I personally don't think raising kids is that expensive right now
I think it's really expensive to raise kids.
What expenses are you incurring?
Aside from the childcare, food, diapers, crib, clothes, carseats, stroller, eventually needing a bigger house, nothing much.
It didn’t prevent me from having a child (and about to have another here soon), but there’s a lot of expense. And that’s the reason a lot of people give when they say they’re not having kids.