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Re: Tipping Bartenders
« Reply #125 on: January 22, 2014, 12:57:22 PM »
wait, people don't tip coffee people? i always do.

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« Reply #126 on: January 22, 2014, 12:58:04 PM »
what about people that tip the airport shuttle bus driver?  dumb.

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Re: Tipping Bartenders
« Reply #127 on: January 22, 2014, 12:58:15 PM »
I would say our system of tipping is superior to Europe's system.  Dining out or drinking there is a mess.

europe is a diverse place.  i personally have preferred eating in european (and mexican) restaurants to american.  i don't find eating out at most american restaurants at all enjoyable.

I just hate waiting forever for everything.  I should be greeted within 5 minutes of being seated, I should be brought my first drink within minutes of ordering it, and I should be offered a replacement before it's empty. 

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Re: Tipping Bartenders
« Reply #128 on: January 22, 2014, 12:59:40 PM »
Also, I don't tip my trash collector people because where would I leave the tip??

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Re: Tipping Bartenders
« Reply #129 on: January 22, 2014, 01:00:24 PM »
I would say our system of tipping is superior to Europe's system.  Dining out or drinking there is a mess.

say whaaaaaat  :sdeek:

no tipping ever seems less messy than fumbling around trying to figure out when to do it and when not do it

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Re: Tipping Bartenders
« Reply #130 on: January 22, 2014, 01:05:12 PM »
I would say our system of tipping is superior to Europe's system.  Dining out or drinking there is a mess.

say whaaaaaat  :sdeek:

no tipping ever seems less messy than fumbling around trying to figure out when to do it and when not do it

Sure it may seem counter intuitive, but it's true.  You want to get in, get drunk, and get on with your life, the US is the place to go.  I can't imagine being a bar or restaurant owner in Europe, paying full salaries and benefits to people who don't even attempt to bust their ass for you. 

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« Reply #131 on: January 22, 2014, 01:10:35 PM »
oh ok, so when you said "dining out or drinking" you meant "owning or operating a restaurant or bar"

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« Reply #132 on: January 22, 2014, 01:11:06 PM »
oh ok, so when you said "dining out or drinking" you meant "owning or operating a restaurant or bar"

I argue that our system is superior for the client, the staff, and the owner. 

EDIT:  Well maybe not the staff but who cares about the peasants ya know?

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Re: Tipping Bartenders
« Reply #133 on: January 22, 2014, 01:16:40 PM »
I should be greeted within 5 minutes of being seated, I should be brought my first drink within minutes of ordering it, and I should be offered a replacement before it's empty.

americans don't like to request a waiter's attention.  i understand that, i find it uncomfortable myself.  luckily i normally eat with someone who grew up in a different cultural milieu, and who doesn't find it at all uncomfortable.

and i detest having waiters constantly asking if i'm content, how my food tastes, if i need anything, etc.  so it's the best of both worlds for me.
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Re: Tipping Bartenders
« Reply #134 on: January 22, 2014, 01:17:05 PM »
are there any examples of U.S. full service restaurants that do not allow tipping?

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Re: Tipping Bartenders
« Reply #135 on: January 22, 2014, 01:17:37 PM »
I should be greeted within 5 minutes of being seated, I should be brought my first drink within minutes of ordering it, and I should be offered a replacement before it's empty.

americans don't like to request a waiter's attention.  i understand that, i find it uncomfortable myself.  luckily i normally eat with someone who grew up in a different cultural milieu, and who doesn't find it at all uncomfortable.

and i detest having waiters constantly asking if i'm content, how my food tastes, if i need anything, etc.  so it's the best of both worlds for me.

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Re: Tipping Bartenders
« Reply #136 on: January 22, 2014, 01:18:59 PM »
I tip for carryout. I tip the delivery driver. I tip the airport shuttle guy/gal if they are quick and friendly but not annoying.

I tip bartenders a buck per drink or about 20% if I run a tab.

I tip 10-15% at restaurants if I get poor service. If I get good service or better, then 20% plus.

If my wife drinks water, I always add in a few extra dollars to the bill when I figure the tip. Delivering water takes just as much time as delivering a diet coke or a beer.

I tip my hair cutting lady 20% for each cut and I throw in an extra $20 for my last haircut before Christmas.

I tip the garbage man if I happen to see him/her within the last couple weeks of the year. Same as the mailman, but I don't worry about it if I miss them.

That about sums up the tipping for dobber.

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Re: Tipping Bartenders
« Reply #137 on: January 22, 2014, 01:20:22 PM »
I tip for carryout. I tip the delivery driver. I tip the airport shuttle guy/gal if they are quick and friendly but not annoying.

I tip bartenders a buck per drink or about 20% if I run a tab.

I tip 10-15% at restaurants if I get poor service. If I get good service or better, then 20% plus.

If my wife drinks water, I always add in a few extra dollars to the bill when I figure the tip. Delivering water takes just as much time as delivering a diet coke or a beer.

I tip my hair cutting lady 20% for each cut and I throw in an extra $20 for my last haircut before Christmas.

I tip the garbage man if I happen to see him/her within the last couple weeks of the year. Same as the mailman, but I don't worry about it if I miss them.

That about sums up the tipping for dobber.

You are a good person, dobber.

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Re: Tipping Bartenders
« Reply #138 on: January 22, 2014, 01:24:05 PM »
are there any examples of U.S. full service restaurants that do not allow tipping?

Was going to say this place but I guess they just couldn't stop elite EMAWs from tipping.

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Re: Tipping Bartenders
« Reply #139 on: January 22, 2014, 01:26:39 PM »
dobber, I don't know you irl (yet), but you sound like a complete stud.

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Re: Tipping Bartenders
« Reply #140 on: January 22, 2014, 01:28:54 PM »
the world would be a better place if more people were like dobber.

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Re: Tipping Bartenders
« Reply #141 on: January 22, 2014, 01:31:33 PM »
I should be greeted within 5 minutes of being seated, I should be brought my first drink within minutes of ordering it, and I should be offered a replacement before it's empty.

americans don't like to request a waiter's attention.  i understand that, i find it uncomfortable myself.  luckily i normally eat with someone who grew up in a different cultural milieu, and who doesn't find it at all uncomfortable.

and i detest having waiters constantly asking if i'm content, how my food tastes, if i need anything, etc.  so it's the best of both worlds for me.

aspie noted

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« Reply #142 on: January 22, 2014, 01:40:54 PM »
dobber, I don't know you irl (yet), but you sound like a complete stud.
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« Reply #143 on: January 22, 2014, 01:43:12 PM »
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Re: Tipping Bartenders
« Reply #144 on: January 22, 2014, 01:43:33 PM »
I should be greeted within 5 minutes of being seated, I should be brought my first drink within minutes of ordering it, and I should be offered a replacement before it's empty.

americans don't like to request a waiter's attention.  i understand that, i find it uncomfortable myself.  luckily i normally eat with someone who grew up in a different cultural milieu, and who doesn't find it at all uncomfortable.

and i detest having waiters constantly asking if i'm content, how my food tastes, if i need anything, etc.  so it's the best of both worlds for me.

aspie noted


the only time I find it very annoying is when I have just taken a bite of food and then they ask so how is everything today

 :dubious: well give me about 10 seconds to chew and swallow and I'll tell you

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« Reply #145 on: January 22, 2014, 01:50:55 PM »

Oh, and the tax thing.

What about "the tax thing," TC? Please inform me.  :whistle1:

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« Reply #146 on: January 22, 2014, 02:00:18 PM »

Oh, and the tax thing.

What about "the tax thing," TC? Please inform me.  :whistle1:

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« Reply #147 on: January 22, 2014, 03:32:08 PM »
T's and P's on having a crappy childhood with no friends, rake.

you've described by adult life, not my childhood.  :D

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« Reply #148 on: January 22, 2014, 05:13:41 PM »
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« Reply #149 on: January 22, 2014, 05:25:05 PM »
T's and P's on having a crappy childhood with no friends, rake.

you've described by adult life, not my childhood.  :D
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