My long-time gf and I aren't even friends on FB. It's pretty neat.
Interesting if true. What is your reasoning? (Would make family holiday planning a little trickier in my situation)
Holiday planning goes like this, in person or via text:
"Can we do 'X' for the holidays, around these dates?"
"Sure/Nope"
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My reasoning is that it prevents any situations that might lead to stupid fights or, worse, quiet resentment, even though I don't even use FB much anymore.