I was so excited to see this topic on the list, imagine my disappointment reading this
I was anticipating Rachel Ray jokes and ig posts about hamburgers.
Yes, Becky is a term that black women use for white women, usually derogatory.
Yes, Becky is also a term used as a blow job given by a white woman.
If you want to be a victimized white person you can make the argument that Beyonce is racist, but its worth noting that there are a few black women rumored to be Becky with the good hair. Also worth noting that "good hair" is almost always used by one black person to describe another black person.
I call my wife Becky all of the time I find it funnier than she does. Also I don't know what the hell wetwillie is talking about when he talks about there being no Beckys, there were two in my wedding, my brother in law was engaged to a Becky before ironically breaking it off and he's now dating a black woman, and I've hired four women named Becky in the last three years. White people love the name Becky.