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Title: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: 420seriouscat69 on August 07, 2013, 10:19:59 AM
 :dunno: Advice? I sit around a lot of execs and I have to do a lot of conference calls with them hovering over me. How do you get over this anxiety and be yourself around this ppl? I'm still trying to figure it out.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: CNS on August 07, 2013, 10:23:01 AM
:dunno: Advice? I sit around a lot of execs and I have to do a lot of conference calls with them hovering over me. How do you get over this anxiety and be yourself around this ppl? I'm still trying to figure it out.

Their just ppl.  Treat them like anyone else and just do what they ask you to. 
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Mr Bread on August 07, 2013, 10:23:32 AM
Are you out of your league at your new job, meaning overmatched by what is asked of you?  If so, then you should be nervous.  If not, then I'd suggest not being a pussy.  I'm positive there's nothing special about any of the assholes milling about you.  They're you, just older if that helps.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: michigancat on August 07, 2013, 10:25:03 AM
Dude you used to talk for a living, didn't you?
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: OK_Cat on August 07, 2013, 10:25:50 AM
hey look, another thread where fanning talks about his job
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: EllRobersonisInnocent on August 07, 2013, 10:27:18 AM
Offer them cocaine and they'll accept you into their clique
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: 420seriouscat69 on August 07, 2013, 10:27:37 AM
That does help. They're just a bit intimidating. The only thing that sucks is learning software. They've been around it way longer and say it takes awhile to know. Sometimes talking to IT ppl is like speaking spanish. I'm coming around though. I was 2nd on the team in sales last month and that was the first month I had an account list.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: CNS on August 07, 2013, 10:31:29 AM
WS08, is your software something that you could use?  If so, use the crap out of it.  Create fake accts, jobs, etc and really get to understand it rather than just memorizing the stuff IT explains to you.  Understand what IT is explaining. 

Understanding product is the key to sales. 
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: 420seriouscat69 on August 07, 2013, 10:33:22 AM
 :thumbs:
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: michigancat on August 07, 2013, 10:36:05 AM
That does help. They're just a bit intimidating. The only thing that sucks is learning software. They've been around it way longer and say it takes awhile to know. Sometimes talking to IT ppl is like speaking spanish. I'm coming around though. I was 2nd on the team in sales last month and that was the first month I had an account list.

If the guys around you told you it takes a while to figure out and you're doing well in sales, what on Earth are you worried about?

Are you worried they won't like you? My armchair psychology may be spotting a trend....
Title: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: pissclams on August 07, 2013, 10:36:25 AM
simple case of zero confidence
#you don't know wtf you're doing

when you learn the crap it will be pud city. population: wc08
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: 420seriouscat69 on August 07, 2013, 10:40:27 AM
Cause they're also demanding a lot right away. They are pressuring us to create a bigger pipeline soon. It's kind of a catch 22. A lot of the sales I've received are existing accounts reaching out to me for quotes and other software related things.

As the talking for a loving thing, that was sports, I can speak all day on something I'm familiar with. However, as you know, sound like an idiot when I don't.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: 420seriouscat69 on August 07, 2013, 10:41:13 AM
simple case of zero confidence
#you don't know wtf you're doing

when you learn the crap it will be pud city. population: wc08
:eek:
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: puniraptor on August 07, 2013, 10:43:19 AM
it will take about 10,000 hrs and then you should be silky smooth
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Institutional Control on August 07, 2013, 10:45:25 AM
Wacky, I'll be in KC on Friday. I'll swing by and give you some pointers on how to do your job.  Have a spreadsheet of all your clients ready and we'll knock this out in an hour.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Emo EMAW on August 07, 2013, 10:46:11 AM
WS08, is your software something that you could use?  If so, use the crap out of it.  Create fake accts, jobs, etc and really get to understand it rather than just memorizing the stuff IT explains to you.  Understand what IT is explaining. 

Understanding product is the key to sales.

Also, unless you love everybody, you can't sell anybody.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: EllRobersonisInnocent on August 07, 2013, 10:47:51 AM
Do what you love Fanning. You don't love your job, you love the money
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Mr Bread on August 07, 2013, 10:48:37 AM
it will take about 10,000 hrs and then you should be silky smooth

Yep, gotta get that 10k in.  You aren't crap if you don't have your 10k. 
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: hemmy on August 07, 2013, 10:48:37 AM
After 2.5 years developing software at my current company i still don't know how to use half the program. Then again I don't need to so w/e.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Mr Bread on August 07, 2013, 10:49:28 AM
WS08, is your software something that you could use?  If so, use the crap out of it.  Create fake accts, jobs, etc and really get to understand it rather than just memorizing the stuff IT explains to you.  Understand what IT is explaining. 

Understanding product is the key to sales.

Also, unless you love everybody, you can't sell anybody.

Also, if you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything. 
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Mr Bread on August 07, 2013, 10:50:00 AM
WS08, is your software something that you could use?  If so, use the crap out of it.  Create fake accts, jobs, etc and really get to understand it rather than just memorizing the stuff IT explains to you.  Understand what IT is explaining. 

Understanding product is the key to sales.

Also, unless you love everybody, you can't sell anybody.

Also, if you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything.

Also, we can live together as brothers or die together as fools.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: OK_Cat on August 07, 2013, 10:51:28 AM
also, it's better that people think you're an idiot than to open your mouth and prove it
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: sonofdaxjones on August 07, 2013, 10:53:45 AM
Sell, sell, sell, sell . . . all the process stuff will come.

You won't keep your job by knowing the processes (note:  I didn't say NOT know the rules), if you sell a bunch, they'll help you with the process.

Nobody is going to say, "Well Wacky didn't sell $hit, but dang it he really knows the processes if he were to sell something."

Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: michigancat on August 07, 2013, 10:58:00 AM
WS08, is your software something that you could use?  If so, use the crap out of it.  Create fake accts, jobs, etc and really get to understand it rather than just memorizing the stuff IT explains to you.  Understand what IT is explaining. 

Understanding product is the key to sales.

Also, unless you love everybody, you can't sell anybody.

Also, if you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything.

Also, we can live together as brothers or die together as fools.

Let me tell you a secret about a father's love
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: The Big Train on August 07, 2013, 11:04:45 AM
Cause they're also demanding a lot right away. They are pressuring us to create a bigger pipeline soon. It's kind of a catch 22. A lot of the sales I've received are existing accounts reaching out to me for quotes and other software related things.

As the talking for a loving thing, that was sports, I can speak all day on something I'm familiar with. However, as you know, sound like an idiot when I don't.

 :D
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: kim carnes on August 07, 2013, 11:10:11 AM
You're not a "big boy"
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Panjandrum on August 07, 2013, 11:10:49 AM
That does help. They're just a bit intimidating. The only thing that sucks is learning software. They've been around it way longer and say it takes awhile to know. Sometimes talking to IT ppl is like speaking spanish. I'm coming around though. I was 2nd on the team in sales last month and that was the first month I had an account list.

I'll be honest, Fanning, a lot of guys that sell software don't know how it's used.

A lot of times, they bring in subject matter experts to close a deal if people start asking hard questions.  I end up doing a sales thing at least once every other week for that reason.

You're most likely going to get in the door and bring someone else in to help you close.  If it's a really big deal, they won't let you fly solo if you're new.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Mr Bread on August 07, 2013, 11:12:49 AM
That does help. They're just a bit intimidating. The only thing that sucks is learning software. They've been around it way longer and say it takes awhile to know. Sometimes talking to IT ppl is like speaking spanish. I'm coming around though. I was 2nd on the team in sales last month and that was the first month I had an account list.

I'll be honest, Fanning, a lot of guys that sell software don't know how it's used.

A lot of times, they bring in subject matter experts to close a deal if people start asking hard questions.  I do that at least once every other week.

You're most likely going to get in the door and bring someone else in to help you close.  If it's a really big deal, they won't let you fly solo if you're new.

Are you the subject matter expert and if so do you get a cut of the sales commission if they call you in?
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Panjandrum on August 07, 2013, 11:16:11 AM
That does help. They're just a bit intimidating. The only thing that sucks is learning software. They've been around it way longer and say it takes awhile to know. Sometimes talking to IT ppl is like speaking spanish. I'm coming around though. I was 2nd on the team in sales last month and that was the first month I had an account list.

I'll be honest, Fanning, a lot of guys that sell software don't know how it's used.

A lot of times, they bring in subject matter experts to close a deal if people start asking hard questions.  I do that at least once every other week.

You're most likely going to get in the door and bring someone else in to help you close.  If it's a really big deal, they won't let you fly solo if you're new.

Are you the subject matter expert and if so do you get a cut of the sales commission if they call you in?

I clarified that after editing.  I am the SME, and no, I don't get a cut.  However, the payback is in executive exposure.  The bigger the deal, the more eyes, and the more eyes, the greater chance you'll get a better review, better promotion, etc.  Helping sales/business dev is pretty good professional capital.  It's really helped me along in my job.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Emo EMAW on August 07, 2013, 11:19:21 AM
Our SME's have bonuses tied to certain segment sales, so it behooves them to offer genuine help.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Panjandrum on August 07, 2013, 11:23:09 AM
And, WC, if you're nervous, that's fine.  There's always going to be some high pressure deal or something that will set the bar higher.  Your targets are always going to get bigger.  If they aren't, I'd suggest looking for a new job because the company isn't going anywhere.

Besides, intrinsic fear is a good motivator.  Not unhealthy fear promoted by bad managers, but fear of failing and not doing as well as you'd like. 
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Mr Bread on August 07, 2013, 11:24:19 AM
Our SME's have bonuses tied to certain segment sales, so it behooves them to offer genuine help.

I think they should get paid.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: michigancat on August 07, 2013, 11:24:40 AM
fanning, you should read "The Inner Game of Tennis".
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Panjandrum on August 07, 2013, 11:25:22 AM
Our SME's have bonuses tied to certain segment sales, so it behooves them to offer genuine help.

I think they should get paid.

I think it would help folks take it more seriously.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Emo EMAW on August 07, 2013, 11:29:44 AM
Our SME's have bonuses tied to certain segment sales, so it behooves them to offer genuine help.

I think they should get paid.

Me too.  But generally I'm in favor of individual or small team type bonuses as opposed to if the entire $4B global company hit its sales goals.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Mr Bread on August 07, 2013, 11:31:34 AM
Our SME's have bonuses tied to certain segment sales, so it behooves them to offer genuine help.

I think they should get paid.

I think it would help folks take it more seriously.

If I don't know my crap well enough and I need you to help me close and you do help me close, then you should get some of the money I'm getting for closing.  If I don't like it, then I should get better.  If I want to hungry hippo those benjamins, then I need to be a smarter hippo, you dig?   :cool:(clams bait)
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Mr Bread on August 07, 2013, 11:32:52 AM
Our SME's have bonuses tied to certain segment sales, so it behooves them to offer genuine help.

I think they should get paid.

Me too.  But generally I'm in favor of individual or small team type bonuses as opposed to if the entire $4B global company hit its sales goals.

Precisely.  The boss hogs filling the trough should be first in line to eat from it. 
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Emo EMAW on August 07, 2013, 11:35:36 AM
Belly up Boss Hawg!  :lick:
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Rage Against the McKee on August 07, 2013, 11:37:49 AM
Wacky, you should just find the meanest, biggest boss hog filly at that office and you know . . . take care of business. That way you will always be guaranteed a spot next to her at the trough, and you just know that's going to be a prime spot.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Panjandrum on August 07, 2013, 11:38:35 AM
Our SME's have bonuses tied to certain segment sales, so it behooves them to offer genuine help.

I think they should get paid.

I think it would help folks take it more seriously.

If I don't know my crap well enough and I need you to help me close and you do help me close, then you should get some of the money I'm getting for closing.  If I don't like it, then I should get better.  If I want to hungry hippo those benjamins, then I need to be a smarter hippo, you dig?   :cool:(clams bait)

I like the way you think, Bread.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Trim on August 07, 2013, 11:43:16 AM
I mean, you're bbs'n about possibly sucking at your job when you're supposed to be working. :dunno:
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: pissclams on August 07, 2013, 11:49:18 AM
That does help. They're just a bit intimidating. The only thing that sucks is learning software. They've been around it way longer and say it takes awhile to know. Sometimes talking to IT ppl is like speaking spanish. I'm coming around though. I was 2nd on the team in sales last month and that was the first month I had an account list.

I'll be honest, Fanning, a lot of guys that sell software don't know how it's used.

A lot of times, they bring in subject matter experts to close a deal if people start asking hard questions.  I do that at least once every other week.

You're most likely going to get in the door and bring someone else in to help you close.  If it's a really big deal, they won't let you fly solo if you're new.

Are you the subject matter expert and if so do you get a cut of the sales commission if they call you in?

I clarified that after editing.  I am the SME, and no, I don't get a cut.  However, the payback is in executive exposure.  The bigger the deal, the more eyes, and the more eyes, the greater chance you'll get a better review, better promotion, etc.  Helping sales/business dev is pretty good professional capital.  It's really helped me along in my job.

my God

:flush:
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Stevesie60 on August 07, 2013, 11:51:33 AM
Big boy jobs sound awful.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Mr Bread on August 07, 2013, 11:54:09 AM
Big boy jobs sound awful.

It depends on if you're a top or a bottom.  There aren't any power bottoms in big boy jobs. 
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: bubbles4ksu on August 07, 2013, 12:05:13 PM
Wacky, I'll be in KC on Friday. I'll swing by and give you some pointers on how to do your job.  Have a spreadsheet of all your clients ready and we'll knock this out in an hour.

wacky's prayers have been answered. cant weight two here how it goes four you to.  :excited:
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Panjandrum on August 07, 2013, 12:10:03 PM
That does help. They're just a bit intimidating. The only thing that sucks is learning software. They've been around it way longer and say it takes awhile to know. Sometimes talking to IT ppl is like speaking spanish. I'm coming around though. I was 2nd on the team in sales last month and that was the first month I had an account list.

I'll be honest, Fanning, a lot of guys that sell software don't know how it's used.

A lot of times, they bring in subject matter experts to close a deal if people start asking hard questions.  I do that at least once every other week.

You're most likely going to get in the door and bring someone else in to help you close.  If it's a really big deal, they won't let you fly solo if you're new.

Are you the subject matter expert and if so do you get a cut of the sales commission if they call you in?

I clarified that after editing.  I am the SME, and no, I don't get a cut.  However, the payback is in executive exposure.  The bigger the deal, the more eyes, and the more eyes, the greater chance you'll get a better review, better promotion, etc.  Helping sales/business dev is pretty good professional capital.  It's really helped me along in my job.

my God

:flush:

I help with sales, I get a better rating.  I get a better rating, I get more stock options.

I like options.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: michigancat on August 07, 2013, 12:10:41 PM
stock options! hooray!
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: p1k3 on August 07, 2013, 12:15:16 PM
Wacky, I'll be in KC on Friday. I'll swing by and give you some pointers on how to do your job.  Have a spreadsheet of all your clients ready and we'll knock this out in an hour.

wacky's prayers have been answered. cant weight two here how it goes four you to.  :excited:

 :D
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: The Big Train on August 07, 2013, 12:23:06 PM
Wacky, I'll be in KC on Friday. I'll swing by and give you some pointers on how to do your job.  Have a spreadsheet of all your clients ready and we'll knock this out in an hour.

wacky's prayers have been answered. cant weight two here how it goes four you to :excited:

 :D

 :D
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: The Tonya Harding of Twitter Users Creep on August 07, 2013, 12:27:51 PM
i have been working in the industry for almost 40 years now and i honestly cant remember if i was nervous or not.

good luck with the new job, wacky!
Title: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Pete on August 08, 2013, 08:09:33 AM
My first big kid job, I used to stay up late every night studying accounting texts and software manuals, out of sheer terror.

Worked out well in the end.  Fear is a very effective motivator.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Institutional Control on August 08, 2013, 08:25:28 AM
Wacky, I'm still waiting on that client spreadsheet.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: kostakio on August 08, 2013, 10:15:57 AM
My first big kid job, I used to stay up late every night studying accounting texts and software manuals, out of sheer terror.

Worked out well in the end.  Fear is a very effective motivator.

This is exactly right.  Don't listen to all these guys calling your out for being nervous and a little scared.  It's normal and can be a good thing as long as  you can control it so you're not a total stuttering idiot around these people.  The best way to fight nerves is to be well prepared probably even over prepared.  You want to know your stuff so well that you're sitting there just hoping they ask you a question. 
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Mr Bread on August 08, 2013, 10:39:40 AM
My first big kid job, I used to stay up late every night studying accounting texts and software manuals, out of sheer terror.

Worked out well in the end.  Fear is a very effective motivator.

This is exactly right.  Don't listen to all these guys calling your out for being nervous and a little scared.  It's normal and can be a good thing as long as  you can control it so you're not a total stuttering idiot around these people.  The best way to fight nerves is to be well prepared probably even over prepared.  You want to know your stuff so well that you're sitting there just hoping they ask you a question.

You sound like an awful person.  Like someone that is just terrible to be around or interact with.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: CNS on August 08, 2013, 10:50:16 AM
My first big kid job, I used to stay up late every night studying accounting texts and software manuals, out of sheer terror.

Worked out well in the end.  Fear is a very effective motivator.

This is exactly right.  Don't listen to all these guys calling your out for being nervous and a little scared.  It's normal and can be a good thing as long as  you can control it so you're not a total stuttering idiot around these people.  The best way to fight nerves is to be well prepared probably even over prepared.  You want to know your stuff so well that you're sitting there just hoping they ask you a question.

You sound like an awful person.  Like someone that is just terrible to be around or interact with.

I am expecting a very well prepared and technically sound post in response to that.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: kostakio on August 08, 2013, 11:08:01 AM
My first big kid job, I used to stay up late every night studying accounting texts and software manuals, out of sheer terror.

Worked out well in the end.  Fear is a very effective motivator.

This is exactly right.  Don't listen to all these guys calling your out for being nervous and a little scared.  It's normal and can be a good thing as long as  you can control it so you're not a total stuttering idiot around these people.  The best way to fight nerves is to be well prepared probably even over prepared.  You want to know your stuff so well that you're sitting there just hoping they ask you a question.

You sound like an awful person.  Like someone that is just terrible to be around or interact with.

I think you'd be surprised.  I'm curious are you basing that off of this one post or my posting in general?  I don't really post here a whole lot. 
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Mr Bread on August 08, 2013, 11:11:52 AM
My first big kid job, I used to stay up late every night studying accounting texts and software manuals, out of sheer terror.

Worked out well in the end.  Fear is a very effective motivator.

This is exactly right.  Don't listen to all these guys calling your out for being nervous and a little scared.  It's normal and can be a good thing as long as  you can control it so you're not a total stuttering idiot around these people.  The best way to fight nerves is to be well prepared probably even over prepared.  You want to know your stuff so well that you're sitting there just hoping they ask you a question.

You sound like an awful person.  Like someone that is just terrible to be around or interact with.

I think you'd be surprised.  I'm curious are you basing that off of this one post or my posting in general?  I don't really post here a whole lot.

The above.  I don't recall having read anything else you've posted.  I would be very surprised if I wasn't 100% correct.  Your advice was to be good at your job.  No crap?  Really ground breaking stuff there.  It was also for fanning to put in more time rather than just try to look the part.  rough ridin' fanning.  JFC.  Verdict: you're terrible.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: sys on August 08, 2013, 01:15:24 PM
you probably won't be scared anymore when you figure out how incredibly rough ridin' easy your job is.  give yourself a month.
Title: Re: Did you guys ever get nervous at your first big boy job?
Post by: Fedor on August 08, 2013, 01:16:55 PM
Fake it until you make it, Wacky.