mrs gooch, rate the all weather floor mats i bought her for Christmas for her new car on a scale of 1 (bad) to 5 (GREAT!).
As long as that is a tiny gift in addition to her real gift, it is fine. If it is the only gift then 1.
tiny gift? wtf son, they were $150.
she has more gifts though (also got her a new iphone lightning cable!) 1-5?
Did she ask for the floor mats or in any way indicate that she wanted them. I guess that makes a big difference.
Also, are your finances combined? That makes a difference too, IMO.
there are things we want in this world, and things we need.
personally, i would rather spend my money on crap i want. so i prefer that people buy me crap that i need.
we do not combine our finances, can't imagine living in a world like that.
but, we picked up her new car on saturday (ice storm) and it rained the days following. she needed those damn mats. and now, because of amazon prime 2 day free shipping, and my loving heart, the all weather mats are sitting in her foyer waiting on her to get home from work (she knows that they are there because i went to her house and moved them inside and texted her that they showed up).
it's a Christmas miracle.