CNSWife and I usually just designate a certain amt and put it away for our next trip. We usually plan our trips around this time of the year for that reason and so that they feel like a present.
This year? MLS Cup tickets. I bought them, she designated them out gift to each other and we had an absolutely drunken fantastic RSL face mushing time. Now for my soon coming Bday I need new Maui Jim's because they got completely broken during our Xmas present.
We have done the no gift route too. Both of our Bdays are within like 3 wks of xmas, so sometimes we don't do xmas and just do a combo bday gift later.
We are pretty Meh about it all.