if I go, all will have to go too.
it's not worth it if everyone has to go. put down your foot on this one, you and the wife are going and the grandparents are going to spend some breakfast time with your kid elsewhere.
How is this even a tough sell? Hey kids, your mom and I are eating with the team for breakfast, but guess what?.....You get all the eat pineapple pancakes and loco moco's you can eat!!