My god, chum1, give it a rest. Look, maybe it was wrong of me to spurn your sexual advances all those years ago, but as I told you then, I'm not into guys, and the herpes sores weirded me out.
Geez, it was way back in college. Why are you still obsessing over me? I DON'T LIKE GUYS! I have some gay friends who might be interested in you if you've cleaned up that herpes (and lost weight, and discovered deodorant soap), but I'm not interested in the least. I'm sorry if I broke your heart, but you should move on. By obsessing like this, you're only hurting yourself.
In fact, PM me ... I might know of a good support group for you.