Undivided attention is nice (or at least not too off-putting). It's the unrestrained contempt and judgment that is less than inviting. All of you seem to be familiar with Ron's creepy womanizing and weird ability to sell gallons of snake oil to otherwise intelligent people.
I have no idea what happened with Bunny. I've only read about it in chat strings. I live on the west coast and changed the course of my life to accommodate Ron. I didn't know he was an Internet meme or a known adulterer. I tended his children for a week (had Christmas dinner with his kids, mine, and his mother, at the retirement home) a few days before he took time off to be with his other girlfriend. Oh. He forgot to tell me about that. (Here comes the judgment part of the chat...).