short)

star seed 7 · « **Reply #533 on:** March 08, 2016, 08:34:12 PM »

you're a better man than me, i rank literally everything i study.

Cartierfor3 · « **Reply #534 on:** March 08, 2016, 08:48:28 PM »

Really any wedding is a destination wedding, unless you get married in cyberspace

DOD Take 2 · « **Reply #535 on:** March 08, 2016, 09:04:32 PM »

This isn't really wedding planning, but whatever: I live in AZ and am invited to weddings in back-to-back weekends in May in KC. I'm roughly equally good friends with both, but one is a college roommate of mine. Is it cool if I tell the other guy I can't make it?

I still have a 3rd wedding I'll be in that's in December and I'll be going to the Stanford game and hopefully 2 other Cat games. Ill be running out of points with all those and don't want to drop the coin. I feel bad, but it gets expensive.

michigancat · « **Reply #536 on:** March 08, 2016, 09:18:07 PM »

Quote from: DOD Take 2 on March 08, 2016, 09:04:32 PM

This isn't really wedding planning, but whatever: I live in AZ and am invited to weddings in back-to-back weekends in May in KC. I'm roughly equally good friends with both, but one is a college roommate of mine. Is it cool if I tell the other guy I can't make it?

I still have a 3rd wedding I'll be in that's in December and I'll be going to the Stanford game and hopefully 2 other Cat games. Ill be running out of points with all those and don't want to drop the coin. I feel bad, but it gets expensive.

I say go to the wedding that sent the invite first

OK_Cat · « **Reply #537 on:** March 08, 2016, 09:29:33 PM »

I had a similar experience and I think it's in this thread. 2 weddings at the same exact time one hour away from each other. One friend male, one female, so I ended up going to the wedding of the female friend, because it means more to women.

michigancat · « **Reply #538 on:** March 08, 2016, 09:42:53 PM »

Quote from: michigancat on March 08, 2016, 09:18:07 PM

Quote from: DOD Take 2 on March 08, 2016, 09:04:32 PM
This isn't really wedding planning, but whatever: I live in AZ and am invited to weddings in back-to-back weekends in May in KC. I'm roughly equally good friends with both, but one is a college roommate of mine. Is it cool if I tell the other guy I can't make it?

I still have a 3rd wedding I'll be in that's in December and I'll be going to the Stanford game and hopefully 2 other Cat games. Ill be running out of points with all those and don't want to drop the coin. I feel bad, but it gets expensive.

I say go to the wedding that sent the invite first

Actually, go to the first one and make it a point to see your friend getting married the second weekend while you're in town. Explain you could only afford to travel to one but you wanted to make it a point to see him and the bride before he got married. You can give the gift and probably have a nice, real conversation you wouldn't have been able to have at the wedding.

pissclams · « **Reply #539 on:** March 08, 2016, 09:59:57 PM »

Quote from: DOD Take 2 on March 08, 2016, 09:04:32 PM

This isn't really wedding planning, but whatever: I live in AZ and am invited to weddings in back-to-back weekends in May in KC. I'm roughly equally good friends with both, but one is a college roommate of mine. Is it cool if I tell the other guy I can't make it?

I still have a 3rd wedding I'll be in that's in December and I'll be going to the Stanford game and hopefully 2 other Cat games. Ill be running out of points with all those and don't want to drop the coin. I feel bad, but it gets expensive.

dip into your 401k and go to both of them, i mean- i would. otherwise the perception that you're selfish could invade your "friendships" and who wants selfish friends?

Emo EMAW · « **Reply #540 on:** March 09, 2016, 08:35:50 AM »

I love the brides that kinda flip out when someone wears jeans to their reception.

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #541 on:** March 09, 2016, 08:37:24 AM »

wearing jeans to a reception is pretty lazy fwiw.

8manpick · « **Reply #542 on:** March 09, 2016, 08:42:11 AM »

How about you avoid being a backwoods slob emo?

star seed 7 · « **Reply #543 on:** March 09, 2016, 08:57:41 AM »

That's why people don't like to go to weddings

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #544 on:** March 09, 2016, 09:01:51 AM »

Because ppl are slobs?

star seed 7 · « **Reply #545 on:** March 09, 2016, 09:03:29 AM »

Yup, jeans are for slobs

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #546 on:** March 09, 2016, 09:07:10 AM »

Lib^7, I think I know why you haven't been laid in awhile. Maybe dress up once and awhile. Put some effort into it. ignore the liberal way!

Emo EMAW · « **Reply #547 on:** March 09, 2016, 09:10:17 AM »

Guys I would never wear jeans to a wedding, I mean my God. But people do, and I love to spectate in that instance.

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #548 on:** March 09, 2016, 09:11:29 AM »

Yeah, you might as well stay home at that point. That's a bigger insult than not showing. You're pretty much telling them you don't give a flying eff about them.

star seed 7 · « **Reply #549 on:** March 09, 2016, 09:20:02 AM »

I haven't worn a pair of jeans in over 2 months, WackyCat08, I don't find them all that comfortable.

Some great egomania on show here when it comes to weddings tho. Hey, I demand you come do all this crappy stuff 'clams listed and also I'm going to make you wear uncomfortable clothes while you do it. Sounds like great fun.