I've always equated intimations about gobbling on anothers male genitals as in line with ass kissing, sucking up, or brown nosing.
I don't see it as being homophobic. Can someone fill me in on how it is homophobic?
A blow job is either done to please your partner and/or because one likes pleasing their partner. How is that a bad thing? Why is it demeaning to gay men in this context?