just had a "sweet" tamale. not really a fan. had like rasins instead of meat.
what kind of monster does this
real certified mexican (american)
He was/is trolling you very hard. Sounds absolutely disgusting.
Nope. Can verify (and I'm a bona fide Mexican-American) that this is a real thing. Sweet tamales have never been my favorite, but they were a staple of our family Christmas/New Year's gatherings. They were always the last ones left though. While not as disgusting as fruit cake, they are similar in desirability in my book.
Also, no need to have to use a specific tamal steamer - a regular old pot with a veggie steamer or similar way to elevate the tamales will work too. As Pete mentioned, the process is tedious and lengthy only because of the multi-step preparation required. The more hands in assembling the tamales the better - it's a family bonding experience.
My family only goes with corn husk wrappers (we're Northerners), but others use the banana/plantain leaf. Also, other cultures (within Mexico and the Caribbean/Central America) use other things in their masa, and stuffing too: root vegetables (Puerto Rico) for masa, rice in the masa (Central America), olives (watch your molars and fillings if they aren't pitted!) in the filling, etc..
Enjoy!