You don't have long term success by being a butt kisser. Stoops isn't a recruiting whiz because he kisses butt, he's a recruiting whiz because he wins and puts players in the NFL. By and large that is what will attract the most quality recruits over the long haul. How many recruit's doors were opened by Snyder puckering up?
I guarantee you Bob Stoops can kiss a 5 star 17 year old's ass (or handler's ass) with the best of them. Snyder, too. Obviously, a winning track record will get you further, but Ron doesn't exactly have that luxury, does he?
You even contradict yourself later by saying that Prince's job is to "set Butler straight." Setting someone straight and kissing their butt are not complementary actions.
That's just poor wording on my part. I'm trying to say they need to be on the same page. They need to have a good relationship...at least good enough too prevent Butler from spouting falsehoods to the media. Prince should have already known about Butler's issue with DeLarue, explained his reasoning for not extending an offer, address any other concerns Butler has with KSU recruiting, tell him to call him at any time with any future concerns, and ask that it not be discussed in the media.
And you ducked the question about the actual impact of Prince's comments. Talking about the impact it could have versus the impact you think it DID have is weak, especially given your willingness to lambaste Prince over it. What do you think Butler's advice was regarding KSU prior to the comment, and how do you think it's changed?
Jesus Christ, I can't read Butler's mind. All I know is that Prince came off as a dick. So, I would think that if Butler was telling kids that "KSU's coach neglects Kansas recruits" before the comments, he would now tell them that "KSU's dickhead of a coach neglects Kansas recruits". Maybe he already thought Prince was a dickhead before the Catbacker event. In that case, it probably had little impact.
The most likely scenario is that the comment doesn't change squat.
Even if all your nonsense is true, why risk it? Ron needs to keep his mouth shut and work on improving ties with Butler.