Could you own a house and have a family at the same time? UMKC has a flex program that is part time and takes 5 years max.
I'm sure you could figure something out, especially if you have another source of income. If you go to UMKC, you'd better want to work in KC. From what I've heard, that degree doesn't travel especially well, but that could just be rumor.
If you don't mind me asking, how much did your first job pay, ballpark? I'm not ashamed of saying money would be a big influence on whether or not I look closer at this.
My job is on the low end, because I was looking for things besides money. The range, starting out, is generally $35,000-$180,000, which kinda breaks down as follows:
$35,000 - entry-level county government positions (40-hour workweeks, generally...low pressure)
$40,000 - entry-level state government positions. (see above)
$40,000-$50,000 - new associates in firms in towns like Lawrence or Manhattan (50 hour workweeks, generally)
$80,000 - $120,000 - new associates in firms in Kansas City/Wichita (60-80 hour workweeks)
$120,000 - $180,000 - new associates in firms in Chicago, Dallas, DC, NY (168 hour workweeks)