Can you please answer kostakio's question about what women see in Ron? Is it the money?
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In many cases it probably is the money, but not in mine. It is difficult to explain, and this may be hard to believe (and maybe try to hold back on judging me for buying this bs). We met on a Hertz rental car bus in LA. We corresponded. He told me he had never in his life felt the way he felt about me. (I can hear you laughing.) It did not take long and I was completely convinced that he was the most genuine, kind-hearted man ever. He told me to "feel safe in my arms and in my life." (Okay, let's remember in the midst of the hilarity that I believed ever single word of this.) He told me that for the first time in my life, my man had my back. When you are a strong woman with a career and resources, people just think you've got it. He knew exactly what to say; for the first time ever, you have a partner who will stand beside you (unless he is one of those people who lies to get what he wants...didn't see that coming).
This is the same guy who sent me to have Christmas dinner with his kids and mother at the rest home while he was arranging a little get-away with his other girlfriend as soon as he could get rid of me (the glorified babysitter).
This may not be helpful. The fact that he can get into anyone's life (and/or pants) is astonishing and I can't figure it out. It's like hypnosis or something. Was kinda hoping someone out there could explain it to me.
