As many of you know, I am the first born son of a second son, but I have risen above my station in life through clever maneuvering and a strategic and prosperous alliance with my wife.
Having sired three boys and with the oldest now readying for his proper schooling and having survived the ravages of his first 3 winters, my thoughts turn to the future. While my seed has been strong enough to all but guarantee my name will survive, to strengthen and consolidate my family's power, I will need to ensure that no mistakes or stupidity on the part of my progeny spoils our good name.
For those who have not yet produced an heir, what are you doing today to ensure that you pass on your kingdom to your flesh and blood?
A few other questions:
1) what is your line of succession looking like? any potential rivals within your family?
2) what are your plans for your second sons? military service? eyes on the papacy?
3) how have you marginalized any bastards or potential claimants from relatives that threaten your claim?
4) what will you look for when finding a match for your heir? (strong house, wealth, wit?)